Recently, I have been worried about my future and my future life。。。。。。。。

There is no shortage of people anywhere, there is a long queue everywhere Circles, relationships, and it is not easy to open a gap by yourself.

Not to mention in China, not to mention in China.

If you want to do whatever you want, you can only choose how to be chosen What do you do in a relatively closed environment like a small county town to be better chosen It seems that if you want to mix things up in China, it has not had much to do with the ability in the diploma.

Do small counties need capacity? For example, Japanese is not used in the local area, and the accountant doesn't seem to be able to do it just by finding someone, and the business assistant seems to just show that you have gone through a few troubled waters in society.

In general, the county is not very lacking in ability, relationalization, circle, and closure are relatively more serious, and if it is lacking, it may not be your turn, not to say that you will not be able to see the opportunity, let alone talk about choice?

Either you find a connection, or you don't stay in the county, or that's it.

It seems that what I'm saying is nonsense, which means that I didn't say it, but the reality is like this, there are more capable people, and most of them are not messing around.

What is your hometown? I am a second-level Japanese student and have studied accounting, so it should not be difficult to find a job in Dalian. There are many factors in finding a suitable and good job, such as family background, social relationships, etc., but in the end it depends on one's own positioning and observation of the social environment.

Opportunities are also an important factor, and if you have them, you can't miss them, and the wrong choice will cause regrets.

Maybe the job treatment here is not as good as you imagined, but you must know that there will definitely be a difference in the treatment between small counties and other places, and there are not as many opportunities as in other places, so don't expect too much, find a job that you are willing to and want to make a difference in this field, step by step. Don't ask for a salary upfront, but look at how much experience a job can bring to you. After some time, I believe you will definitely achieve something in this field, come on!

It's better to start your own business, if you don't have the funds, start some small business first, such as virtual recharge, I recently saw a bioalcohol oil project, I was very hesitant, I don't know if it's true or not.

Stay in a mobile partner to do customer service, specializing in running school business, more than two months of hard work to run down is indeed quite an idea, but the actual monthly salary is only more than 400 yuan, although the assessment is wrong, at the end of May will be made up by 1100, is the salary so low? China Mobile's customer service has three or four thousand every month, in addition to various benefits. It seems that your previous experience was in business, do you want to change careers now and become a general clerk assistant?

What you said about not being able to find a suitable job is a question of salary, or a problem of future development. You have to figure out what you really want now. I think that's the most important thing.

I don't know if your hometown is **, the most important thing in this country is the relationship, and the small county town in Chinese mainland needs this relationship even more. To be honest, it's not that you're not capable, it's that you're in an environment that isn't capable. A small county has a small county lifestyle, so why care too much about this money?

The most important thing for a woman to have a happy family is to find a good job, can it really make you happy? If you really care about work, then a different city may be more suitable for development, if you take the civil service exam, your academic qualifications and social connections may also make you fall into another circle, you will feel why you are always a clerk and can't be promoted to an official. Life is like this, the less you ask for, the more happiness you have.

It takes a situation to calm down and chase life.

"If you treat each day as if it were the last day of your life, you will one day find that everything is under control. From the day I read it, it had a profound impact on me. For years past, I looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself:

If today were the last day of my life, would I still be willing to do what I was supposed to do today? "When the answer was no for many days, I knew it was time to make a change.

When everything comes to death, it will vanish, leaving only what really matters. Of all the ways I know, reminding yourself that you're about to die is also the best way to avoid falling into the trap of "fear of loss." And it's a way to get you in the face of your heart.

People come and go naked, and there is no reason not to listen to the call of your heart.

Each of us will grow old and be sent out of the stage of life. I'm sorry to say it so dramatically, but that's what life is. We have limited time, so don't waste your time repeating other people's lives.

Don't let the noise of other people's opinions drown out your inner voice. The most important thing is to have the courage to follow your heart and your instincts, who may already know what you want to be. Everything else is secondary.

Treat each day as the end of your life, and you will truly understand the meaning of life!

This is normal, just like if you have expectations for life, you will involuntarily expect to have a happy and happy life, at this time you will be particularly worried about accidents in the future life, the uncertainty of the future will keep us in a state of uneasiness, a day is not determined, we will worry about a day.

I actually worry about this and that sometimes, and I rarely even talk to my boyfriend about my future life, because I worry that the life I imagine will happen to me in the future, like the tighter the sand in your hand, the faster it will flow. Sometimes the more you care about things, the more you care, the more you care, and always worry that your future life will get out of control and not be in our control.

I didn't think too much about it before, and I didn't take many things to heart, and I rarely thought about the future, always thinking that the future was still far away, even if it was a day, and I didn't want to think about things that hadn't yet arrived. But then as I got older and I got with my boyfriend, I would occasionally imagine my future life. But only occasionally think about it, will not often think, let alone take the imaginary life seriously, imagination is the most beautiful thing, if one day you find that the gap between your imaginary life and real life is getting bigger and bigger, the sense of anxiety and disappointment will occupy all your thoughts, life becomes a mess, the more chaotic.

