Am I doing the right thing? I don t know what to do

Well, it is normal for girls to be pursued by many men, but to do it, in the grass, the leaves do not stick to the body, it is still very difficult, people live in the world, there are many, many hearts and tired, in the current you, we outsiders, you are a little tired of your current boyfriend, and a novel man appears, such a scene is not exciting and shiny is certain, but what, when you choose the latter, you also appear in the situation, start to get tired of him, that's what will you do? I don't know how long you've been with your current boyfriend, how long have you been familiar, one is familiar and understands people, the other is someone who is not familiar with it just now, are you willing to gamble, or cherish the present, people have been together for a long time without getting tired and troubled, I personally think this is abnormal, but you are just a little bit away from the current love path, it is easy to come back, sometimes you have a little bit of sorry for each other's things, you feel that you owe her, you will cherish her more, (Just like the plot in the movie pre-marital love) hehe, always living in a sweet world, you will forget your sweetness, so you have to wipe your eyes often.

Sympathy doesn't mean love, you have to understand what you really want? What kind of do you like? Tell who you love? Make a good choice and resolutely reject the other party. If you are in a dilemma, you will get hurt in the end.

No one else can help you with these things, you have to take care of it yourself. Go with your heart. There are differences between individuals.

Cold salad, let time solve.

What the man said, you ask him again in ten days, and you can still remember a few words.

No, although divorce is related to the children, but it is the happiness of their own life, and they will not choose an empty shell marriage for the children, which is not good for the physical and mental health of the children.

Getting married and having children is not impulsive, and getting along with each other in life is not a momentary confusion! From meeting and following each other to seeing each other and hating each other now, it will not be a whim, there are always various reasons!

Life is like a flower, what kind of seed bears what kind of flower, but some are delicate and some are withered. Peonies can never produce roses! Because the cost is too great!

What you have to think about now is the problem between the two of you, it won't change much, but it's up to you whether you can tolerate it or not!

Many people will always talk about children, and an unhappy life is the real misfortune for children, and not all children of single parents are unlucky! Maybe children can't understand it now, but they will always grow up, they will always know life, and they will always have their own thinking! The grievances of the husband and wife, the husband and wife solve it themselves, if they must be imposed on the child, whether they are separated or not, the child is a sorrow, because misfortune is an infectious disease, infecting the people around them who care about themselves!

Let's break down the situation in detail:

First, since you already have children, it means that your relationship foundation was still very good. If you can resolve the conflict reasonably, and the parents love their children, then I suggest that you relax your divorce thoughts before thinking about it. Giving a child a healthy and harmonious family is very beneficial to his growth.

Second, if you are meeting an irresponsible husband, then it is advisable to take the children to divorce decisively. Although it is not easy to raise children, it is a waste of time and life to continue to hesitate.

Third, if neither of the above two is the case. So I suggest that before the divorce, think clearly, whether the children can be properly settled, and the life after the divorce will definitely be better than before the divorce? If you can't be sure, I think it's better to cherish the present moment and live the present life seriously!

If you don't know what to do, you can be sure that your mind is very messed up and there is no leader. So, it's best to calm down first.

At this time, you can choose the things around you.

If it's time to go to work, reorganize the work that needs to be done to see if there is any work that has not been done well or has not been completed. If you have no problem with your work, you can help other colleagues, not only to enhance your relationship, but also to gain the love of your superiors.

If you are at home and you don't go to work, then wash off the unwashed clothes, bed sheets, etc., and then clean and tidy up the room. Clean the house. I didn't waste time, I enriched myself.

After all of this is done, there is still nothing to do, just find two books, open the ** you like to listen to, and it's not bad to be quiet. If you don't like to read, you should sleep well if you are tired from cleaning your room. If it's long-term, then it's best to make a plan, you can learn what you like, you can also buy some cross-stitch to learn at home, or knit sweaters or something, and study the food.

After all, you will have your own family in the future, and after learning these things, you will benefit from them in the end.

And I don't feel like the boss likes me very much, what should I do? I can't rush that little girl to do it, if I were you, I would communicate directly with the boss, tell him how I feel at work in the past two days, and then ask you right.

You can ask others for their opinions.