The parents of the sixty year old man are still alive, why is it suffering, and how do you feel abou

<> all said: There is an old man in the family, if there is a treasure. If there is a long-lived elderly person in the family, it will bring a lot of joy to the family, and he will also have a lot of face among his neighbors and friends. After all, this means that his family style is very positive, his children and grandchildren are filial, and his family is harmonious.

However, if there are elderly people in a family who live to be more than 90 years old, then his children are already about 60 years old, once the old people's own ability to live is lost, and the older children are unable to take care of them, this will bring a series of problems, which is always exhausting.

There are also some elderly people who can still take care of themselves, but due to personality reasons, they are very estranged from their children, and it is difficult to live together. In the face of these problems, what should those elderly people who are about 60 years old but still have to take care of their parents? So listening to these three people who have elderly people in their families, maybe we can think more about this.

Aunt Zhang: My mother is quite long-lived, now she is 94 years old, her body has always been very tough, and she smiles every day. Once, we also felt that it was a great thing to have a long-lived mother in the family, and the longevity of the elderly in the family was also a blessing for our children. However, recently, my mother's brain atrophy suddenly broke out, and she became a vegetative person, incontinent, and needed to be served everywhere.

Three of our siblings have been in the hospital for more than three months. But my sister is now 71 years old, and she herself suffers from various diseases, and she can't take care of my mother; My brother is also 66 years old, and he has to take care of his grandchildren, and he often can't get out of his body.

It is said that raising children to prevent old age, our brothers and sisters are also very filial, as long as we can do it, we all try our best to do it for our mother, but every family has a difficult scripture, and we are also very helpless when things develop to this day. It can only be said that the current days are very painful every day.

<> today's society no longer seems to be as dependent on the elderly as traditional society, because we rely more on technology than experience to live. But the elderly have given all their time, energy and money for the family, and now they are old and need to be taken care of, so as children naturally have an inescapable responsibility. When everyone is tired, you might as well think about how you treat your parents when everyone is old, and how your children will treat you in the future.

When you think about this, maybe your mind will be much calmer.

The sixty-year-old himself has entered the age of old age and needs to be taken care of, but there are still parents above, and he needs to fulfill the responsibility of supporting his children, so it is very hard, which is a kind of suffering.

I don't think it's a misery for a sixty-year-old man to be alive, but if there is an old man in the family, there is a treasure. It's a good thing that your parents are alive, but how can it be suffering? We should always be glad that our parents are alive and not feel that their existence is a burden or a misery.