What is the limit of your tolerance for the emotional history of your first marriage?

As you said, in today's society, you want to find a blank girlfriend boyfriend, unless it is elementary school, at most to college - of course, there are very few people who may still be blank after work, but the probability of meeting such a person is estimated to be lower than winning the lottery. Everyone has a history to a greater or lesser extent. My personal opinion, as long as it does not affect fertility and does not have children, it can be accepted.

But there is one point, after dating, you have to be loyal to each other, I can no matter how many friends you have slept with before, but after dating, I will never tolerate having an ambiguous relationship with anyone. I am a man, and I personally think that 6789 as a man should know how to protect women - if you can't get married in a short period of time, you should take protective measures, and you shouldn't try to get a woman pregnant quickly, once you can say that you are inexperienced or careless, but three or four times, I personally despise such a man! - If you love her, you should protect her, and if you don't love her, you should protect her.

4 or before.

This is the limit of my tolerance for myself and for him.

I think men have to be responsible, and I can't accept that if I've ever failed other girls like that.

Or that it doesn't matter if their thoughts and ideas are like that, I can't accept it.

In the same way, if I'm willing to do it for one person after 4, then there's no reason not to be together forever.

Whether I can grow old is not because of yesterday, but how to face tomorrow, so I only care about ...... from the day she snuggled in my armsWhether or not you love someone does not depend on whether she is pregnant, whether she has a love history, or even whether she has been married or has children!! Otherwise, it's not a love, it's just that you want to find a "suitable" partner to start a family!!

Everyone's outlook on love and values are different, but I believe that if you meet someone who truly loves and loves her deeply, you will feel that the above multiple choice questions are nonsense.

Because you can definitely give everything you have for the one you love. May there be lovers in the world who will eventually become married!

I'm a woman, so it's not true, and my requirement for a man is that he loves me now, has no children outside, and has never been married.

History of less than 3 pregnancies**.

That's my limit.

I'm a girl.

I mean, that's the limit of what I can tolerate my boyfriend doing to my ex-girlfriend.

2,9 You didn't say anything else! That's why I chose these two.

.I can't stand it! Besides, it is difficult to have children after more than three pregnancies!

It has to be the first love, otherwise it doesn't have to be talked about, my boyfriend and I are the first love, and we're about to get married.

None of this is the key, it's whether you really like someone or not.

I'm a woman and I think it's important to have bread.

If you have had a baby, you will not be able to have children in the future.

I know exactly how you feel now. Because I have a father like you. Regardless of the quarrel between his mother and him, the quarrel is always dominant.

All that inclusive patience is fake. Because it is impossible to persist for a lifetime. You're older than me, you're in your 20s.

I feel like you can support yourself with your own hands. After some time, the mother brought out the sea of suffering. Or, it could be bold to confront him openly.

The attention of countless pairs of eyes. We can't endure it unconditionally! Dare to stand up to him.

Because he is old, it is not right to say. If you continue to persevere, not only make yourself feel good, so he can not be right, but also affect your own concept. If you quarrel with him, try to say it in a respectful tone

Dad, I really don't know you more and more.

Not so good, he can only try to use his chatter. Chat not only hides. 。

I know exactly how you feel now. For I am your father. Regardless of his mother's quarrel with him, the quarrel is always dominant.

Inclusive patience is fake. Because it is impossible to live to stick. You're older than me, you're in your 20s.

I feel like you can support yourself with your own hands. After some time, the mother took Oliver. Or, it could be a bold open confrontation with him.

Countless eyes are watching. We can't endure it unconditionally! Dare to face him.

Because he is old, it is not right to say. If you continue to do this, not only make yourself feel good, so he can not be right, but also affect your own concept. If you quarrel with him, try to say it in a respectful tone

Dad, I really know you.

Not very well, he can only use his chatter. The chat was not only hidden. 。

I know very well how you feel right now. Because I have a father like you. Whether it is me or my mother, I quarrel with him, and a fight is always not dominant.

It's all false to say that tolerance and patience are all false. Because it is impossible to endure it for a lifetime. You're older than me, and you're in your twenties.

I feel like you can feed yourself with your own hands. After a while, it is better to bring my mother out of the sea of suffering. Or just be bold and confront him in public.

Because there are countless pairs of eyes paying attention. We can't put up with them unconditionally! You should be brave enough to resist him.

Because he is old, what he says and does is no longer right. If he continues to endure, he will not only make himself uncomfortable and unable to correct himself in time, but will also affect his own concept. If you quarrel with him, try to say in a respectful tone, "Dad, I really don't understand you anymore......”

If you can't do anything to him, you can only talk to him as much as possible. It's because you can't nag and you can only hide...

Be more tolerant, after all, the blood is there.

Ahem, landlord, I want to ask you a few questions:

What's the use of crying? Can it change the facts?

What's the use of dying? Is death a kind of escape?

What's the use of forcing a smile? Can you please others by pretending to be yourself?

It's useless to cry, not only did you waste your tear ducts and make your mood worse, but you still can't change any discomfort? It's useless to die, not only will the family be sad, but is it in vain to leave the world like this without knowing what you have been in this world for so long? It's useless to force laughter, happy is happy, unhappy is unhappy, there is nothing good in disguising yourself, but it will make people feel hypocritical and empty, right?

Why do you want to apologize to others? There are some things that are obviously not your fault, why apologize, wrong is wrong, yes, you can't bow your head!