With the people we love, with the desire for a better life, we will plan for ourselves, we all hope that the days will be better and better, the future will be happier and happier, and the future will not be controllable, then strive to make yourself better, so that you have the ability to change the existing life, life is no longer uncontrollable, when you find that you can control your own life one day, you will no longer worry about it.

I'm also always worried about the future, so why am I worried about the future more or less similar to you, so I'll talk about why I'm always worried about the future.

First of all, it's clear that I don't have any skills to do it. Now how fierce the competition in society is, I believe that people who live in this society know it, and as a person who does not have strong skills and excellent skills, I have no capital that can be compared with others, which makes me panic and have no bottom in my heart. I am afraid that I will be eliminated from this society as soon as I leave school in the future, and I will have no place in this society.

So, my lack of skills is the root of my worries about my future.

Besides, I still don't know what I like, what I want to do, I don't know anything about my future, I don't know anything about my future, I'm unprepared. It is said that "don't fight unprepared battles", and I am now the soldier who has no ** on the battlefield, just the fish and meat on the chopping board to be slaughtered. It's not that anyone has done a survey, which roughly means that among a group of experimenters, those with goals have the highest proportion of success and the most wealth.

I'm just afraid that in the future, I will achieve nothing, do nothing, live a life that I don't want, and my whole life will pass like this.

In addition, let's take the recent incident of a pregnant woman jumping off a building. First of all, giving birth hurts so much, and I don't want to get married or have children just thinking about that pain now. Besides, what should I do if my husband who marries in the future is like that, and my future mother-in-law is like that, I can't find a place to cry.

In general, because we can't see, predict, or control the future, we're worried. Now start doing things with your feet on the ground, and you'll have less to worry about.

You have to work hard yourself, worrying about being useless.

Achievements are one thing, the future is one thing. Good or bad grades are only part of the good or bad life in the future.

If you're always worried about what your future holds, it's best to focus on reality – I'll try to develop what I like, don't make anything worse what I don't like or don't good at, just keep it as it is. Why do I always worry about my future, in fact, I have high requirements for myself, if you like history and politics and **, read more works and articles in this area.

You have to go your own way, and family is just a part of your future path that will help you.

Maintaining the status quo and striving for better is what you have to do now.

Since you have your concerns, then as a person who has come over, I advise you to be only in junior high school, the road is still long, if you want to improve your learning, I advise you to play as few games as possible, pay more attention to the lectures, because as a student, everyone will have a few courses that they don't like to listen to, but if you can stop the lessons you don't like to listen to, don't you feel that you are great. Look you should be a pretty cheerful boy, tell you, in love, I personally still advocate, to put it bluntly, you can also communicate the feelings between the opposite sex, but don't be blind, don't fish for three days, dry the net for two days, fall in love but don't forget to study, so since you can meet the person you like, it's not a good thing to synthesize, good luck!

Of course, finding a girlfriend won't affect your studies, but falling out of love will

I look forward to it, but I don't worry too much. I think that a person who maintains a beautiful yearning for the future is the source of happiness in life. The future should be a place of hope.

In order to have a good future, a person must work hard and work hard, and as long as he throws himself into it, he will forget the fear of the future. Fear of getting old, worry about housing prices, fear of losing your job, fear of relationship problems, etc., these worries are not good for reality. People don't know what will happen in the future, but people can control their present.

Confused, entangled, and worried are a little bit of a person. From your question: you will be for yourself, you call everyone you, maybe your parents' worries, so that you have a lot less autonomy in life, and you don't regard the outside world as a big family, you are worried about your future is not as good as thinking about how to live meaningful, if you know what you want, of course, it will be much easier later, and most people in life do not know what they want, then I suggest that you might as well try to eliminate what you don't want, maybe what you want can gradually become clear.

Most of people's worries come from fear, fear of the unknown, so in addition to improving their cognition as they age, you also need to improve your knowledge and knowledge to help you face your fear rationally.

This problem is very realistic, I think the average child with a bad family background will think about and worry about their future, because I was a poor family since I was a child, my parents did not have much time to discipline me, so I dropped out of junior high school and dropped out of school, I thought I was free, I fought with the courage of the newborn calf not to be afraid of the tiger went to a number of strange cities, I was so hungry that I only ate one bag of instant noodles a day, every time I did work for a month or two impatient to change. I really didn't feel that my future needed to be planned. Later, I realized that I was in a hurry and learned a technique, hair cutting.

I studied with the master for a year, came out as an assistant for more than half a year, and now the hairstylist has been two and a half years. It can be regarded as a small plan for his future. I hope you can all make a plan for your future and give yourself an explanation for your future.

A young heart needs dreams to chase.

This is something that everyone is worried about, afraid of what will happen in the future, or afraid that the future self will not be successful enough, I once read a famous quote that probably reads: if you treat every day as if it were the last day of your life, you will one day find that everything is under your control. Every day, I would find half an hour in the evening to shut up and think about what I had done today and what was meaningless, and if this kind of thing happened, I would use a better way to solve it.

It's right to worry about your future, and since you're starting to worry, change yourself.