My husband is with my best friend, how should I deal with it? 5

I can understand your mixed feelings.

It's time for your husband to take a stand. Since he doesn't take the initiative to express his position, then you can talk to him frankly and see what his attitude is.

If he also says he wants to be with your friend, then the marriage can be over.

If he says he can end the relationship between him and your friend once and for all, give him a chance to re-accept him.

As for your friend, no matter if your husband doesn't cut off contact with her, you shouldn't associate with her anymore. This kind of person, sooner or later, will be the bane.

Your friend tells you that you should think about what it means, and if you don't want to leave, then let your friend stop thinking about it. If you want to leave, be resolute.

You should divorce your husband, because he is with your good friend, which is a betrayal of your relationship, and at the same time, he breaks off your good friend, knowing that it is your husband, and still hooks up, which is extremely immoral.

You should take the initiative to divorce each other, and you should also bless each other, since two people can be together, it means that two people are in love, and they are going both ways.

First of all, you should calm down and talk to your husband, don't expose them in person, save some face for your husband, ask your husband why he is doing this, and talk to your good friends as well, you must be calm when facing them, don't feel that you can't hold your head up, because you are a victim in this matter.

As long as you stay away, it means that their character is not very good, and this behavior also hurts you deeply, try not to let the other party affect your emotions.

I think we should cut ties with the two of them, don't associate with them, they are very immoral and should be condemned.

In such a situation, you should keep a certain distance from the two of them, and then let yourself sort out the relationship, and also ask them to apologize to themselves.

When you find that the relationship between your best friend and your husband is abnormal, you must stop it decisively and in time, don't be embarrassed to open your mouth for the sake of face, some things cannot be backed down. For no matter how good the girlfriend relationship is, once you cross the bottom line, don't be soft-hearted, once you are soft-hearted, you are destined to fail in the end. If the girlfriend can't restrain her behavior, she can also intervene through her friends or family if necessary, so as to use external forces to pressure her to talk to relatives, I believe she doesn't want to ruin her reputation in her own circle, and she will make a trade-off.

And for your husband, don't drag the mud and water, go straight to the point, say your feelings, show your attitude, and let him dare to cross the thunder pool half a step. In short, for relationships, you need to set up a security line for your private space. For any misconduct of girlfriends and husbands, you can't condone stupidity, you must be clear about your bottom line, principles and consequences.

Since that's the case, let's choose to divorce, this is not a good friend, don't have any contact with him in the future.

That must be breaking up with such a friend, because this is simply an act of prying into the corner.

Such a bloody plot, I can't accept it anyway, I will choose to divorce and get the greatest benefits.

Fire prevention, anti-theft and anti-girlfriend, my husband is not good at taking care of it, and he was robbed by his girlfriend, this matter is not bad for others, it depends on yourself. Who made you so relieved to give your best friend and husband a chance? Girlfriends can share anything, can their husbands share too?

1. Fire prevention, anti-theft and anti-girlfriend, this sentence makes sense

Don't talk too much to your girlfriends, if you are too private, and don't complain too much about your complaints with your girlfriends, it will lead to jealousy or take advantage of others. My husband is good, I just know it myself, I don't need others to tell me, my husband is good, I won't go to happiness with others, let alone tell others how good my husband is. A girlfriend is a girlfriend, she is someone outside our family, how intimate is this, to be able to tell some secrets between husband and wife?

To be a man, you have to leave a little bottom line, and you can't tell others everything.

2. I will let go of my husband who can't keep it, but I will never bless you to be together

Giving her husband to her best friend sounds like it's going to make people laugh out of their teeth. You can't say anything. Husband, I can't keep it, then I'll let it go.

But it is absolutely impossible for me to fulfill you. Because you're my best friend, you don't treat me as a best friend at all, you're stabbing me in the back. In this life, I will definitely never get along with you to death, and if I don't beat you, even if I will cheapen you.

I don't blame others for this matter, I blame myself, who let us take care of our husband? If the fly doesn't bite the egg that is not slit, then the egg has a seam and I caused it. So although we hate our girlfriends, we have to reflect on ourselves in turn, who made you trust your girlfriends so much?

Of course it will, because I believe in my husband very much, and the relationship between the two of us is very affectionate, even if the best friend comes into contact with my husband, I believe that he can handle the relationship well.

Yes, after all, one is the most loved person and the other is the person with the best relationship, and I definitely hope that the two of them will also know each other, and my good friend must be by my side like my lover in the next few decades.

Yes, my husband is not a confidential person, since he is a good friend, we should get to know each other, communicate and play together, so as to enhance the relationship between the two families.

Yes, I am very relieved of my good friend and husband, even if the two of them are alone, I know that nothing will happen, and they will communicate with each other when there is usually anything.

Of course, since I'm married, I should introduce my best friend to my husband, and we usually drive out together.

Just control the degree of contact. This kind of contact is definitely unavoidable, and it is all husbands, so there is no need to be too cautious, otherwise the atmosphere will be discordant.

Yes, otherwise the circle of friends between the two of us will never be social, how boring it is. I've always wanted to get his friends and my friends together to play with me when I get married.

Yes, after all, they are best friends, and contact is normal, but you must keep a good distance and not go too far.

I will definitely not let my best friend contact my husband after I get married, although I dare not say what my friend will definitely do to my husband, but I still have to be defensive.

Yes, I can't tie up my husband so that he never has contact with others, and letting my best friend contact my husband can also make my husband know more about my social circle.

Yes, after all, it's my best friend, and my husband will be in constant contact, and if I don't let it, it will also seem like I'm stingy, and I'm sure my husband and my friends won't do anything to be sorry for me.

I'll let my best friend touch my husband. Because I love my husband, I want all my friends to know that he understands him, and I also believe that neither my husband nor my friends will do anything to hurt me.