What to do if you like and fall in love with two people? I m so confused!

Choose your girlfriend People are like this When I've been with a person, I want to have a different relationship I think that feels good Falling in love is like playing a game At first, I thought this game was very good, but slowly I found that I was bored with it I didn't want to play it anymore I changed to another game to play The first floor is right.

I think you like that woman more than your girlfriend, then choose that woman's wood, why go against your will, that will only make more people miserable, it's better to make a choice early, choose that woman, or you and your girlfriend are thinking about it in your heart, but it's someone else, it's very unfair to her, it's better to break up directly.

Why, why is there always such a person? Actually, my ex-boyfriend is the same as you, but maybe what happened is different, and he broke up with me not long after kissing a girl.

It seems that I liked her a long time ago, and that girl confessed very actively.

It seems that the night they had that incident, he told me something like this, but in the end, when I cried on the other end of the **, I don't know if he knew I was crying, and in the end he said that he lied to me, but I had a strong feeling that it was true (we were long-distance lovers, and we were both students, so we broke up in the end, but I knew it wasn't for this reason), I don't know why the girl was farther away from him than me, and he chose her, maybe I didn't quite fit in, although I gave up It's because I know that he will be happier, he will be happier than he used to be (now they have broken up and have been in love for more than half a year, I don't know why, I just know that they love each other very much).

After listening to this story, do you think it looks very similar to yours?

There's a way I don't know if it's okay

If they both love you, then you go and tell the two girls that I'm in love with the other person and see how they react If both of them cry and beg you not to leave, both give up If one lets you stay with him and one lets you love the other girl, then choose the girl who lets you go because that girl loves you more If both of you wish you happiness Then I'm helpless You have to choose one for yourself It must be the one you love the most At least you won't regret it Although one of the girls will be miserable, but it will be like me In a few months or years I slowly forgot that although I still love it, but it doesn't hurt so much I don't know how to tell you because the choice can only be done by yourself If it's really hard then give up both of them Because they are running away No one to face what they should face shows that they are not mature enough.

It's destined to hurt a girl, so it's a painful thing, but falling out of love is really common, don't worry, they're all going to get better.

In fact, in my opinion, you don't like any girl, and what you care about is what happens when you are with her that shouldn't happen to your current age, you also said that you are only 17, and I am not far behind, I understand, once you touch it, you will be obsessed with it for a short time, it is like a beautiful old castle, giving people a mysterious power, driving your curiosity to explore, to discover, but when you taste the sweetness at the beginning you will fall deeper and deeper, But when your relationship is over, you will regret it, if you just feel that you are happy to be with her, maybe I will make you give up your girlfriend, but now I advise you, give up your attachment to him, cherish your current girlfriend, bury those impulses that are not suitable for your age in your heart, as long as you hold on, I believe you will be a good boyfriend.

After reading this passage of yours, I learned that there are two such good girls who are in love with you, and you love them very much, and now you don't know what to do? No matter which one you fail down, you'll feel a little sorry for them.

Ask yourself how you feel, who do you love more? Don't step on two boats at a time, you can only choose one, and if you step on two boats with one foot, then you are even more sorry for them.

If you choose one, you will only be sorry for the other, in fact, there is no one to be sorry for, and emotional matters are originally casual. Choose whoever you love more! Ask yourself how you feel.

But I think it's more likely that you'll choose the second one. If you really love the first girl, you won't fall in love with the second girl. You are actually in love with the second girl, which means that you still don't love the first girl deeply enough, and your love still can't stand the test.

See how different the way you love each one. If you find yourself in love with two people, the two may satisfy your different emotional needs. Finding out the different reasons why you love each one can help.

Think about your needs and desires. Our culture tends to value monogamy, both emotionally and physically. However, you may want and need something different from a relationship.

Consider your views on emotional monogamy. For some people, love must be monogamous. You may need to be emotionally and physically loyal to only one person.

Think about whether you have emotional problems. If you're in a relationship right now, falling in love with two people at the same time can be problematic. If you and your partner don't agree on an open relationship.

Well, judging from your description, well, you love a little bit of your wife, as long as it's a beautiful girl, you may like it, then you can't talk about whether you love it or not, you just like it, it's this girl who likes people's parents, to put it bluntly, it's that lustful, and she likes to mess with flowers and grass.

But, I still want to give you a little advice, in terms of feelings, you still have to be single-minded, don't do this, don't step on two boats like this, this is definitely not good, one will cause a harm to other girls, and people may not have a good result for you in the end.

When it comes to emotional matters, you still have to be professional, don't be too like that.

After reading your description, I understand your feelings. Your mood at this time is very conflicted. Don't know how to choose.

Everyone in life will encounter many choices. But no matter how hard it is, it doesn't matter how hard it is. To be responsible for yourself.

Also for. Be responsible for the people you love. A decision had to be made.

It's as if you're special. Favorite two skirts. You want to choose one that will be suitable for any occasion.

That is, the one that suits you best. You can't choose the prettiest one. It's the same thing.

It's the same with choosing a boyfriend. It's not about choosing the best, the best one. It's about choosing the one that suits you best.

The so-called fit refers to all aspects. You go through the pros and cons of various aspects, and weigh it again. You will be able to make the right choice.

