Why do students in Chinese universities have a sense of superiority?

Recently, a lot of data show that college students will have a sense of superiority, in fact, this is the case in China, they like to habitually manage others, and Chinese are also used to being managed, but we must minimize this situation, after all, we are all equal, who is more noble than whom, so let's analyze the reasons for this phenomenon.

First of all, from a psychological point of view, we rarely have these student union jobs in junior high school and high school, and generally the people who become such are the kind of people who are powerful and powerful, and they will come to work, so we have this idea in our hearts: everyone in the student union is very tall. So when we become a member of the student council one day, we will have this sense of superiority, it turns out that we are better than others, in fact, I also have this mentality, I have a sense of pride in running in high school and running in college.

Second, the work of the student union. The student union usually has many departments, including the discipline inspection department, the office, etc., among which the discipline inspection department feels the most awesome, not only can you check the house and check the late return to the health check and morning exercise, but you can also escape. So we can not only urge others and let others ask for them, so that we can not only have a bit of human affection, but also enjoy this kind of management of people.

What's more, if it sounds like the name of the student union, it will be awesome, and it is a representative of the student as a whole, and the chairman will feel even more like this, not only to get very high credits, but also to let many people know us.

As a result, everyone in the student council has this sense of superiority and pride. After all, the student union is a school-level team, unlike other clubs, which can have a very mediocre role, but I hope that we Chinese can change this problem, be humble and do things in a low-key manner.

People of our generation are inexplicably arrogant, especially young people, who don't understand anything and can't drag it, let alone have a sense of superiority when they go to college. Nowadays, people pay more and more attention to academic qualifications, and their children are admitted to key universities, which is called a pride, and they show off when they meet anyone, and the children are in such a family atmosphere, but they have an inexplicable sense of superiority, thinking that they are powerful, anyway, others are strong, and others are not as good as me. The young people of this era have forgotten what it means to be humble and respectful.

In China, a paper diploma can prove a lot of things, and often for this paper diploma, how many people want to go in. How can you say that they don't have a sense of superiority When people in universities see people in ordinary universities or even junior colleges, don't they feel that they are too much better than others? God knows why this sense of superiority is so strong, we are all human beings, and if you go to a good school, it can only show that you are strong in learning, but what can it say about something else?

Are you smart? I'm sorry I can't see it on the test paper. Do you have high emotional intelligence?

Sorry there is no question on the test paper. Do you have a high IQ? I'm sorry, but there are still people taller than you, so don't compare with us.

If you think about it carefully, isn't it because you are good at studying, you have strong learning ability, so you can follow the path of China's exam-oriented education, and those who can't adapt can only be cruelly abandoned.

Think about it, why can those who don't read books be the bosses of those who read? Because they can't live if they don't work hard, they have a sense of superiority with a high degree of education, and when they go out of society, they find that they are nothing, they don't know anything, they eat and wait for death, just such a diploma can't save you, it really can't save you.

Because it pays a lot. In other words, you work harder than others and can endure hardships better than others. Like a diligent person, of course he looks down on those who are lazy.

Recently, a news that a certain place has implemented free scenic spots and accommodation for college students in some colleges and universities has attracted a lot of attention and related discussions. ......In this moment, many people realize that the identity of a college student is really useful. ......In real life, there are many similar examples.

Specifically, it includes three situations: for parents, the identity of their children is a college student, they are respected when they interact with others, and the identity of a college student is more valued when they are looking for a job. 1. For parents, their children are college students, which will make them very face-saving. The value of being a university student is reflected in many areas of daily life.

One of the most significant things is that parents can be proud that their child is a college student, and they will be very face-saving in their interactions with other people. ......This situation is most obvious for parents whose children have just been admitted to college. 2. In the process of interacting with others, the identity of college students will be respected.

In interpersonal interactions, one's own identity will have a direct impact on the attitude of the other party. ......When you are soft-spoken, you will be left out in the cold, and when you have the status of a college student and have broad development prospects, you will be respected and become a highly respected object. ......At this moment, you will fully realize that it is really useful to be a college student.

