How to change a classmate relationship from unfamiliar to familiar 20

First of all, start with the person closest to you, such as your tablemate, or your front and back tables, pay attention to what they can help when you are fine, if you have something, you can also ask them for advice, such as borrowing something, etc., to keep smiling, polite, know how to say sorry and thank you, to understand the power of smiling, so that even if you don't know each other, you will have a good feeling, then you will know better in the future.

I don't usually like to talk.

But. I don't think there's anything sad about that

As long as you. Get along with everyone with a sincere heart.

Be more concerned about your classmates.

Help students in need.

I think someday.

They will feel your intentions.

Be good friends with you.

Even if you are not a good friend, you can at least be a good classmate.

Don't take it too seriously.

Have faith in yourself

Personality issues.

Sometimes it's hard to change this.

Even if you could, it would be blunt.

It doesn't have to be familiar with everyone.

As long as you are kind and sincere to everyone.

It's enough for you to take the initiative to smile when you meet.

People will get to know you slowly.

Hehe, you're too introverted, I don't like to talk, always waiting for others to take the initiative to greet me, so it's too passive, so there are not many friends, I'm now very active to greet others, I'm a freshman, I didn't adapt to it when I first started, I didn't know anyone, but slowly it's fine, everyone is a classmate, what can't I say, don't care what others think, just try it boldly, all strangers can become friends.

Be brave enough to take the initiative to greet them, and when everyone is talking together, you can also go and make a statement.

If anyone wants to help, do it yourself.

Don't go too far, be broad-minded, smile often, see people's question marks, and respond to requests.

That's it.

Two skin faces! But it has to be sincere. Otherwise, it will stiffen.

At the beginning, you should take the initiative to greet your classmates when you meet in the morning, don't always wait for others to greet you first, after getting used to it, everyone will naturally get acquainted, and there is nothing to be embarrassed about! In learning, if you don't understand, you should also take the initiative to ask the classmates around you, which is also a way to get along. In fact, every student should be very friendly!

Take the initiative to talk to your classmates if you don't have anything to do, for example, you can take the initiative to come forward if you meet on the road, and you can also participate in more group activities in the class, which is very conducive to improving the relationship.

I feel so embarrassed.,I've been in a bit awkward with a male classmate lately.,This needs to be combined with those things that get along with classmates.。

In fact, there is no need to think so much, students help each other, so that they can better learn from each other and make progress with each other.

Your classmate's mental performance is normal.

It's more polite that you don't go to play with them.

It will make your peers think that you are deliberately pretending to be cold.

I think you can have fun with your classmates.

They say theirs, you do yours, and there is no connection between the two. It is the best choice to be the most authentic self and show your truest side to others.

It feels like you're not big, it's an adolescent person.

They will say this because you are withdrawn and don't associate with them much.

You're not friends, they can say whatever they want when they're upset.

Go your own way and let others say go!

Maybe when I see that you don't speak, I think you're pretending.

Actually, you should be integrated into that collective.

It's classmates who will generally do it, after all, the feelings of classmates are there, if you don't do it, Liang Chun won't give you face, and you won't give face to Hu Qi's classmates in the class, but if there is one of the two of you who has too bad character, it's another matter.

Your dad is right! When you go out of school and go to society, you mainly rely on your parents, and I think it's best for you to follow your own preferences! Of course ( Lalala, if you have time at a high school party, go to it, the fate of the previous three years together is not a little bit, it doesn't mean that you have to use others to lay the foundation, I think it's just a simple social activity.

The ancients said: The friendship of a gentleman is as light as water. What I understand is that if you keep a certain distance from others, and if you keep a certain distance, you will magnify its advantages and ignore its shortcomings, and you can build limited trust and respect.

There is no need to ask friends to be perfect and meet your requirements, and you are not courting your wife, not to mention that husbands and wives also talk about raising their eyebrows and respecting each other. Remember, distance makes beauty!

Nowadays, there are three categories of friends in society:

The first type is entertainment friends, everyone together is to eat, drink and have fun, today you please, tomorrow I will be the east, basically do nothing serious. But it's a medium for you to make new friends, and if you don't mix in the circle, who remembers you?

The second type is interest friends, because of common interests or interest exchange and build trust and tacit understanding, as long as you have the resources that others need, how many such friends want, you don't have resources, they are gone.

The third type is interest-minded friends, we have common interests and hobbies, and we don't care too much about the gains and losses of each other, most of these friends are made when they are in school, without the entanglement of interests, and you will know in the future that these friends are the ones who are willing to pull you when you are unlucky.

There is a saying that is true. At home, I rely on my parents, and I rely on my friends when I go out, and we are about the same age. But I've been working for almost 2 years. I was in the engineering unit, and my father was also in this unit.

I also ran quite a few places. That's all I can say to you.

Get to know one more person. There is only good for you, there is no harm in entering society, and later your development life and everything else. Have a lot to do with your friends, so the more friends the better.

To tell the truth, when people reach the end of their rope, no one can rely on them, even their parents, so they can only rely on themselves. Making yourself strong is more important than anything else.

Personally, I think that socializing and making friends are different concepts, depending on how you define "friends". The person who can play enriches your life, and that is your spiritual wealth. And those who deliberately cater to you are only the ones who have a financial interest in you.

There is nothing contradictory about making true friends. Let's let the interaction between people take its course. Just like the person you think you can talk to, you can talk to him more, and you don't have to rack your brains and deliberately cater to the person you can't talk to.