For example, the other party's family. For example, the other party's work. For example, the character of the other person.

If I were you, I would choose my girlfriend, the one who missed it has already missed it, you can't choose you to marry two people in the end, you have to make a choice, you can only hurt one of them, otherwise you will hurt two people in the end.

My sister, who is four years older than you, you get along day and night, you have a certain emotional foundation, and you also confessed to her that you want to marry her when you grow up and take care of her for a lifetime. She is also meticulous to care for you, encourage you, so that you don't get distracted, admitted to a key university, you don't forget your roots, be the second Chen Shimei, although your classmates love you very much, but you can only choose one of them to be your lifelong partner, and the other as a friend to get along, and your parents also like your sister, the choice of Na is up to you, others can't participate in it. Whoever you choose, I wish you happiness!

Can you be sure that it's love for both people? I don't think we should jump to conclusions for now, look at the development situation after a while, and find out which one has more family affection, and which one can really be together for a lifetime, just let it be. I am not in a hurry to make a decision because I was too young and naïve, all my thoughts and things are immature, I just intuitively think that it is good to promise impulsively, and I can't do it, otherwise I won't have a relationship with the girls who came after, and besides, you have just been admitted to a key university, and you are still young, maybe it is not uncommon to have new ideas during college, so I suggest that you let time settle down, and as you gradually mature, you will naturally have the right choice.

There is a high probability that people you like will meet at the same time, and there are many chances of happening. What to do?

1. Don't forget that your time and energy are limited, and if you like it, you will be responsible, so it is recommended that if you like two at the same time, then you must not make a choice, and the first step you need to do is to alienate them and not chase any of them.

2. Don't forget, if you like two, you need to consciously please both, and you can't chase them because you are consciously estranged, you need to make them feel your liking.

3. Remember, treat them equally and there can be no difference, you know, they can actually feel your affection.

4. You must learn to date, date separately, don't confess, can't confess, and if you confess, you won't have a chance to choose.

5. Wait for the opportunity, the opportunity is that one of the two people always responds to your affection. Wait for him to confess.

How can you feel happiness by feeling your heart and thinking about your love? It's a choice'him', still'him'？Who can give you the warmest feelings?

Who can give you the most perfect happiness? Who can give you the longest love? Think with your heart, feel with your feelings, there is only one most accurate answer, don't choose the wrong one, think about it, who is most in line with your mate selection?

Who best fits the image of Prince Charming in your heart. Don't make a mistake, because this is a fork in the road, and if you choose different people, you will take a different path, and you can't and can't turn back in the future. Libras can't be balanced forever, and if you compare them carefully, there will be one that suits you best.

You are a lucky person, there are two smart and beautiful women you like, but you can only grow old with one of them, it is heart-wrenching to hurt either one, it is up to you to make your own decision, and you should not decide who you want to be nice with too early, time will tell you the answer.

Situation & Analysis:

I really suspect that the landlord can't write ** before he asks questions. Let's take it seriously.

The eldest sister is the landlord's childhood sweetheart, who loves the landlord, and is destined to be the landlord's "increased edge", and is here to repay the favor. She will self-sacrifice to become the landlord, will encourage the landlord to be motivated, will pay silently, without considering herself, even if one day it will lead to a widening distance between the two parties and lose the landlord, as if the parents are selfless to their children.

Banhua is the love of the landlord, is the "luxury" of the landlord's feelings, has a common language with each other, and the landlord came into contact with the banhua as soon as he went to high school, indicating that the landlord did not "refuse" the banhua. At that time, the landlord began to plan to betray the big sister. "Refuse the pursuit of other girls", probably because they are not beautiful enough, and the beauty of the class flower is enough for the landlord to betray.

In short, the love of the big sister is a simple and deep love, like everyday rice, plain but life-sustaining. Banhua is a dessert, which makes the landlord want to stop. Both parties believe that it is true love, but the love of the big sister is more mixed with some moral burdens.

Suggestion: If the landlord knows who he has a sincere and deep relationship with, he can choose as he pleases, and marriage is based on feelings.

If you put aside the emotional factor and only talk about whether it is suitable or not, I personally think that the big sister is the partner who lives a dull life, and she is a virtuous helper who can make men concentrate on fighting for their careers. Banhua is a person who can make herself willing to give.

The landlord will make a decision as early as possible, so as not to be empty at both ends.

Hello, in reality, it is extremely rare to be like you, it should be normal to fall in love with two people at the same time, but it is difficult for them to like you equally, of course, the bad choice between the two is also the reason why you are currently entangled. But in any case, you can only choose one of them, it is impossible for both of them to be with you, it can only be said that it depends on which one is more suitable for you.

Love should be single-minded.

Although both girls like you, you can't step on two boats with one foot.

We have to be dedicated to our feelings, otherwise it is easy to lose more than we gain, and you may lose two girls at the same time.

No matter how good they are, how good they are, and how much you like them, this is not a reason for you to fall in love with or date two girls at the same time. First of all, we must abide by the law, our country implements monogamy, although you are not married, but morally it is not allowed, you should not be ambiguous with them, and making choices is the quality that an adult should have.

You can't love two people at the same time, you have to choose one of the two, and although they both love you, you always have to choose!