Contradictions after marriage and cohabitation 20, Conflicts after marriage and cohabitation

1: How long has he been divorced, if it is relatively short, it should not be that he has not put all his thoughts on you.

2: Living together and not getting married, the relationship is very abnormal.

3: He still cares about your maybes (in my opinion). But what you want, he may not be able to give it to you.

I feel like you're doing the right thing, and you should stick to it. After all, your request is reasonable.

Since you've persevered for so many years, let's spend a while here to get to know each other better.

Also,Don't say I'm ruthless.,I've only known each other for 2 months.。。

If I were that guy, I would think you were a bad girl.

Marry when you are still immature in all respects. Not to mention.

Marriage event, is it child's play?

He should be divorced. If you get divorced, it's normal for you to get married. If he doesn't want to tie the knot, maybe there are some things in the man's heart that he has and women can't understand.

Of course, you can't give up, just live together and not get married, it's not fair to you when you're older. So, you try to have a quiet heart-to-heart communication with him, tell him what you think in your heart, and tell him: it makes me very uncomfortable that you shirk me like this and make me unable to see the results; Tell him what makes you sad.

If he listens to your heart and doesn't give you an explanation, then you can leave him, and you have done what you have to do. But I believe that if you talk to him once, there will definitely be a turnaround. Trust me, he'll change after the talk.

I don't know if you know him.

Maybe he thinks your relationship is not deep enough and wants to hone it.

There is a lack of communication between you! It can be seen that your boyfriend is indeed not very good at communicating, and at this time, as a woman, if you really love him, I think you should try to communicate with him more. Find out why and figure out what he really thinks.

You will definitely be happy! Bless you!

Not living together. If he really loves you, then why not enjoy being in love? Rather, anxious to get your body. I'm very opposed, of course, if you want, if Mao Dun happens after cohabitation, he doesn't want you anymore, what should you do?

Don't live together very badly.

It's best to get married after you get married, and you can discuss with him that you can get married first, and it will not be small.

Try not to cohabit if you can!

How sad it is that the cohabitation relationship has developed like this.

While men enjoy women's bodies for free, they can also enjoy women's hard-earned money for free

It's been two years since you guys, and it's not easy, but if you keep a man all your life, do you think you're a happy woman?

After living together for a long time, there are two possibilities:

One is that they are tired of each other and break up.

The second is to get married, get a certificate, have children, and live a lifetime.

Which of these two possibilities can make you happy?

The first possibility is that after living together for a long time, you have more and more conflicts due to money, you support him, you live tired, it is hard enough to work hard outside to see people's faces, and women still have to support men, isn't it pitiful? Then the dissatisfaction with each other grew, and finally they broke up. You will find that there is nothing left of the cohabitation life that you have been managing with your heart for two years:

Money, material things, have already been consumed by the two of you; Your youth is less, and your face is old; Feelings, quarreled and scattered, and there was nothing left.

The second possibility is that you have lived together for a long time and entered the palace of marriage. But in marriage, you have to raise a man, and when you have a child, you have to raise another child. Now that the child's milk powder and education expenses are surprisingly expensive, are you sure that you can afford to live with such a man for the rest of your life?

As you can see from your description, your income is slowly increasing, which is a testament to your hard work and your dedication. Should a good woman be happy with a good man?

What makes a good man? Self-reliance is the foundation, and on this basis, it is necessary to be responsible for women and afford a family. Life is real, not an idol drama.

Women should have their own careers, rightly so. Because a woman's youth is very limited and she ages quickly, the money earned by a woman should be used to protect her health and maintain her own **, and she should also repay her parents who have worked hard to give birth and raise her for more than ten years or twenty years. Maybe your parents have told you that you don't need to care about them, it's because they feel sorry for you and are afraid that you will work harder to make money for them and suffer a lot, but should you take the initiative to think about them?

At least give them as much money as possible to make their lives better, to provide for their old age, to supplement their nutrition, and to have money to save their lives if they get seriously ill one day in the future. Your own health and beauty and the health of your parents are where you really should put your money into it.

Can you see that you are a woman who has a career and attaches importance to family life, can you choose a happy lifestyle sensibly?

Your boyfriend is so speechless, I don't feel ashamed that I still have the face to share you, why! You're a girl! It would be nice if I didn't ask him! If it were me, I would never want this kind of man, if I am not married, I will be a scoundrel after I get married!

Did you add me just now? The network is not good, please add it again.

I'm a man, I'm angry, your boyfriend is still a man, no, it's all AA still like this?? One person and half is already a joke! Find a wife to take care of yourself and ask your wife to pay!

Of course that's your business, if I were a man, I would only earn that little money a month, and I would have to carry it! Have the ability to bully others to make more money, and earning your wife's money is also called ability?! The commission is also your own salary, you can't give him, it's hard to give him a year-end bonus??

Even if you get married, you have to be financially independent, sometimes it's a matter of sovereignty, and you don't have to talk about it!

If he loves you, he won't talk about money! It's right to have trouble, but he can't get angry without giving money! He doesn't love you anymore!

You're raising him! It may annoy you, this is his way of getting rid of you (I mean maybe) Someone who really loves you will not let you have troubles....Will find a way to make you happy! I hope you see the facts clearly and make a judgment sooner!

Wishing you happiness!

Men with women's money.

One word flick!

It's nothing more than who doesn't do hygiene, who uses more electricity and water, what, women just have to be stingier than men, don't mind too much,

There are many contradictions between girls!

Even trivial things will not please each other.

Not to mention cohabitation!

What are you doing with this big man!! Make money to support your family!

No matter how good friends are, living together for a long time, and lack of communication will produce conflicts.