College was a wonderful time. I hope you take a good grasp of it, and don't ignore the real emotions because of some practical problems.

1: For yourself, true brothers should be cherished, often a person can really say everything to friends is really few, so do choose true friends.

2: For society, we must not deliberately cater to some people who are not too close, just have a superficial relationship. In fact, people have interests, too rich and powerful people, go to make friends with him, people may not necessarily take a fancy to him, just make some according to their own situation.

3: People are constantly growing, as long as they are sincere and optimistic, so that they don't have to think deliberately, they will naturally have more friends, how good is this.

1 If someone approaches you, you should ignore him, and you don't have to be a friend right away.2 Find out what kind of friend you want.

3 You know that your family is in good condition, and you should pay attention when you make friends.

4 Don't think too much, college is just a job, and not many people bring their school friends to society.

5 It's not good to rely too much on housekeeping, at least let my friends understand that I don't rely on my parents, that is, I don't spend my parents' money (in fact, I tell people with bad intentions that I don't have money).

6 Don't rely on friends in society, you yourself can create benefits for them, things will be very easy to make friends are difficult to find, once there is to cherish.

I think it's a matter of your personality, and it's not that it's bad, it's your own choice. A classmate is also fate, you don't need to deliberately cater to it, everyone can say hello and nod, and if you meet separately in the future, you will learn more. When you step into the society alone, you will find the importance of old classmates, not necessarily have a good relationship with him, but seeing him will bring back your previous memories, and you will cherish the relationship between classmates.

So I think now you feel like you don't get along with some people, but it's good to nod and say hello, and when you meet again in the future (especially in other places), you may feel very nostalgic, but if you refuse all contacts now, then the regret will be over.

Your parents' statement is not right, this society is full of networks, success is equal to 30% of the effort + 70% of the network, do not make friends, do not contact classmates, ** to the network, how to go in the future? I would like to introduce you to this book "Devil's Networking", and after reading this book, you will know the importance of making friends.

First of all, think about why some people always make a lot of good friends. And how do you want to make friends with others? When you have a crush on someone, you want to be very good friends with him or her, why?

Because there is something about him or her that attracts you According to what I know1He (she) is very fashionable and temperamental 2He (she) has a wide circle of friends and strong social skills, so he (she) has a lot of friends, and when he or she is in trouble, his friends will stand up to help him It is estimated that you also want to be 2 such people.

You have 4 ways 1You are wealthy, and you can often eat, drink and be merry with them 2You're good at a certain trend 3

There are not many friends anymore, and one or two confidants are enough. No one is reliable, really, there are only parents in the world, and their own brothers and sisters can't do it. Since you don't like it, why force a smile, I'm like you, I have very few friends, but those so-called friends are afraid of you at the critical moment.

Everything goes with the flow, and you don't have to force yourself.

If you have friends who have a good time, go for it, if you don't have a friend with you, your situation is normal, and many people are like this.

To tell the truth, there are very few classmates who can communicate with all, from junior high school to high school and college society, these stages, the feeling of friends is also changing, if your starting point is to use him, so that you can't make real friends, in fact, there are three or two true friends, and you can't be sincere if you have more friends, but the friends you made during college are still okay, and it will help you a lot to enter the society in the future, this circle is still very wide, if you don't have your own interpersonal circle after entering the society, it is rare to do things, and connections are money, The social circle should be wide, but this is not a friend from your student days when you can tell the truth, so there are several types of friends, and the way of communication is different, but there is one that is the same, and only in this way can you make friends, which is "sincere".

Let me tell you: what they say is partly true, just absorb the essence. Be yourself, the world is just you, get along friendly, all problems are!

Don't be too snobbish, if you make friends with a very utilitarian heart, you will never have a close friend. I'm also in college, what kind of boys are the most popular? It's the kind of boy who is very sincere, cheerful, and self-motivated!

Don't think about what to do in the society first, let's get your college relationships right. First of all, your charisma is very important, which requires your moral standards and so on, so I won't say much. If you can help others, you have to do your best to help, don't be lazy!!

Don't be too fake when chatting with friends, just say what you really think in your heart, maybe the words are not good, but as long as you are sincere, naturally, your friends can feel it. In addition, I hope to actively participate in some activities that I hope can help you.

I have been in the same situation for 5 years, and I feel that it should be like this: first of all, social interaction is very important, and after you join the work, you are a small society in a company or unit. You have to learn to integrate with everyone.

Of course this is not absolute, many things vary from person to person, but society is like that. As you said, you don't want to associate with someone you don't know, but if this person is helpful in your work or life, and there is something worth learning from, you can still socialize. If you have more contacts, you will naturally have a sense of closeness.

Secondly, the relationship between friends and classmates also needs to be maintained, but it is difficult to maintain this relationship when you go your separate ways, everyone has their own things, especially after starting a family, unless it is a very good classmate.

It should be said that you don't have any friends, making friends is not familiar or not, but whether you can help in an accident.

Listen to your parents' words, and your interpersonal relationships won't fall behind! I have a bottom in my heart, right, don't people who are so big still think about it, your parents want you to be good, and your friends can give you advice when you are in trouble, both of them, so there will be no contradictions.

The only people who can really rely on this world are your parents, not your relatives. Friends are just a relationship of wine and meat, and they use each other. You'll understand that later.