Should I continue with him?

A 50-year-old man has been married for 30 years, and he complained to the counselor that his married life has been unhappy for so many years, and the counselor asked him why he didn't divorce early, and he said that he always hoped to get better, so it has been delayed until now. Time is the best medicine for wounds, but it is not the solution to the problem, only action can really solve the problem.

Do you really love him?

Seeing that you are so troubled by these things, you must not love him so much, if you really love him deeply, then you will not care about these.

Since he feels that the two of them don't have such a deep emotional foundation, it is indeed a bit too much for him to do this.

Since the relationship is not so deep, and you feel that the two of you cannot agree on this basic concept, then separate as soon as possible and find someone who suits you. It shouldn't be difficult to come across. But no matter what, don't compare each of your boyfriends to each other, no one is perfect, and it's good to find someone who agrees with you on key issues.

You can't demand perfection in everything. Perfect.

Have you talked about this?。。

Could it be that he has something unspeakable?。。

Or maybe he's already used you as a wife.

I won't pay much attention to your side.

I took it for granted how two people were doing.

I don't know what to say.

Think for yourself.

For example, getting married and falling in love are two concepts.

The pursuit is different.

Marriage is about living.

Practical point. You won't notice the small details.

Love is to ask him to be considerate of you, care about you, and hold you like a treasure.

How can it be the same as me, the situation of the two of us is basically the same, he and I are also in a different place, and we have to supply the house together, in order to buy a house, he usually rarely buys me things, and he is not even willing to pay the bride price money for the engagement, what should I do? The same confusion.

Personally, I think it's better to consider it

First of all, as a man, he should take responsibility, so that he can eat soft rice, right?

There is a saying that a man who is willing to spend money for you does not necessarily love you

A man who won't spend money for you must not love you.

It's better to think about it.

I'm dizzy, do you want such a man too?

This kind of boy eats a bit of soft rice! I went out with my girlfriend and it was all my money! Because you're right, you can't get over face!

Is your boyfriend so thick-skinned? Maybe that's what he thinks, it's worth your money to be with you! I have this idea before I get married!

In the future, you will raise him, not him! Tell him about your confusion to his face! He'll give you the answer.

Give up, obviously.

I don't want to say anything else, your description has revealed too much of your helplessness, if you continue, you will not be able to correct your mentality. You'll always wonder he's such a person, why should I be with him.

It may be tiring, so give up slowly.

The idea of the AA system is there, it doesn't feel right, it's not a couple, like a business partner, two people together shouldn't care about these, as a man should take the initiative to bear these, maybe you are not the most loved in his heart, I think any man will give everything for the woman he loves.

It's more appropriate to be friends.

It's mostly up to you. I don't think it should be.

I advise you to give up