There are a lot of things that women are together.

Three women in one play

Let's get a feel for it

This psychology is normal, for example: when we go out shopping together, women look at women who are more beautiful than themselves, and men also look at them.

Different Psychology: Female Jealousy (and Contrast). Men feel comfortable looking at beautiful women. (If you can't eat it, you can also look at it, and you will be satisfied).

So, this mindset is normal. Just bootstrap it right.

As a man, I can understand that. But I beg to differ. Say something nasty.

A large number of men are not satisfied, and such men are very cheap. Often lost regrets got not cherished. But there are also a large number of people who just pay lip service and will really do something out of the ordinary.

But LZ said that those who have live-in girlfriends also go out to ask for marriage, such a man is unforgivable. Treat women as playthings. Treat feelings as child's play.

Such people should be punished.

If a man's husband doesn't have three wives and four concubines, is it still called a man's husband? . .

But it's a shame not to admit it

Last blind date.,The girl still has a boyfriend.,Just meet me.。。。

What are women like that now??

I'm also worried about women now.

Support the resolution on the first floor, the landlord wants to open a point, there are still many good men in the world....A word from the family....

Forget him while you don't love him yet.

What man doesn't want a third wife and four concubines.

It is inevitable that there will be some friction between friends in daily life, and after getting along for a long time, there will be some inexplicable contradictions between each other, maybe the change in the other party's personality may make it difficult for you to accept, or maybe you begin to slowly discover the shortcomings of the other party and feel disgusted, these are the objective factors that intensify the conflict.

People must learn to reflect, learn to be submissive, learn to tolerate the shortcomings of friends, and can also be tactfully proposed, don't let disgust occupy your brain. I also often dislike some of my friends' tempers, but I choose to be tolerant, between friends, friendship is above all else, and playing tempers over a little thing will not only hurt the feelings between friends, but also make myself miserable.

Don't choose to be alienated because of someone else's change, and don't ruin a friendship because of your temper. Learn to be tolerant, learn to understand. Learn to see from someone else's point of view.

Girls must be things together, you move mine, I move yours.

Or a problem with a quarrel.

Or it doesn't look good on the eye or something.

Girls don't have conflicts like boys, the two of them have a meal and it's over, and when girls have conflicts, hey, it's very difficult to solve.

Women are all chirping crookedly, and it's okay to gossip about right and wrong. Tangled.

Indiscriminate use of other people's things leads to conflicts.

I don't think it's anything, I can live together if I want to be together, and only when the two of them are together will I know if it's suitable or not.

Wishing you happiness! Wishing you a blessed "sex"!

Why not?

Get to know each other in a comprehensive and detailed way.

So, cohabitation.

Whoever asked you to live together must be fine, just sleep together.

You're a man, what are you afraid of? I want to know how you got into the National Bureau, I studied meteorology, and I'm very envious

In fact, cohabitation is also a certain benefit for two people, and they can also recognize whether the other party can really live with themselves for a lifetime. Since two people can live together, they must be planning to get married, and then marriage is a very important thing for a lifetime, and many people will choose to try to marry this lifestyle, in fact, it is also to prove whether the two people are suitable in the future.

Because life is ordinary, it is not as beautiful as we imagined, and before living together, we are not involved in living at all, every day is playing, dating, many details of life are simply unknown, so expectations are high, and the result is not so, so you will be disappointed, don't be like this, find each other's shortcomings before getting married, and find each other's advantages after marriage, so that you will not be disappointed, you will be satisfied, I wish you happiness.

Because you live together,,, you are not in love, you are living life.

In life, it will naturally be like that. Why do many people get divorced after getting married?

That's because you got married because you fell in love and got divorced?

After falling in love and getting married, life is different, love is very successful, and life is divorced if you don't come.

Falling in love and living together are completely different.

Don't compare yourself to the past, and don't imagine that good.

Because, not for you, for him, but for home.

If you are at home, you should share weal and woe to create a better future.

Love is born because of sex.

So love is numb, and after living together, you know whether the other party is suitable for you, so love is really painful.

That is, the mystery of the past is gone, and the novelty is gone

I haven't cohabited yet and it seems that I should try my girlfriend if I live together quickly.

There's nothing to be sad about, it's not a good man to become like this if you live together, and it's not worth it for you to be like this, it's okay to find out early.

People change. It's just that what you think is that the time point is set before and after cohabitation, everyone has inertia, and you are the same, you two can sit down and communicate, I don't think it's a difficult thing, don't be suspicious.

Men are like that, so it's best not to live together before marriage. He doesn't really love you, he just wants to possess your body.

The difference between love and life. It's either his true face or he wants you to understand the difference between a lover and a wife, or what it means to break up.

Clamp him tightly and don't let him run.

This is a little bit, because it was relatively unfamiliar before falling in love, so I had some scruples. Look at it sensibly.

You're too casual and too easy to put men to sleep. So he won't cherish you. Whoever you are will get what type of results.

Looks like you're losing your interest in him.

Find someone who really loves you.

Don't feel good for you? Isn't it as good as it used to be?

The thickness and depth of the hehe will never go back to the previous one if it changes.

Such a man is unreliable, so it's better to separate early.

He doesn't love you, but wants to get you, succeed in selfish desires!

You're going to have to clamp it tighter.

You should be glad not to get married and see through it early.

Sometimes maybe it's overthinking.

Looks like you can't get his attention anymore.

Because it's too easy for you to let him get, he doesn't know how to cherish it.

Hey, I'm just the opposite of you. I was kind to my girlfriend in everything and satisfied her in every way, and she betrayed me for money.

Do I still need to feed the bait when the fish are baited? Think for yourself.