The smell of the man in the shared house turned out to be the sudden death of his roommate, how chao

<> in first-tier cities such as Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, and Shenzhen, the way of living in shared housing is not unfamiliar. Most of the people who share the house are young migrant workers or recent graduates. In general, the population sharing a flat should be at least two people in one room or one house.

There is also a saying for share houses in first-tier cities called group rentals. Group rentals are certainly a resource for more than two people sharing a home.

What are the problems with sharing a house?

1: You can find a house through an agent (who needs to pay a percentage fee), a landlord (the owner of the house), and a second landlord (who is both a tenant and a landlord).

In fact, the most ideal is to contact the big landlord to rent a house, because it saves the expense of contacting the agent to pay the handling fee, and the second landlord has many hidden dangers, such as the rent of the second landlord is about to expire, and the tenant's lease is still continuing; For example, if a second landlord rents a house for a month, and rents someone else for half a year and pays the deposit quarterly, it is easy to cause financial trouble.

2: Renting people: It is okay for a family to rent a house, but if it is a couple or classmates, it is easy to have small conflicts in life due to different living habits.

It is also common for strangers to share a house – most migrant workers in first-tier cities have to pay rent for one-third or even two-thirds of their wages in order to save on living costs. Therefore, sharing a house is the most suitable way to live. People often laugh at themselves:

All work for the landlord.

3: Shared space and cost: Renting a suite for a family is resource sharing, needless to say; If you are a classmate or a stranger, the refrigerator, air conditioner, washing machine, water heater, toilet, etc. are all shared and the cost is shared equally.

Some landlords will divide a suite into small rooms ranging from 10 to 15 square meters with separate meters. In this way, the electricity bill in your own room will be added to the shared part of the external environment (the total amount of electricity bills minus the electricity meter cost in each room divided by the total number of people in the room to share the cost for each person).

4: Shared housing chaos.

For example, everyone works from 9 to 5, and the same time causes a bathroom to be crowded) one minute has different lengths for the people outside the bathroom and the people inside); For example, someone has the habit of waking up early and disturbs the lazy sleep; People who have the habit of sleeping late will affect the rest of the surrounding "shared neighbors"; For example, everyone's hygiene habits are different, and some people don't brush the pot after cooking, which makes it smoky; For example, some people like to raise small animals to fill the house with taste; For example, because it is a stranger who shares a house, many times people do not contact each other often, and when they smell a strange smell, it is the sudden death of a roommate.

<> have seen too many posts talking about how bad roommates are in shared housing, not liking cleanliness, not paying utility bills, messing into their rooms, messing with their own things, etc., or not communicating with roommates at all, like this recent news, roommates died suddenly for many days, and they were discovered because of the smell.

Whether life in a shared house is chaotic or joyful is largely up to you. After all, your roommates are all your own choices, and there are many factors that you can decide.

The first is to determine some of the conditions of the roommate itself:

1.There is a legitimate occupation, if it is related to your profession or similar to better, so there will be more topics to talk about;

2.Similar to you, or both are night owls, or are early birds, so you will try to avoid affecting your roommates' sleep because of going to bed late or waking up early to make noises;

3.If you like to be alone, try not to find a roommate who likes to live in a group, otherwise you will feel disturbed, etc.

After determining the living habits of your roommates, you need to discuss some things about public life

1.The rent is negotiated according to the size of the room**, and all public expenses such as water, electricity, gas, and Internet are apportioned.

2.Clarify the use of public spaces. For example, every time you cook, you must clean up the kitchen, including the stove, floor, dishes and chopsticks, etc., and take the garbage directly to the door and take it out to take away. The bathroom cleans up stagnant water after bathing, girls clean their hair, and so on.

3.Public health sets the way of cleaning. For example, if you arrange the duty schedule, of course, you must implement it. Or you can ask your aunt to clean the public health every two weeks, ** evenly shared.

The rest is to pay attention to the things in the process of sharing a house, even if you are fully prepared before, when you really live together, there will inevitably be friction, at this time you must be sincere and generous, communicate in time if there is a problem, don't hold it in your heart, solve it if you can solve it, find another way out if you can't solve it, and look at the problem from the other party's point of view. Also, don't be too careful, but be principled.