3. When looking for a job, the identity of college students is more important. In the workplace, the basis of job hunting and job search is one's own ability and quality. ......If a person has the status of a college student, he will be more valued when applying for a job, and the employer will think that the job seeker with the status of a college student is more capable and qualified, so they will look at him differently and pay more attention to him.

This will give the candidate a greater advantage in the job search process. ......In this moment, the job seeker will fully realize how much the identity of a college student can play for him.

1.A famous school is a well-known school with high social visibility and great influence, and has a certain irreplaceable position in the education industry, with a group of outstanding alumni. In layman's terms, everyone knows and wants to go.

General schools and prestigious schools generally refer to public schools, and private schools are not discussed in this article.

In fact, whether it is a university, a middle school, or a primary school, including kindergarten, there are a number of well-known schools. This is not surprising, all walks of life, there are such differences. Some are recognized by the people, some are officially certified, some are conventional, and some are historical.

Anyway, it is not easy to get into a famous school, and the housing in the school district of a famous school is sky-high, which is a fact that exists regardless of whether you admit it or not.

However, no matter how big a prestigious school is, no matter how large it is to expand its enrollment, the capacity is limited, and some children will definitely not be able to go to it. Parents will think about it, they all say that so-and-so school is famous, why, where is it famous, and it is better than other schools. If we don't go to a prestigious school for various reasons, is there a way to make up for it, so that our children don't lose at the starting line.

2.The source of students from prestigious schools is better, because it is not easy to enter, in the past, it was only the rich and powerful families who could enter, but now with the reform of educational equity, more and more students are enrolled nearby, and the difference in the source of students is slowly decreasing.

The good news is that the students are **. The comprehensive quality of parents is relatively higher, the knowledge level is high, the education is high, the education of children is more concerned, and there is a good accumulation in the pre-school.

Therefore, the comprehensive quality of children is also relatively higher.

3.Teachers. Because prestigious schools are famous, it is easier to attract relatively good teachers to work. It's not necessarily that the slim ruler is better treated, just like those who make TV, they all think of CCTV, not necessarily for money.

At the same time, prestigious schools also have a mature training system. The teachers have a team, and the old, middle and young people help them, and they grow faster in business.

4.Thinking. More open-minded and more receptive to new methods and information.

5.Manage. The management level of the leaders is higher, more humane, more scientific, more respectful of the professional authority of teachers, and less organization of activities that seem to be vigorous, but actually violate and do not adapt to the laws of education.

6.Teaching. The overall level of teaching is definitely higher than that of the general school. Good schools include: group teaching and research, large group teaching and research, semester evaluation, individual presentation, and other teaching and research activities.

The teaching and research atmosphere is strong, and the problems and experiences in teaching are exchanged and shared anytime and anywhere. Teachers, you chase after me, for fear of falling behind.

Such a teacher not only teaches students hard work, but also delves into teaching methods, so that students can learn skillfully and skillfully, saving time and efficiency.

Nowadays, there are many activities in public primary and secondary schools, but the difference is that some schools are active for the sake of activities, while famous schools are more for cultivating children's abilities and broadening children's horizons. For example, the Science and Technology Festival organizes a science and technology carnival, and students can participate in and experience many cutting-edge technologies for free without leaving home.

I think that at some point, being a college student does bring me certain conveniences and advantages:

2.There is a lot of room for intellectual development. The life of college students has not yet entered the society, and they have more energy to devote themselves to the development and development of intelligence. The improvement of knowledge, thinking ability and vision during this period will have a positive impact on the whole life.

3.The social circle is wider. During my time at school, my social circle was wider and I made more friends. This is beneficial for the future structure of contacts in all walks of life, which is difficult to do in other identities. Networking plays a big role in career development.

4.Ideals are richer. At the stage of college students, personal ideals and idealism are stronger. This stimulates a positive mental state, which is conducive to life planning and goal setting. The spirit of idealism is one of the driving forces of social progress.

