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Hehe, first of all, you ask yourself what you are going there for? Have you seriously thought about what you want to get in **?
Then, are you working towards what you want? Did you keep trying? Is it the slightest setback to be knocked out? (Think of your two brothers, who may have felt the same way as you.) )
Finally, in this society, you always have to deal with others, and you have to be harmonious. Are you dispensable there, or will others find it interesting to have you? Many times you can't change others, but you can change yourself.
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It's only a matter of time before you solve this puzzle, just get used to it. But there are some details to be aware of! Because any unit or enterprise, as a novice, may be excluded by others, and I am somewhat similar to you.
But you just have to bury your head in your own business, ignore everything else, don't discuss other people's rights and wrongs in front of anyone, and be careful not to deal with people, they don't teach you, you learn secretly! Do what they tell you to do it seriously! Slowly, they will like you.
Who doesn't like a well-behaved, sensible person?
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You must first maintain a humble attitude, it is common to be squeezed and bullied by others. People live in this world, who has not experienced a little hardship. You must be optimistic, if you really reach your limit, then you must ensure that you have the capital to change jobs, otherwise I advise you to do your job well.
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Ahem, landlord, I want to ask you a few questions:
What's the use of crying? Can it change the facts?
What's the use of dying? Is death a kind of escape?
What's the use of forcing a smile? Can you please others by pretending to be yourself?
It's useless to cry, not only did you waste your tear ducts and make your mood worse, but you still can't change any discomfort? It's useless to die, not only will the family be sad, but is it in vain to leave the world like this without knowing what you have been in this world for so long? It's useless to force laughter, happy is happy, unhappy is unhappy, there is nothing good in disguising yourself, but it will make people feel hypocritical and empty, right?
Why do you want to apologize to others? There are some things that are obviously not your fault, why apologize, wrong is wrong, yes, you can't bow your head!
Listen to Wang Leehom's "Change Yourself", "I want to change myself and change my fate." Fate is fair to everyone, and fate is in your own hands, isn't it?
I'm not you, you're not me, you're you, the only person in the world.
Who is perfect? It's gold, and sooner or later it will shine.
Isn't it cost-effective for you to kill your gold before it shines?
Be me, it won't be like this, I'll work hard and work hard to climb to the top of the world! Show those who used to look down on me and make them exclaim, "Wow, you're amazing, you're my idol!"
At that time, I disdained to look at the black crowd at my feet, and I was!
Say to yourself every day, "I can do it, I will do it." ”
Does crashing work now?
At best, it's a waste of your time, a waste of your mood, a waste of your spirit...
When you want to vent, pick up a textbook and read it, and the depression will naturally disappear.
If others look down on you, then let him admire you in the future; If he is scolded now, let him kneel down and apologize in the future; Apologize to him now, let him flatter later; Forced smile, "Smile, nothing can't be done"...
Landlord, you have to believe it, you are the best, unique in the world!
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How can life be smooth?
You've encountered the worst, will it be worse in the future?
I'm similar to you, I can relate to your feelings, really. I said to myself, what others say is someone else, I just need to take care of myself and don't care too much about those things. People live for themselves, and what kind of life they live depends on their own mentality.
It may not be satisfactory now, but it won't be like this for the rest of your life. Change jobs or something, go to do something else, maybe tired, but the mood is different, change the environment, change the mood.
No one else can help you with anything, because no one really understands how you feel, and you have to regulate yourself, you know?
I wish you a good idea.
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Yes, work is like this, work is for the sake of living a better life, don't complain about this, give yourself a firm belief, do something, show them that you are not weak and will do better than others.
Because I have such a belief that I am not ordinary, there is only one you, and there is no second person in the world who listens to the speech and has time to scatter his mind.
It will bring you a lot of joy and space.
I wish you a happy life and a successful career.
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Actually, it's fine.
Look at the opening point. Laughing and apologizing to others, it is modest.
It is worth encouraging. I used to be like that.
However, I wanted to open it.
As the saying goes, "I was born to be useful." ”
For a while, I was like that. I've also thought about it, forget it when you're dead.
However, the thought of my parents makes me feel much more relieved.
Let them apologize to you later.
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You don't need to care what others say, you are you, and no one can change you!
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Don't be discouraged, I have encountered worse situations in my life than you, but at that time I didn't think about dying, you know, after the difficulties are applause and rainbows The most important thing now is that you have to learn to be tolerant of yourself, and you must learn to accept others I suggest that you learn Tai Chi, which can balance yin and yang, and can improve your state of mind Listen to more Buddhist songs and look at the Diamond Sutra, have you ever seen some great monks who are very wise and have a very high state of mind.
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Hehe! I'm pretty much like you now! But there are two sides to everything! You think on the bright side! A person's life is still very long, and there will always be a cake that will come out one day.
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It's because I have a family, so I have to live like this.
If you have the ability to change yourself for the sake of your family.
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Sometimes I feel this way, but you have to believe that there will be people in this world who love you and care about you, and it is because of this belief that I will always be so strong to survive!
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Mood is everything.
Don't stop dancing with anklets.
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Can you see the sea in your city, when I am in a bad mood, I go to see the sea, blowing the cold wind, at least my heart can feel better.
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In fact, it depends on yourself, others look down on you, so you do one thing to make others look down on you. But what you said is too vague to know what kind of life situation you are in. But you at least have your family, no matter what others say, don't worry about him.
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If you want others to look up to you, then make some achievements to show those people. It's not so easy for people to be superficial. Only by suffering can you become a master!! 1
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You may have too high expectations of yourself, life is resilient, and you have to believe that your life will hit the bottom one day. You don't fail, you just haven't succeeded. Try hard, smile at those people, let them see their own darkness.
