Does it have to be comparable in terms of appearance?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-17
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    The appearance of falling in love does not have to be comparable, but it must not be too different, otherwise for outsiders, they will say, this person is so good-looking, how can he fall in love with him, he looks so ugly, this will affect the relationship.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    When it comes to falling in love, the appearance does not have to be comparable, because many people are very good, although they do not have good looks, but they have smart brains, and capable people are worth entrusting for a lifetime.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Personally, I don't think it's necessary to think about the appearance when falling in love, if two people are particularly in love, it doesn't matter if it's ugly, but for some people, appearance is very important.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I don't think it has to be the same appearance when falling in love, because if there is resonance in the soul, in fact, appearance or anything is not very important, in my opinion, two people must get along when they fall in love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No, two people who are in love can't care too much about their appearance, two people live, and it depends on the personalities of the two people, whether the three views are the same, and just looking at the outside, it seems very superficial.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Love is not about looks. It's the most basic person, you don't dislike it, you have a good feeling. And it's true that people generally like to grow a little better.

    A person's good looks don't necessarily mean everything. But you don't have to choose between the inside and the outside. Some are good-looking.

    People are good-looking. There is also a sense of responsibility. And what is not good-looking may not necessarily be single-minded...

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think that when you fall in love, your appearance must be comparable, because if your appearance is not comparable, one party may feel that the other party is ugly, which will make the other party have an inferiority complex.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think it's okay to be good-looking, when a man is very handsome, it's best for a woman to be beautiful, and when a woman is beautiful, it's best for a man to be handsome, or generally, I feel that appearance is quite conducive to falling in love.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, I personally think that as long as the two parties have the same three views, have common interests and hobbies and a common language, they don't need to match each other's appearance, it is enough to be suitable.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It doesn't have to be the same appearance, just say that if the appearance is the same, it will give people a more harmonious look, which will make people feel envious, but in fact, as long as you really love each other, it's okay.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Now when I fall in love, I feel that it is all about appearance, looking at the height of the era, and those who are not good-looking are very beautiful and confident. But in my opinion, if you really love each other, who cares about that.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello, appearance is also a very important aspect in love, after all, everyone wants their object to be more beautiful.

    1. Appearance will affect the first impression. When you meet for the first time, the level of appearance will affect whether you can continue to develop in the future. Now there is "appearance anxiety" in society, many people are not satisfied with their appearance all day long, and this situation is also very common in love, for example, if a person's appearance is not high, it will be more difficult to fall in love.

    And people with good looks tend to have suitors in droves.

    2. Appearance is not the only criterion. Although it is now a society that looks at faces, but appearance is not the most resistant, everyone has a time when they get old and ugly, only after getting along, after discovering each other's advantages and strengths, can they make the relationship more lasting and more likely to have results.

    3. There is no need to be anxious about appearance. Many people will be so confident in their hearts because of their looks, in fact, there is no need at all, looks are natural, of course, you can also become beautiful through acquired plastic surgery, but no matter what, don't feel inferior because of your appearance, otherwise you will find that life seems to be more and more unfriendly to you.

    Appearance is important, and it will also affect the beginning and development of love, but as long as two people really like each other, then they can still ignore the influence of appearance to a certain extent, and love will have good results.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    <> love of beauty, everyone has it. Handsome guys and beauties, sure to be pleasing to the eye. But when it comes to falling in love, appearance is only one of them, and it is a plus for the same situation.

    Nowadays, when choosing a lover, the starting point must be multi-dimensional, and few people are determined only by their appearance. For example, virtue and conduct are very important. I want to fall in love normally, and few people will choose those people with good-looking skins and ugly souls as the partners of their relationships.

    If there is, it is also for "friendship", not for romance.

    When it comes to falling in love in life, those who are self-motivated, responsible, have strong comprehensive ability, are down-to-earth and reliable, sincere and attentive, and may have average appearance, they are also very popular. There are also many who have nothing to show for themselves, and others are lackluster, so they can only be reduced to "vases", and the road is bumpy.

    There is no doubt that for those who are good-looking, hard-working, and capable, the love market will definitely be popular. However, the appearance is beautiful but the lack of inner beauty may help to win recognition for a while, and to love for the long term, after all, it needs the support of many qualities and abilities as I mentioned earlier.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's not too important, after all, falling in love is a long-term relationship, not an impulsive moment for 10,000 years. Of course, having a high appearance value will definitely give you an advantage in the initial impression score, but if you have already established a romantic relationship, after the relationship is more intimate, the meaning of appearance will become weaker and weaker.

    1.Both parties in love are more interested in each other's personality and the harmony of both parties. In the process of falling in love, appearance may be pleasing to both parties, but there is no way to make up for the shortcomings of personal behavior, and there is no way to make up for the disharmony of personality.

    So when it comes to falling in love, appearance is really not the most important thing.

    2.But if you are still in the blind date stage, or the stage of first acquaintance, the first impression of appearance will indeed add points to the impression points. But that's not the most important thing, after all, your language exchanges, eating together and going on dates will reveal your true personality.

    3.Love is indeed the relationship between two people, and the views of both parties on aesthetics are not the same, many people's views on appearance are more about the temperament shown after the combination of the person's face and personality. So if you really care about your appearance, you can also continue to improve your self-confidence makeup and behavior.

    When it comes to falling in love, there are many other important things besides appearance, such as whether the other party's attitude towards you is appropriate, whether it is considerate, whether it is responsible, and so on. The most important thing is that two people get along with each other, you have complementary personalities, overlapping interests and hobbies, and have some common values, which is more important.

