In the end, it is the poor couple who declines or the poor couple who mourns .

The poor couple mourns Pepsi from Yuan Zhen's "Sending Sorrow". Yuan Zhen, (779 831) character Huizhi, Luoyang (now Luoyang, Henan), his poems are most representative of Yuefu poems, the long narrative poem "Lianchang Palace Ci" and Bai Juyi's "Song of Long Hatred" are called together, and his mourning poem "Sending Grief Huai" three poems are also called famous articles.

Sending grief to one.

In the past, he joked about the afterlife, but now he is in front of him.

The garments have been exhausted, and the needle and thread are still unopened.

still wants to pity the servant in his old love, and he also gave money because of his dreams.

I sincerely know that everyone has this hatred, and poor couples mourn everything.

The sad mood at the end is connected. Mainly writes about the "Pepsi mourning" after the death of his wife. The poet writes about several things that cause mourning in everyday life.

The immortal has passed away, but the relics are still there. In order to avoid seeing things and thinking about others, he gave away the clothes that his wife had worn. The needlework that his wife had done was still kept intact and could not bear to open it. The poet wants to use this negative method to seal the memory of the past, and this practice itself proves that he cannot get rid of the longing for his wife.

In addition, whenever he saw the servant beside his wife, he also aroused his own sorrow, so he also added a feeling of pity to the servant. During the day, everything touches the scene and hurts, and at night the dream soul flies through the underworld to find each other. Sending money in a dream seems absurd, but it is a touching infatuation.

The wife who has suffered all his life has passed away, and the husband who is now living in wealth does not forget the old love, what can he do for his wife except for "resuming the camp and fasting"? So the dream became a dream, and there was a dream of giving money to his wife. The last two sentences, from the general statement of "I sincerely know that everyone has this hatred", to the specific reference of "poor couples mourn everything".

It is inevitable for people to die and part, but for couples who share the hardships of the poor, once they die, it is even more sad. The last sentence advances one level from the previous sentence, focusing on writing about one's own bereavement that is different from ordinary grief.

Made for Yuan Zhen to remember his deceased wife, the love is true and meaningful, touching and profound, reading Tang poems and Song lyrics, mourning the work of his deceased wife, only Su Shi's "Jiangchengzi" in the sentence "ten years of life and death, do not think, and never forget" can be compared with it, and it is recited through the ages.

Poor couples mourn everything, originally said that they remembered the things of the husband and wife in the poor Min Shi and felt sad, and it was a longing for the deceased wife. It's just that later generations slowly changed the author's original meaning.

While we all know the importance of material foundations in marriage, we often become the executioners who destroy a relationship. But not all couples drift apart because of poverty. Relatively speaking, what is often encountered in life is that husband and wife can share weal and woe, but not wealth and prosperity together.

They can be happy because they eat a bowl of instant noodles together and live in a rental house of a few square meters, but the change of life circumstances, they have no time and energy to get along and accompany them, and their emotional trust and dependence are gone!

The reason why there will be a situation of poor and lowly couples mourning is just that in this and exaggerated society, the ideal is very full, and the reality is very skinny, but this hope is pinned on marriage and the other half! Sad indeed!

Either be willing to taste the happiness of each other, or grit your teeth and change the status quo, otherwise you can only be a real poor couple who mourn everything. That is, it is self-inflicted! "Money is not everything, but no money is absolutely impossible" I believe everyone knows!

Does love without money last long? Will it be happy? Poor couples mourn for 100 days; But is it possible to be happy if you have money?

In fact, love without money will definitely not last long. Especially in modern society, the two sexes no longer have as many spiritual shackles as in the past, which is becoming more and more obvious, and I believe that most people and husbands can work together and share weal and woe. Spiritual life should be based on material things, and if even eating is a problem, then what kind of love do husbands and wives talk about?

As long as there is no money and life is hard, there will be many problems. Money is important, but you also have to take your own stand. It depends on the person, some people are interested in money, and some people are interested in feelings.

Love is ruthless and everything becomes fake, which is an immutable truth for those who value the righteousness of love. When there is no money, the two are happy when they are together, and as long as the two are together, they can get through any difficulties. But when there is money, men are generally busy socializing outside, this entertainment seems to be born with a man's patent, more entertainment, and gradually the women in the family are left out in the cold, and the women outside are good, so that later men begin to look at their own women unpleasantly, and finally lead to the breakdown of marriage, smart men, some will also have red flags at home, and the colorful flags fluttering outside, there are not a few men who are defeated in this era, and many will do this.

Therefore, having money is not necessarily happy, however, love without money may not last long, and if there is no economic foundation, no matter how beautiful love is, it will deteriorate! A man's responsibility is to have the ability to take care of the woman he loves, and if he can't do it, then the man's self-esteem will be hurt and life will not be happy! People are becoming more and more realistic, which is a product of today's social era, so this sentence is becoming more and more reasonable.

