Why do men want to give me back what they gave me after they break up? 100

This kind of man who wants to pay back things is generally stingy and feels that he has to get his money back after breaking up. It's better for this kind of guy to break up, I wish you to find the right person soon.

As the saying goes, love is as deep as hatred is deep. Now that they have broken up. What was once love has been transformed into hate.

There is always some unwillingness. That's why such a request is made. And you loved each other before you broke up.

After the breakup, they still love each other. So there is no such experience.

The one who can't get you, but he still has to recover his input costs, so that the loss is less.

This man feels that after breaking up with you, he will have to break up completely, he doesn't want to have any contact with you, and she wants to come back what he gave you. The ruthlessness of separation. He doesn't want to have anything to do with you at all.

You both have a history of marriage, you have both passed the most romantic time in love, and you are quite realistic, so they will realistically return what they have paid!

Because the things he gave away before were more expensive, he felt that he had lost money, so he asked you to return the things he gave you.

This may be the same type you meet, generally there are not too many men of this kind, but you are so lucky, you meet two at once, fortunately not married, he asks you for something, you ask him to sleep with him for the loss of reputation.

It's a coincidence that you've met these two ruthless and stingy men, so you're too kind, and they'll treat you like this, hoping that mine can help you.

In order to seek psychological comfort, I am not good for you and you can't be happy, all the efforts for you have to be returned, maybe this is his inner thoughts!

A man's pursuit of a woman is like an investment, and if the investment fails, he wants to get the principal back.

Because it is inevitable that the payout is worthless after the breakup.

After a breakup, it is not normal for a girl to return to him what she once gave her, because she thinks she wants to get his attention.

What to do with gifts after a breakup?

1. If no one makes a request from each other, they may handle it according to their own wishes.

After a breakup, most of the cases should fall into this category, that is, no one has been held accountable for past expenses. At this time, the gifts that belong to each other after the breakup can be handled according to their own wishes.

Some people don't want to see things and think about people after breaking up, or they already hate that person, so they will choose to collect all the gifts together, and then pack them collectively, and if they are reluctant to throw them away for the time being, they will be piled up in a corner where no one cares, and if they are ruthless, they will be dragged out and thrown in the trash.

2. The man or woman proposes to return the gift, or the expenses are liquidated under the AA system.

Some readers have shared their experiences before, and it is indeed a little speechless.

Specifically, after breaking up with her boyfriend, the other party asked her to pay all the expenses during his previous relationship, which was not much, totaling more than 20,000 yuan. But when the woman mentioned that she also had expenses, even much more than him, he said that it was voluntary and had nothing to do with him.

In this regard, some people said that since the other party wants to liquidate, it should be counted together, and he cannot be counted alone. Some people also say that since the other party can say such things, there is no doubt that he is a "scumbag", if the woman has this ability and does not want to trouble, she will be treated as a "meat bun beating a dog", too lazy to entangle.

Hello, this behavior is very correct, it varies from person to person, some boys will think that such girls are very easy to get along with and talk to, but some boys will feel that such girls are not worth dating and will not behave in the world, so it is still different from person to person! Hope it helps!

If you don't pay it back, you won't pay it back, what can you do in the face of such a person? can only say that you have seen a person clearly with these things, and you know that you will never get back together with him in the future, and you can see more clearly that these people will not be easily deceived when facing other men in the future. Some people may feel very disadvantaged, but what can you do when you meet such a person?

There's nothing you can do about him, call the police, and the police won't deal with it.

But if it were me, but when he asked me to do so, I would have made the same request, and if I wanted to give you all those things, then you should also give me back what I gave you. He sent me something, so I'll send it to him too, and I'm sure there's no way I'm going to let him take advantage of it alone. Although there have been many sweet pasts between us, but that is in the past after all, and now that you have to do so much after the breakup, then I will definitely not let you go.

The things I gave you are also the ones I worked hard to buy, so why should you go back with your things and mine without them? Since I'm going to break up, I definitely don't plan to get back together, let alone a big man who is so stingy, then I can't choose to continue to be with him. In such a situation, I will definitely bring back the gifts, I will ask for as many things as you ask me for, after all, when we were together, I gave you so many gifts.

Of course, if you find that he didn't send it to you after you send it, then you don't have any choice, after all, you have given him everything, what else can you do? But I don't think you should have any connection with him because of this, because he really doesn't deserve it. can only say that this time let you recognize this person, and let you know that the original relationship for so many years is really not worth it, and you must keep your eyes open next time.

You can go to the boy and ask the boy to return the gift, and if the boy is not willing to return the gift, let the boy lose money.

In the relationship, if you do this for a man, then it means that he is very stingy, and if the girl gives something, it can't be repaid, I suggest that the girl don't pay him back.

The boy should be told that if the other party does not send back the things sent by the girl, the things sent by the boy will not be returned to him.

Personally, I think that when encountering such a situation, it can't be as he wants, as long as he doesn't pay it back to himself, he won't pay it back to him.

This depends on the situation. If it is a more expensive gift, you can ask for it back. Forget about the general. , but also according to the reason for your breakup and your relationship after the breakup.

If I don't want to come back after the breakup, after all, the past is gone, I should let myself learn to let go, if it's a particularly valuable item, I will come back to reduce my losses.

No, since it's divided, it's divided, everything is in the past, there's no need to be more stiff, it's just a memory in life.

This shouldn't be, during the period of getting along, after all, there are feelings, and what is sent out also represents a part of one's own heart, and it will not be withdrawn because of separation.

If you break up, will you give back all the gifts you gave to your boyfriend? How do you say this? Some girls are ignorant, girls, he will definitely not return it, and some girls are very simple, they will definitely return it.

It doesn't need to be like this! Except for certain gifts that have "meaning"! To prevent future boys from misunderstanding, you can ask for it back! Don't worry about anything else! Breaking up is not an enemy!

See if it's anything particularly valuable, and if the amount involved is relatively large, I think I'll probably want to come back too! However, I recommend that when you are in love, the gift should not be too expensive.

I'm not going back.

If the gift is very valuable, why don't you come back, it is all carefully selected by yourself and purchased with money, and cannot be wasted on people who do not need it.

No, because of the peaceful breakup, since it is a gift to be given, there is no need to take it back, so it looks like a childishness.

I don't think it's necessary to take back the gifts that couples give each other during their relationship, and after breaking up, I won't consider giving them back to my ex as a gift or thank you.

If everyone is because of the process of getting along, there is a personality incompatibility, or the three views are incompatible, resulting in a rift in the relationship, even if you live under one roof, you may not have happiness, and the breakup may not be the best way to get rid of it. As the saying goes, goodbye is also a friend.

If, after the breakup, I am still thinking about getting my gift back from the other party, I feel that this is not the generosity that a person should have for love. When two people are together, it is not to carefully calculate what each other has paid for each other and what they have returned, but to fall in love is simply because of love, not because of loneliness or to ask for something. Breaking up is because you don't love, or it's not suitable to continue to torture each other, but also to let go and let everyone get better love.

It depends on what kind of gift it is, if it is a very valuable and very special gift, it will definitely come back, if it is not particularly valuable, the small sample gift that is usually used should be fed to the dog.