Finally, take care of your shared house as if it were your own home, it is not just a place to live, but a haven that can shelter you.

ps: If you meet someone who can't communicate, either don't share a house together, if you really share a house, move out as soon as possible, after all, it's not without real wonders.

Tell him directly! Yes! I think it's a bit hard to come back! He's moved everything away! It's just to make it clear that you want to release your pigeons....

Look at what is the situation, the doors and windows are damaged, and there are cases of thieves entering the house. You should be not responsible, if everything is free of thieves, you are responsible.

No, it has nothing to do with you.

Be careful of clogging the toilet and sewer, just clean it in turn, it's really unsatisfactory, living alone.

Let it be, it's good after a long time, I've also met this kind of roommate, I thought people didn't like me, but then I got acquainted and realized that she wasn't cold, but she wasn't familiar with it, she was expressionless, not that she didn't like it.

Use time to open this diaphragm, see what he likes to do, bring him a supper or something, and slowly find the topic, some people are more introverted and they are not good at communicating, so let you slowly open his heart and let him accept you....

It's not a big deal if you don't hit a smiling person who smiles at her every day, why should she care about a passerby.

This is a second-hand landlord, and many second-hand landlords use this method to reduce their part of the rent. Think about whether you live in the best room, such as the master bedroom, your own room with a separate bathroom, etc. If so, it makes sense to overcharge you.

Then compare it with other similar properties to see if your room is at this price in the local area. Let's talk to the second landlord after comparison. For example, lower rents, exempt or reduce utility bills.

Before talking, you should first think about whether it will be inconvenient for everyone to live under one roof if the talk is not successful.

Is the area average? You're going to have a peaceful conversation with him.

It's up to you! If you are looking for a house, your classmates can help for a short period of time, and your classmates will earn your money

Prepare to move out! Then talk to her!

There is no way to judge this, communicate with your roommates more and run in, and you must not share a room with roommates of the opposite sex, which is more dangerous.

If you rent a house outside at that time, it is inevitable that there will be such a situation, so you must judge it through his language or some facial expressions, whether he is talking or not, how to judge whether a person's life style is good, then this still needs to be contacted and judged for a long time.

Check whether the room is clean and tidy, and whether there are any peculiar smells, such as smoke and alcohol. You can also ask the agent if they know the other party's occupation, and if you work in a regular unit, you don't have to worry. However, if you are a girl, you should be cautious.

Whether the house is clean and tidy, whether there is any peculiar smell, whether there are any unhealthy things at home, language, looks, communication, work.

This situation is inevitable, and I went to look at the situation inside the house and look at his character for a long time to see.

This problem should be difficult to judge, so you can only say that you can tell the landlord in advance that there are not very stable people living next to you, and you check out.

This kind of can only be judged by getting along later except at first sight.

If you insist on it, you can pull it, or you can ask him to buy vegetables and rice yourself. Otherwise, he'd been like this all along

You can discuss the partnership with him directly, that is, let him pay half of the food expenses.

This person is also talented, and he has been stingy to this point.

If you love him, you must give; This is the truth.

What kind of feelings do you talk about without love like you?

In fact, as a relationship maintenance, giving is the most important way to each other. If everyone doesn't give, then there is no way to maintain this relationship. It's like everyone is a whole, and the relationship is not 1+1 2, but, in fact, a good relationship, everyone is giving, paying their own labor, and paying their own feelings.

If it weren't for special reasons, then it would mean that this woman was at least a relatively selfish woman. If you had chosen to leave. That might end better for you, now that this girlfriend is all right for you, will you give up because of the location?

Do you have what it takes to accept such an outcome? You have to have such a responsibility. On the other hand, your thinking may be a kind of inner "power."

That feeling, if you really care. Then please don't hurt anyone, let alone yourself. How can a person who doesn't even love himself love others?

Sharing the financial stress of life with someone else is a good way to rent and benefit both of you. If you are of the same sex and under the same roof, if you can talk, you can not only take care of each other, but also chat, cheer for home, enliven the atmosphere of the dormitory, and make the dormitory have a home atmosphere, which is understandable. If the opposite sex has been around for a long time, there may be a sense of dependence, is it a temporary good impression of him, or his character cultivation method and other aspects are really good, the bell still needs to be tied to the bell, you have to think about it calmly!!