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1.She tried to stay away from where she was;
2.When you have to face it, she starts to talk to you and put on headphones, and it looks like she is listening to her very intently;
3.She may be too stressed and needs to be soothed, give her more foods like bananas and chocolate that can mediate her mood and make her happy, buy an aromatherapy device, and use lavender essential oil to make air aromatherapy every day before going to bed.
In short, you must not have a conflict with your mother-in-law, unless you don't plan to have a relationship with your husband; Mother-in-law's personality is also difficult to change, all you can do is to influence her and get her understanding, if she is really a stubborn mother-in-law, then the only thing you can do is to hide and endure.
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My mother-in-law is the same as your mother-in-law, every day, the difference is that your mother-in-law is every day, my mother-in-law is noisy every day, and I am also suffering mental destruction every day, this is no way, she is so old, it is impossible to change, only if you don't live with her can you avoid your spirit from being destroyed.
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In fact, it's very simple, when she reads it, you think of her as a TV actor reciting lines, so that no matter what she says, you won't be at ease, and when you can't stand it, you go out shopping and relax! After all, it's my husband's mother, and my relationship is too poor, and my husband will be embarrassed! When there is a suitable opportunity to live separately, the face looks good and lives separately!
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Put your mentality in place first, she is an elder, a junior, it's better to look at it. Otherwise, you don't care so much, you live yours, she misses her. Or move out.
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If you don't like it, you have to separate if you can.
Distance can avoid friction, and distance can produce beauty
Because of some traditional ideas, living together, there are many examples of problems.
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What is her spiritual belief, you have to understand her and be a good daughter-in-law.
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Then you can move out
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How much hatred can there be, people die greatly, grievances are all gone, I hope you can let go.
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"Lengyan Mantra" and "Great Compassion Mantra" must be recited with precepts, and it is very important to study "The Great Buddha Peak Rulai Miyin Cultivated the Righteous Bodhisattvas and Ten Thousand Lines of the First Lengyan" and "Thousand Hands and Thousand Eyes Guanyin Bodhisattva Vast Perfection Unhindered Great Compassion Dharani Sutra".
Many Buddhist mantras are recited first and foremost. Because of the precepts, because of the precepts, because of the precepts. If you don't have to take vows, if you're reciting mantras all over the place, or if you're reciting mantras because you're driven by delusions, not for practice, that's not interesting at all.
If you don't cultivate virtue, the mantra will not only not take effect, but will cause trouble.
Buddhist mantras are not impossible to recite, in addition to the rituals, there is also a lot of respect and attention: to understand the teachings of the Buddha, to practice with a pure heart, to deeply understand the heart of compassion. The truth in it is very deep, and you can't say it all in a few words, you need to study it yourself.
For example, this mantra is not for the purpose of oppressing anyone, and if you recite and practice it with an arrogant attitude, the gains outweigh the losses, and the trouble is great.
The Buddha's name is recited with sincerity, purity and light, and it is also a mantra that moves the heavens and the earth. It is not beneficial to recite mantras that are full of thoughts and impure desires.
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Whoever says you can't read it, I'll read it every time!
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