Of course, there are certain shortcomings in the identity of the big boring student:

1.Lack of social experience. There is a lack of social experience at the college level, and experience takes time to accumulate. To a certain extent, this will affect the maturity of judgment and adaptability.

2.Weak sense of reality. Idealism can also produce a bias in the sense of reality. This needs to be adjusted through practice in the coming period of time, so that the ideal can be integrated with the reality.

3.Autonomy is beginning to emerge. Even though they have knowledge, they are still developing the ability to live independently, which requires the support of skills and time. The independent operation of the university students also requires the support of family resources.

So, as a human being, I will experience the superiority of being a college student at some point. However, this superiority is more reflected in the opportunity to learn and grow, and the lack of college student identity is also obvious in terms of life experience and social experience. College students should devote themselves more to learning and potential development, which is the focus of this identity stage.

Easily enjoying the advantages of the ante fight, while ignoring learning and growth, this is the wrong way to use the identity of a college student. Only through continuous learning and accumulation can the advantage of this identity be truly transformed into the driving force of life and the driving force of development. Therefore, college students should cherish the opportunity to learn more and constantly improve themselves, which is the main value of this identity.

First, it may just be because the concept of our elders subtly influences us. Before the resumption of the national college entrance examination in 77, reading was a very meaningless thing, and our concept of the profession of teaching was also "to see which poor one to teach". The illiteracy rate is high, and there is a deep misunderstanding about the school.

Later, the college entrance examination was resumed, and many secondary schools and junior colleges were even more sought-after than universities, because the school state assigned jobs. Everyone was poor at that time, and not many people would choose to continue studying, and they all hoped to go to school early to find a job to earn money to support their families.

In recent decades, however, salaries have changed dramatically around the world, with assembly line workers being laid off in large numbers, banks beginning to emerge, and teaching becoming a decent job. Those who say that it is useless to study suddenly find that college students will be greatly valued, and they can earn money only by using their brains, and they do not have to do coolies, which is very decent.

Especially in the years when the college entrance examination was just resumed, there was a shortage of college students, and the salaries they were given were high. Those who do not take the college entrance examination will be very unbalanced, you must know that many people can go to secondary schools and junior colleges because of good grades and few places.

Chinese parents are very accustomed to being "intimate" with their children, treating them as their own doppelgangers and pinning their unfulfilled wishes on their children. So often inculcate the idea of how good a prestigious university is.

How many "tribulations" have been suffered, how much advice have been heard, and how much determination have been made, then how proud you will be after you really succeed. When you are able to get rid of the release of being in a depressed environment for a long time, that kind of relaxation can easily breed other psychology and become more intense. After all, he will also become a "famous college student" in the mouth of others.

Second, because not everyone can get into a prestigious university. This is also the case when things are scarce. If the previous article is the superiority of the external environment to famous college students, then this one is the superiority of their own strength.

They are either gifted and intelligent, and they can easily be admitted to prestigious universities even if they don't listen to classes or work hard. Either the stupid bird flew first, endured the pain that ordinary people can't bear and understand, and under constant self-pressure, broke through the congenital IQ deficiency and worked hard to be admitted to a prestigious university.

No matter which of these two is it, it will be admired by the people around you, after all, you and I have not been able to go through such a tempering and test.

Third, prestigious schools also have a unique set of management and education for students, and usually prestigious schools will produce many celebrities, and it is understandable that they have received a halo that is different from that given by ordinary schools.

For example, Tsinghua University's motto is "self-improvement", physical education classes are known for their strictness, and subject teachers will naturally treat students as elites. The pressure of studying is not something that ordinary people can bear.

It is not unreasonable for there to be so many positions in society as long as students from prestigious universities, and they need this kind of elite who can constantly update and enrich themselves.

Students at ordinary universities don't have to be presumptuous, what kind of person you want to become, what class you want to step into, and move towards that goal in your own school.