If a family does not have money, you will find that most of the conflicts or quarrels between husband and wife are about money, which is reflected in many families, so the love family will undergo many tests, not which person can be counted.

How do you understand the phrase "poor couples mourn everything"?

This is a generalized stereotype.

In essence, there is no direct reciprocal relationship between "poor couples" and "pepsi decline". There are many "poor couples" who also live a happy life of envy for others (this is not to say how rich they are materially, but their spiritual outlook), the father is harmonious, and the children are sensible; "Pepsi mourning" is not all "poor couples", how many rich families in Qiaocong later collapsed, everyone is really equal in the face of natural and man-made disasters, and no kind of family Cha Tu Tingmin or Sakura can't withstand these blows ......

People believe in this saying, nothing more than this explanation is the easiest for us to receive, they are struck down by life because they are weak; If we say that "rich and noble couples are also in decline", then how can we, ordinary families, live!!

In fact, there is a little bit of luck behind it, if this happened to us, it would probably be much better, because we are not as weak as them.

We often want to emphasize a sentence is "the material base determines the superstructure", we have seen a lot of couples who love each other, love is dead and alive, love is desperate, but when approaching the palace of marriage, all the contradictions in reality are all rushing, and in the end it can only be Lao Yan flying separately, and it is better to forget each other than to forget each other.

Of course, I don't know if this sentence was said by Lu Xun, but this sentence at least shows a common phenomenon, most of the troubles of all living beings are caused by poverty. "Poor and lowly husband and wife mourn" relative to today's society, to be precise, it should be "poor and lowly husband mourning", if a man does not make money, or the money he earns is difficult to support his family, then his status in the eyes of his wife is not lofty at all, and can only be regarded as a wreck. Therefore, it is very easy for husbands and wives to quarrel, and once they quarrel, the source of their contradictions must be caused by poverty.

If a man is unemployed at home for a month after marriage, the woman's volcano will erupt, on the contrary, even if the woman rests at home for a year, the man will not be harsh, because she is a woman.

From ancient times to the present, it is difficult for a man to be a man with money, but it is difficult for a man without money. And what makes it even more difficult for a man is to be ridiculed by a woman, and there is no way to refute it. As a simple example, talk to a female friend because she has just gotten married and is pregnant and waiting to give birth at home.

It is equivalent to having only her husband go to work alone, pay off the mortgage, and support the family. But this female friend also felt that she was very wronged, the fruit was very expensive this year, and she was pregnant and she was even reluctant to eat the fruit. So two people often quarrel, and it seems that both men and women can't understand each other.

This is "poor couples mourn", the key is that this friend said that he knew that marriage was so hard, it was better to be a junior, and eat and drink without worry. Of course, what she said was a joke, but from the depths of her heart, she was not ashamed of the life of the junior, but had a kind of envy, which was the deviation of women's values in the current society.

First, the other party must have a certain economic foundation. The economic base determines family harmony. Everyone knows that poor couples mourn everything, and only after falling into firewood, rice, oil and salt every day do they know that many contradictions are intensified because of lack of money.

Second, love is to be wanted, but you can't indulge in it, love can't be kept fresh for a lifetime, and the other party's character is very important. To marry a person with a base boy, you also have to examine the other party's conduct, don't give yourself to the other party without reservation because the other party is good to you, and the other party is handsome. Marriage is a lifelong thing, the other party's character is not good, being good to you is just an appearance, and there will be hardships in the future.

Third, it is very important to have a certain financial ability. Your financial ability determines your family status at home, as well as your voice at home. Don't think that you will sacrifice your career for the sake of taking care of children, one day, the other party will use this excuse to dislike you.

Fourth, before marriage, go to each other's homes several times and observe the other party's parents' personality, occupation, way of speaking, and education level. Everyone understands the popularity of the word family of origin, and they all know the influence of the family of origin on a person's growth. The original family with positive values has a positive meaning for the life after marriage.

Fifth, a partner with the same three views will make the happiness after marriage stronger. If he wants to travel, he thinks you can see a lot of scenery by watching TV at home. You say you're going to eat a romantic Western meal, and he thinks you have money and nowhere to spend it.

This kind of life, it is estimated that you will not be able to stand it for a year and a half.

6. In addition to appreciating each other's strengths, we must also accept each other's shortcomings. The longevity of the marriage is not because of the many advantages of each other, but because both parties can tolerate each other, understand each other, and endure each other.

Because couples with poor conditions will quarrel more because of money, leakage and other bad aspects, sometimes it doesn't mean that they don't love each other, but they are just forced by the pressure of reality.