Can someone who is about to get married add an ex boyfriend who hasn t been in touch for years?

It's better not to add him, it's hard to forget about him. I know it's not good. Don't get in touch.

If you have a fate, you will be inadvertently contacted in the future, then be friends, take the initiative to contact me I don't think it's good, compare you are going to get married, let it be.

Now that you already have someone you love, and since you are about to get married, for the sake of your marriage and happiness, let go of the past, and be good to you and your lover!

Let me tell you a story, one day a man asked the master of emotions how true love is true happiness, and the master of emotions asked him to walk through a field of wheat and bring him the biggest ears of wheat that he thought were the best, and the man walked in, and there were many good ears of wheat along the way, but he didn't pick them until he saw one ear of wheat, which he thought was the biggest, and then when he came to the edge of the field, he also saw a lot of ears of wheat, but he just took what he picked to the master of emotions. After seeing it, the master said: "This is happiness", no matter how good the other ears of wheat are, stick to your own path, hold on to happiness all the way to the end, is true happiness, hesitate will only not get an ear of wheat, there will be better in the good.

Let go of the past, and you will be relaxed and happy. Wishing you happiness!

Do you want to get married, it's best not to get in touch. I can't help but wait until it's over.

Summary. Good evening, the reason for this situation is actually that you still haven't let go of your feelings for your previous boyfriend, in fact, you still haven't let go, although you are now married, but at that time this episode was just a problem that you didn't solve well, so you will think of him.

When this kind of problem arises, first of all, don't panic, the second is to regulate one of your emotions and a cognition of the previous relationship, and then you have to know that you are now an emotional state of your own, and at the same time, you can deliberately divert your attention when you are thinking about him, or you have to think about what is the reason for this? Specifically, we will think about what things in the contract, and find the root cause of this, so as to effectively solve it.

Why have I been married for several years, and during this time, I often think of my ex-boyfriend who has not been in touch for several years, what should I do.

Good evening, the reason for this situation is actually that you still haven't let go of your feelings for your previous boyfriend, in fact, you still haven't let go, although you are now married, but at that time this episode was just a problem that you didn't solve well, so you will think of him. When this kind of problem arises, first of all, don't panic, the second is to regulate one of your emotions and a cognition of the previous relationship, and then you have to know that you are now an emotional state of your own, and at the same time, you can deliberately divert your attention when you are thinking about him, or you have to think about what is the reason for this? Specifically, we will think about what things in the contract, and find the root cause of this, so as to effectively solve it.

Should he not be contacted?

Should you contact him, you have to see if you contact him, what impact it will have on your current life, is it a result that you can bear? Then you have to be clear about what is the purpose of your contact with him, or have you ever thought about why you think of him, and then what specific things do you think of him?

I didn't think about these questions, I just wanted to contact him.

If you just want to contact him and keep in touch with him, because you are now married, you have to look at how you judge this matter when you do this, you have to consider how you judge this matter with your lover, so I suggest that you weigh it comprehensively.

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Personally, I think it needs to be carefully considered.

First of all, the guy is still in contact with his ex, and it depends on what the type of connection is. If they are colleagues in a company and need to communicate at work, this connection is often inevitable and rarely involves an emotional element, if this is the case, it is advisable to keep an eye on it. Test your boyfriend, put on a tougher attitude, and see how the other party responds.

If he really cares about you, then he should know that he needs to avoid suspicion at work.

If they are not co-workers and do not socialize in their daily lives, but they still keep in touch, then this situation must be vigilant. A person who truly gives all the love of his heart to his partner will not have any too much contact with his ex. Real life is not a TV series, and the complete end of a relationship is based on the premise that two people are no longer in contact.

If two people can still maintain close contact after the relationship ends, then their relationship is likely to be in a state of disconnection. Their relationship is disconnected, which means that the relationship between the two of you is in a state of uncertainty and instability. In this case, the person who is injured can probably only be yourself.

Therefore, in this case, you must decisively choose to give up, get rid of it in time, stop losses in time, and don't let the pain continue forever.

Don't have illusions about someone who has broken ties with your ex. If he really pours all his feelings in your direction, how can he stay in close contact with his ex? If he really loves you as he performs, why would he hide the status quo between him and his ex?

All of this has actually told you the answer, all you need to do is to recognize the facts, take back all your feelings for him, and pour out your feelings on someone who does not love you, which is a waste of your own life. You will eventually be able to find someone who truly loves you and really puts all the love of your partner in you.

A boy who is still in touch with his ex cannot get married, and keeping in touch with his ex means that he has not forgotten his ex.

A boy who is still in touch with his ex cannot get married, this kind of boy is too indecisive and too affectionate, and after getting married, your married life will be very bad.

It depends on what kind of contact they have, but if it's just the occasional contact between friends, I don't think it's a problem. And if you feel that it is inappropriate, you can bring it up, and if he is not willing to change, you can make a decision.

If you don't have anything else in mind, it's just an old friend. If someone is not at ease, you can take your husband, he will take his wife, and your two families will have a meal together.

Love you for a lifetime" because I feel that you still have hope to return to him, and if it is completely impossible, I will not say it so directly. If you really think that your current boyfriend is suitable, don't provoke him anymore, give him hope plainly, and it will be a burden for both of you. Until you both completely don't love each other, "being friends" is just a façade, and you must know this yourself, so forget it.

It's not good for you guys, it's bad for your current boyfriend.

It's okay to meet in person, but don't be too frequent, don't keep in touch often, and don't always provoke yourself. Wait until you have lost your feelings to each other before you can be true friends.

Many people will be friends with their ex-boyfriends after they get married. But here I can only feel like strangers. If you are good friends, your husband will be jealous.

Don't see each other if you are divided, you should continue to suffer from it!

My ex-boyfriend was yesterday, I can understand that you want to remember some good past, but yesterday is yesterday, it's God, it's God, It's Guanyin's mother can't go back...

Yesterday is a piece of history that you have walked, it is a mile of yours, you can't go back, there is no need to go back, if you think it's beautiful, you keep it in your memory, if you think it's a pain, please try to forget.

Please cherish today, cherish everyone around you now, not a moment, every second... What is present is reality.

Cherish the present and look forward to the future... As for the past, you can choose to keep it in memory or forget it. But there should be no action in the mind, in the heart ...

Just respect yourself, but also respect others, please note that in the future,,, you and he will form two families, respect no one in the two families...

Thank you! It's better not to be friends, it will make the husband have bad thoughts.

It's better to put that relationship in your heart, after all, you have your own family.

I think it depends on the situation.

If you have loved your ex-boyfriend a lot in the past.

Or don't meet.

It's even more uncomfortable to see yourself.

If it's just fun with him.

It doesn't hurt to meet.

It doesn't matter if you're a friend.

One is that you think about it day and night, the second is that you don't sleep well, try to eat some food that helps you sleep, and the third is not to be superstitious.

Then you can meet with him, show your determination, and you don't have to him.

If you want to contact him, he can contact him.