    If such an external appearance as appearance occupies an important place in a relationship, then it will be difficult for you to last long. After all, there is always a time when you are plain and facing the sky, there is always a time for daily life at home, there is always a time when you are embarrassed, and there is always a time when you look old. There is no way to predict this, and the most important words of appearance will not be facing a breakup at any time.

    Therefore, when falling in love, maybe appearance can occupy a certain plus point and occupy a certain impression point. But appearance must not occupy the most important position in love, especially as you grow older, you know more about the world and life, and your attitude towards love will become more demanding and responsible.

    What age and experience bring to you is the gradual shaping of values, but also the gradual mastery of reality. It's the same for falling in love, there is no way to support the long-term future of two people, likes are temporary, and long-term love can support you to go further.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The appearance of the other party in love is not important, the quality of the other party is the most important, that is, the character of the other party is the most important, and the appearance is just the first impression. For the real relationship between the two parties, it is not the most important thing. In the dead of night, I always want to find a tranquility, find a space to be alone, and then let my thoughts drift with the wind, and escape for a while in the tranquility of cranky thoughts.

    When the soul can't bear the load of life, it can only send a signal to the sky that it is tired, too tired, and this feeling of tiredness is not something that ordinary people can imagine. Every day I want to find peace in my soul, however, it is really difficult.

    There is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself. Maybe I'm just a philistine. Why look for tranquility in anything?

    In fact, I want to hope for peace, in this extraordinary and bad day this year. I reflected and reflected. Most of the time I don't understand what I'm doing.

    Kind of life. Kind of always tugging at people's minds on certain days. When it comes to the tranquility of seeking, everyone expects to have this moment.

    For me, it may feel a little heavier in moments of solitude, but it's not absolute. Sometimes, although people are in a noisy and noisy environment, but the heart has already flown to the realm of not knowing what kind of, I often smile on my face, and I have seen through all the complicated things in my inner constancy. People sometimes pretend to be a master of the world, but in fact, it is not the case, and the appearance of all this is also due to countless times of crawling, and then the end of reflection.

    There is no real excitement of benefits, no real heartfelt reverence for life and nature, no gratitude and appreciation for life and the world, no kind and transparent understanding, no kind and susceptible heart, no final awakening, and no natural tranquility and detachment. In many cases, the motivation to seek tranquility is far greater than the force caused by all external things, and it may also be a process of excellence in the pursuit of tranquility for each individual. Why is that?

    I asked myself with a smile. For a person who is truly integrated into life, will sigh at the wonder of the creation of the world. The heartfelt reverence and concern for life and nature is a kind of sincere gratitude and admiration.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    First of all, I think you still have to consider your appearance when you fall in love. After all, when you're in love, you want to get married. Then, after getting married, there must be children, and when there are children, the appearance is reflected in the children at this time.

    If you didn't consider the appearance when you talked about the object at the beginning, then your child's genes are the appearance under the comprehensive appearance of the object you are looking for casually. Therefore, it is also important to choose the genes carefully considered. Because falling in love and finding a partner is different from other things, because it is related to your offspring, even if you find any job or do other things, it will not affect the genetic appearance of your offspring's children.

    But finding a partner to fall in love with is related to all aspects of your next generation, so be sure to consider the appearance. It's not that the world is superficial, but it's the reality.

    Second, the appearance of the other party in love is really important. When you are in love, if your appearance is very important, it means what kind of genes you can come into contact with, what kind of genes you are likely to be with, this affects your relationship with the people around you, and you can also understand how high your appearance is. That is, it reflects the level of one's appearance from the subject's body.

    Third, why do you have to consider your appearance when you are in love? Because from a biological point of view, we know that good genes will continue.

    For example, when some dominant genes and some recessive genes are together, of course, dominant genes will be exhibited. There are also some recessive genes that will survive because of heterozygotes, and it is impossible to produce recessive homozygous genes with pure homozygotes. So this is from a biological point of view, we must consider the appearance.

    Therefore, the appearance of parents is very important, which affects the appearance of the next generation. It's about a child's life. Whether it's a job or looking for a partner, all aspects will be affected.

    For example, it is difficult for someone who is too beautiful to get together with someone who is too ugly. This is genetic selection.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It depends on whether your own appearance is controlled, some people see the appearance of their partner very important, and feel that after all, they want to live together for a lifetime, so they naturally have to choose a look that makes them pleasing to the eye, so that they can not only bring out face, but also get along happily.

    It is undeniable that everyone's original intention is to find a "good-looking" one, because everyone has a love for beauty. Both men and women are visual creatures with eyes that appreciate beauty.

    If you are outstanding in appearance, you will naturally have requirements for your partner's appearance, at least you want to look like a good match. If you look ordinary, you won't mind your partner's looks too much, as long as it's about the same.

    This kind of thing is very strange, some people obviously look average, but in the eyes of some people, they will feel that they are good-looking, and have a different temperament, which is the so-called lover's eyes.

    You see a lot of rich stars, such as Hong Kong movie star Leung Ka-fai and comedian Huang Bo, their wives are ordinary in our opinion, but it does not prevent people from being petted by their husbands in the palm of their hands. So a lot of times, happiness and looks are not related to your own state of mind.

    For example, when I was chasing me, I thought he was too average-looking, and he had a very dark complexion, and to be honest, I didn't like him at first sight.

    Later, he would bring me supper and fruit from time to time, and I thought this man was very real and would hurt people.

    Now that we all have a son and a daughter, we live a happy and happy life, and the husband who looked very ordinary at the beginning, the more I look at it, the more flavorful I become.

    So if you ask me if your partner's looks matter, I'll say it's not that important, because I think a person's character, character, and abilities are definitely more important than looks.

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