Listen to Wang Leehom's "Change Yourself", "I want to change myself and change my fate." Fate is fair to everyone, and fate is in your own hands, isn't it?

I'm not you, you're not me, you're you, the only person in the world.

Who is perfect? It's gold, and sooner or later it will shine.

Isn't it cost-effective for you to kill your gold before it shines?

Be me, it won't be like this, I'll work hard and work hard to climb to the top of the world! Show those who used to look down on me and make them exclaim, "Wow, you're amazing, you're my idol!"

At that time, I disdained to look at the black crowd at my feet, and I was!

Say to yourself every day, "I can do it, I will do it." ”

Does crashing work now?

At best, it's a waste of your time, a waste of your mood, a waste of your spirit...

When you want to vent, pick up a textbook and read it, and the depression will naturally disappear.

If others look down on you, then let him admire you in the future; If he is scolded now, let him kneel down and apologize in the future; Apologize to him now, let him flatter later; Forced smile, "Smile, nothing can't be done"...

Landlord, you have to believe it, you are the best, unique in the world!

How can life be smooth?

You've encountered the worst, will it be worse in the future?

I'm similar to you, I can relate to your feelings, really. I said to myself, what others say is someone else, I just need to take care of myself and don't care too much about those things. People live for themselves, and what kind of life they live depends on their own mentality.

It may not be satisfactory now, but it won't be like this for the rest of your life. Change jobs or something, go to do something else, maybe tired, but the mood is different, change the environment, change the mood.

No one else can help you with anything, because no one really understands how you feel, and you have to regulate yourself, you know?

I wish you a good idea.

Yes, work is like this, work is for the sake of living a better life, don't complain about this, give yourself a firm belief, do something, show them that you are not weak and will do better than others.

Because I have such a belief that I am not ordinary, there is only one you, and there is no second person in the world who listens to the speech and has time to scatter his mind.

It will bring you a lot of joy and space.

I wish you a happy life and a successful career.

Actually, it's fine.

Look at the opening point. Laughing and apologizing to others, it is modest.

It is worth encouraging. I used to be like that.

However, I wanted to open it.

As the saying goes, "I was born to be useful." ”

For a while, I was like that. I've also thought about it, forget it when you're dead.

However, the thought of my parents makes me feel much more relieved.

Let them apologize to you later.

You don't need to care what others say, you are you, and no one can change you!

Don't be discouraged, I have encountered worse situations in my life than you, but at that time I didn't think about dying, you know, after the difficulties are applause and rainbows The most important thing now is that you have to learn to be tolerant of yourself, and you must learn to accept others I suggest that you learn Tai Chi, which can balance yin and yang, and can improve your state of mind Listen to more Buddhist songs and look at the Diamond Sutra, have you ever seen some great monks who are very wise and have a very high state of mind.

Hehe! I'm pretty much like you now! But there are two sides to everything! You think on the bright side! A person's life is still very long, and there will always be a cake that will come out one day.

It's because I have a family, so I have to live like this.

If you have the ability to change yourself for the sake of your family.

Sometimes I feel this way, but you have to believe that there will be people in this world who love you and care about you, and it is because of this belief that I will always be so strong to survive!

Mood is everything.

Don't stop dancing with anklets.

Can you see the sea in your city, when I am in a bad mood, I go to see the sea, blowing the cold wind, at least my heart can feel better.

In fact, it depends on yourself, others look down on you, so you do one thing to make others look down on you. But what you said is too vague to know what kind of life situation you are in. But you at least have your family, no matter what others say, don't worry about him.

If you want others to look up to you, then make some achievements to show those people. It's not so easy for people to be superficial. Only by suffering can you become a master!! 1

You may have too high expectations of yourself, life is resilient, and you have to believe that your life will hit the bottom one day. You don't fail, you just haven't succeeded. Try hard, smile at those people, let them see their own darkness.

I don't know what you're sad about, give yourself a little confidence...Cheer up....

First of all, you should look at yourself, if you look down on yourself, then no one will look down on you. Secondly, have you ever considered whether you really have some problems in the way you deal with interpersonal relationships, you should communicate more with the people around you, and whether you are happy or unhappy is really only in a thought, it depends on how you deal with it. Everyone may have a light year when they are in a downturn Today you post this post to prove that you still have salvation You want to get more people's comfort and care Don't look for death for a little bit of life No matter how tall one is staring at us This is the third point I advise you.

Hopefully, the above insights will be helpful to you.

Don't be discouraged, people make it. As long as you are brave and capable, others will look the other way. Man grinds in the world. Some things depend on how you look at them. Don't let bad emotions get in your way.

The world will not change because of anyone's sadness, be happy, look at the world with another mood, and the world will be different.

There is a classic saying in the Tao Te Ching, if you want to be executed and then reborn, you say that your mood is extremely bad, then congratulations, you will not know the truth that things must be reversed, the opposite of the bad is of course better, you are about to see through, want to open, so you are relaxed...

If you are an adult, you should know that your mood cannot be irrationally arbitrary, but must be regulated by reason. Both good and bad moods are a day, so why not be optimistic?!!

Everyone has this ......Tell yourself: this is already the bottom, and there is nothing worse than hitting the bottom**

I'm in the same mood as you, I'm in a bad mood, and I'm very angry psychologically and I don't know who to send it, and I feel like I'm going crazy if I continue like this.