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Because you don't love it, you can not care.
Because you don't love it, you can not care about it.
Because you don't love, you'll always feel that there is a gap in this circle.
Because you don't love, your other half will not be happy.
Because you don't love, you can be very self-righteous.
Because you don't love, you shouldn't get married to this without love.
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If you don't want to be happy, then you go to find someone you don't love to marry, but you have to know that marrying someone who doesn't love you and you don't love will have a lot of contradictions and frictions in your later life, are you mentally prepared to face it? If you can say it to yourself:"Yes", then you go for it, if not.
Just find someone to love yourself. Let's get married to someone you love.
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As long as you don't have to worry about anything, a proper man who can do anything can marry him!
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You can get married, but you will not be too happy, but it is also possible that after getting married, you will slowly develop a relationship, and everything is unpredictable.
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OK. Love is not the same as marriage.
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Yes, you can be someone who doesn't want love! Everything else can be met for you besides this!
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Love has nothing to do with marriage, one is feeling, the other is life!
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Many marriages are not because of love, but what is more beautiful than love is family affection.
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If you want to go down this path, no one can control you.
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It's a classic! I have a blog "People will meet four people in their lifetime" I collect, maybe there will be the answer you want.
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Then it's better to find a bodyguard, everything is multi-purpose, right?
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Yes, after all, even if love reaches the moment of marriage, if you don't know how to transform it into family affection and don't know how to maintain intimate relationships, it will sooner or later become an enemy and become a general, there are not many such examples.
Therefore, there is no problem in finding someone you don't love very much, and the most important thing is whether the two of you can get along in life; whether they can be interdependent in the maintenance of emotions; whether the two people have the ability to love themselves and have a sense of family responsibility; Can we grow together? - This is the most important issue that should be considered in marriage.
The essence of marriage is never because of love, because you haven't found it, because love marriages don't last long!
But love and material things are indispensable in marriage.
This love is actually the ability to love yourself and your family, even if two people don't feel love at first, it doesn't prevent you or her from developing the ability to love each other.
The material things are: raising children, reducing personal costs, redistributing resources.
When you understand what the nature of marriage is, you will find that before marriage, it doesn't really matter whether two people are in love or not!
Marriage is marriage, love is love.
Not all marriages have love, and not all love can enter the marriage hall.
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I wouldn't choose to marry someone I didn't like, because it would be tiring and I wouldn't be happy. Marrying someone you don't love is nothing more than two outcomes, one is a marriage that will be compromised, and there are always all kinds of unwillingness.
The other is that since you choose, you are responsible for the end and make a good choice. Most people hope for the second type, but live and become the first. Many people want to live like this, but when they enter the marriage, they find that it is too difficult to live a marriage that they want to live.
If you want to have a good word with him, the other party will ignore you at all, you need a little help, then you can escape faster than anyone else, and if you need warmth, it is basically impossible. I thought that I could live in the future, but I never thought that the marriage in the future would be more difficult than I imagined, and I was not as good as a person.
At least a person's mood will not be affected by others, and an effort is a gain, and two people who are not frequent may be you moving forward, and he is pulling you. Not only is it not moving forward, but it is going backwards. But at the same time, because of the mentality of compromise, many times it is passive waiting and passive choice within a limited range.
Since you choose, it is undoubtedly lucky to be responsible for marrying the person you love in the end, and it is the norm to marry someone you don't love.
It is impossible for everyone to be so lucky to meet and enter the palace of marriage, but since they also choose to get married, they should know each other's responsibilities. Marriage is sacred, and everyone is accountable not only to themselves, but also to others. If you don't want to get married, you can not get married, but if you choose the other party, you must take it seriously, find his advantages, and work together.
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Personally, I would not choose someone I don't like to marry, because if I choose someone I don't like to marry, then I will never really be down-to-earth in my life, and I will not really feel the beauty and sweetness of love.
First of all, when you choose a person you don't like to marry, then the two people will be more embarrassed in the process of getting along in daily life, especially for people like me who are more straightforward, I will not disguise my emotions, then in this case, I and the other party are married and live together, for me and the other party, such a marriage is a kind of torment and torture, it is doomed to the marriage between us, it is impossible to last too long, it is likely because of the estrangement and contradiction between us, And in the end, it will lead to the breakup of two people and the breakdown of their marriage, rather than this, it is better to choose not to start such a relationship and marriage in the first place, so from this point of view, I will definitely not choose a person I don't like to marry.
And choose to marry a person you don't like, although some people believe that feelings can be cultivated slowly, but there is a lot of uncertainty, even if it is a fluke, two people can have feelings in the future marriage, but it will also make one of the parties have a big regret in the bottom of their hearts, and once two people in the future marriage process can not change each other, this impression of each other, then such a marriage is actually in name only, so in line with their own responsibility, The attitude of being responsible for others, we must be cautious about marriage, we can only choose to marry with the person we like the most, and we should still learn to refuse the person we don't like.
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Although many people are more realistic in marriage and relationship, thinking that they can't find someone they like, then they often choose to find a suitable person to marry, but for me, I will not do this.
First of all, if I choose a person I don't like, but I feel that I am suitable for myself to marry, then I will have a sense of guilt in my heart, because I have not really loved each other, but I choose to marry with each other, this practice is very irresponsible to the other party, it is difficult to really bring each other happiness and joy if I don't love each other, this will affect the other party's life, maybe many people think that feelings can be cultivated slowly, but if you live with a person you don't like for a long time, If the relationship is not cultivated as originally envisaged, then it will only waste the precious youth and energy between each other, which is a harm to both parties.
And from another point of view, choosing a person I don't like, but the right person to marry will make my life a sense of frustration, after all, whether a person is happy or not, the key is whether he is successful in his career, whether he can meet a person who really loves each other, if you find a person you don't like, then your emotional life is always imperfect, you can't get happiness and joy in this marriage, and you will have an irreparable regret in your life. Therefore, for a life event such as marriage, we should try our best to find a person we really like, and the other party also likes us to marry, so that we can make each other feel real joy and happiness in the future marriage.
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