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I don't know what you're sad about, give yourself a little confidence...Cheer up....
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First of all, you should look at yourself, if you look down on yourself, then no one will look down on you. Secondly, have you ever considered whether you really have some problems in the way you deal with interpersonal relationships, you should communicate more with the people around you, and whether you are happy or unhappy is really only in a thought, it depends on how you deal with it. Everyone may have a light year when they are in a downturn Today you post this post to prove that you still have salvation You want to get more people's comfort and care Don't look for death for a little bit of life No matter how tall one is staring at us This is the third point I advise you.
Hopefully, the above insights will be helpful to you.
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Don't be discouraged, people make it. As long as you are brave and capable, others will look the other way. Man grinds in the world. Some things depend on how you look at them. Don't let bad emotions get in your way.
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It's a bit of a feeling of becoming an immortal, no matter how fast you run, you won't get tired, and you won't get tired for how long you run. And it's exciting.
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The world will not change because of anyone's sadness, be happy, look at the world with another mood, and the world will be different.
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There is a classic saying in the Tao Te Ching, if you want to be executed and then reborn, you say that your mood is extremely bad, then congratulations, you will not know the truth that things must be reversed, the opposite of the bad is of course better, you are about to see through, want to open, so you are relaxed...
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If you are an adult, you should know that your mood cannot be irrationally arbitrary, but must be regulated by reason. Both good and bad moods are a day, so why not be optimistic?!!
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Everyone has this ......Tell yourself: this is already the bottom, and there is nothing worse than hitting the bottom**
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I'm in the same mood as you, I'm in a bad mood, and I'm very angry psychologically and I don't know who to send it, and I feel like I'm going crazy if I continue like this.
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I can't help it, I'm alone all day.
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I'm okay, it's quite comfortable to stay at home during the National Day holiday
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As far as the eye can see, the world is full of sad people.
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I'm just like you, I started school the day after tomorrow and my homework was not finished.
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There are times when everyone is in a bad mood and you're not fighting alone.
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If you are in a bad mood, you must learn to release it yourself.
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Me too, I'm in a bad mood. I couldn't find a job, and my family kept making money for me. I didn't want to go, but I didn't want to disappoint my family.
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The tide rises and falls, look at the opening point. In the end, it's you who gets angry.
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This tragic exam ......This Nima's prejudice ......
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There will always be some people who try to open as much as possible.
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No money, no house, no car, no wife, you say sad, don't you feel sad.
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Happy everyone is happy together, and sadness is only yourself, the reason for happiness is mostly the same, and the unfortunate people have their own misfortunes.
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I'm in a good mood because I know life, and since I can't change my life, let's try to change myself first!
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Everyone has troubles, so it's inevitable that you'll be in a bad mood.
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There are times when you're in a bad mood, just like the weather, it's inevitable that there will be rainy days!
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First of all, I don't know how old you are, I guess you must be very young, the best thing to do is to find your best friend to have a cup of tea, or a little wine or something, just adjust it! Read more books in the future, such as books on mentality! Constantly improve your inner literacy, there will be few bad things in the future, I hope it will be useful to you!
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You can adjust yourself and do some imagination exercises. For example: imagine the prairie, the blue sea, the bright starry sky, the refreshing breeze, the faint mint fragrance, and so on.
You can imagine it in more detail. Slowly your heart will calm down and your mood will be much happier. The effect is very good.
Personal experience. Imagine something that you like and feel in your heart. If you're in a good mood, your luck will come back.
In addition, the pace of life slows down, savoring the subtleties of life, sipping a cup of tea slowly, and chewing the food in your hands carefully, all have the same effect. Good luck getting back to good times!!
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Not so long ago, anyone in the scientific community who dared to openly say that magnetic fields, weather or air pressure have an effect on human health would probably be dismissed as nonsense. However, according to the latest scientific research, weather changes do affect health, and a report in the US monthly magazine Discovery also pointed out that at least three US weather companies are ready to invest in the business of "weather and behavioral forecasting". A growing number of scientists, including Bossinger, a professor of neuroscience at Laurentian University in Canada, believe that climate has a direct causal relationship to people's mood.
Possinger said that many patients began to feel a few hours before the solar storm. If it's night, there's a faint feeling of dizziness or tingling, "and it's just a very faint, very faint magnetic field." He experimented with students with electromagnetic waves that were "as small as a computer desk" and found that students did feel less alert.
Drowsiness and other reactions.
Other scientists have also shown that the onset of diseases such as angina pectoris and toothache is linked to climate changes, such as knee arthritis, which is particularly painful when the weather turns cloudy. Scientists have proven in the laboratory that lower air pressure and higher humidity cause the patient's joints to accumulate more fluid, making the inflammation more severe. Of course, everyone understands that cold or hot weather is dangerous for the elderly and children, but the relationship between weather and health is difficult to measure accurately, and most people have a vague idea.
Stephen Petranek, general manager of Discovery, says we can't just tie a lot of people to a measuring instrument and wait for the weather to change. However, from the perspective of "biometeorology", the human body is like a giant detector that can distinguish changes in climate, such as the nervous system, which controls the expansion and contraction of blood vessels, and responds to even the slightest changes in electrical currents in the air.
Traditional Chinese medicine is also particularly sensitive to the changes in solar terms and hours, and believes that important solar terms or meridians (11 o'clock to 13 o'clock, 5 o'clock to 7 o'clock) are the most important times for old and frail people. Possinger said that the human body has the function to respond to changes at any time, and the weather is always changing, just like our mood.
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