I m very confused now, my father is in his sixties, my mother has passed away, I have nothing to do

Updated on society 2024-05-07
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you want to save yourself your mind, you can work for others. If you want to be free from the control of others, you can practice your own stall.

    Do something you love. Can you open a commissary? Look at what's missing around you. Pay attention to the point.

    In fact, after all, there are only a few people who have a successful career, and most of them are average.

    Especially selling some children's supplies at the gate of the primary school is still good, and now children have a lot of pocket money. Children love small things.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't be anxious, do what you can do in a down-to-earth manner, I think labor is the most valuable now, and it will rise, such as being a waiter, driving an electric car, making some snacks, when it's okay, inspect the market, don't worry, just do it calmly, don't want to eat a fat man,

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Listen to your accent, it's almost the year of standing, if you just make a living, do your job now, have time to accompany the elderly, if you want a good life, then you have to force yourself to do a good job, so that the old people can enjoy their old age in peace, it is really difficult at the beginning, gritted your teeth and survived. You don't have to be confused about whether it will help you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Do you have nothing to do, or is it true, if it's true, can't you want to open a little, now my life is very fulfilling, you can go out to work, earn money to go shopping, watch movies and eat something delicious, talk about love, life is very good, the money you get from working can complete the goals you want to achieve, you can buy what you want and be happy, fall in love, there is a possibility of breaking up, but you will still be very happy at the beginning, there is a lot to plan.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    How old are you? Don't despair, the direction of life is unpredictable, it will bloom when you don't pay attention, live well, live with hope, so that the heavenly parents will laugh.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I used to be too, fifteen years ago my parents died, I was more confused and frightened than you, and then I thought of their selfless love for me, and if I don't live well, I'm sorry for them! You are the same, live well, otherwise you won't have the face to go down to see them, really!! Come on!!!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Fools, live well. You are their hope, and if you live well, they will be at ease in the spirit of heaven.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Silly boy, live well, or mess with me.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Let's do our job well, it's not easy. As long as you do a good job, you will come into contact with the good other half. We must strive for the life we want, and instead of being confused about the future, we must do a good job in the present. Your efforts are the best comfort to your family.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's not your fault that you're single, it's enough for you to have this heart, and you don't have to live life the way you want to live.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The right way in life is the vicissitudes of life, we must know how to be strong, persistent, and willing to encourage you together!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    People live just to live for themselves, they can find something to do, it doesn't matter how much money they have, as long as they are happy, enough food, clothing, shelter and transportation, no matter how much money they have, what is the use of great power? There is nothing left after death, family affection is very important, and it is okay to live for love!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Man lives only to live ... Sometimes you don't need to think too much, and it's the best choice to go with the flow, but few people can do it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is no reason, if you don't want to live, you can die, if you still want to live, think about what you want, and then work hard to fight for it, even if you want to rob the bank, it doesn't matter, as long as you really want to do it, you have the consciousness to complete it even if you die.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You are a standard person who lacks faith, people with faith don't need to ask this kind of question, the meaning of life is different for everyone, your mother went where she should go, this place we will go to in the future, I don't know what to say, you look at this blog, I have read it a few times, the more I look at it, the more I feel that the meaning of life is getting clearer and clearer, including why people should live well.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Everyone is different, life is basically infinitely circulating, your thoughts, in fact, just do the current things, don't think too much. What you do now is lay the groundwork for your future goals.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Try to survive for everything you want.

    Human desires are endless, and they want what they want at every moment, including feelings.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    For yourself, for the people you love, but only if you can't lose yourself!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Since you have been in the world for decades, you should give full play to your strengths and do something worthy of your family, others and yourself. If you can do a few great things, it would be better to leave a name, and it would be in vain.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Enjoy, enjoy freedom, enjoy love.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Thinking too much, let's find something to do.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    From your question, I can see that your mother is taking you two children with her, right? Have you considered how much pressure she has? A woman raising two children alone can do it before the reform and opening up.

    It's the hard part of life. But it is absolutely impossible now. It costs too much.

    But restarting a family would be a simplification of the problem, after all, the Chinese form is still dominated by men. In a way, a large part of your mother's decision is still in your mind.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It is recommended that you and your mother reflect your own true thoughts, but you don't have to interfere too much, just help your mother refer to it, after all, this is her choice, about the property has been said to do premarital property justice, but also to write a good prenuptial agreement Premarital property notarization is the most important.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It is advisable to consult a lawyer.

    Lawyer Lu Guangliang of Zongheng Legal Network.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Legally, there is indeed no reason to interfere, it is only a matter of property, and a prenuptial property agreement can be made.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    In fact, the more literate people are, the heavier the burden in their hearts, they will always think too much, your father loves your mother, thinking of the future days, it is unbearable, at a loss! But he can't bear to see your mother endure the pain, so he asks your mother to go, he can't face everything in the future, that's why it's like this, at this time you need to talk to him, otherwise if it goes on like this, maybe your father won't be able to bear it! Finally, I wish your mother a better condition.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    What a good person, what a strong human touch!

    A touching scene of half-life love!

    Your mother is so happy! Although she will die soon, she will leave this world happily!

    Your father must have been so sad that he didn't want to accept such a fact!

    Your father was a really emotional man and a good man! I wish good people a safe life!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's not that you dare to face it, it's that your father loves your mother too much, after all, they've lived together all their lives, and your father would rather believe in a glimmer of hope than watch your mother's departure, be considerate. Comfort the elderly.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Communicate more with your dad. He's afraid of losing. I wish you all happiness.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Your wife is like this, and you are confused.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It is recommended that you first want to help the elderly, and your mentality should be correct, maybe it is troublesome, it may also be pestering, but I hope you don't tremble, and treat your dear mother as a burden, go to the hospital first, and know what the real problem is, in addition, lead the old people and the outside social contact, and wish her a speedy **.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    See a psychiatrist.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    First of all, you need to regulate your emotions, do everything positively, take on all the household chores, and keep the surrounding environment in the same way as your mother was before she was alive. Secondly, comfort my father and tell him that although my mother has passed away, she wants us to live a better life in another world, instead of being depressed and unhappy like now, and hopes that we can live well and enlighten, and she will support and encourage us. Tell him that you will grow up quickly and gradually take on the family.

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