Is it really so painful to get out of love

It is a very painful process that takes a long time to get out, but walking into another relationship is the best way to get out of love!

There are many things that people go through in their lives.

There are joys and sorrows.

Romance isn't the only one.

There are so many beautiful things waiting for you.

Why dwell on the past.

I've never been in love, so I don't know if it hurts, but I have a friend who is still living a prosperous life after falling out of love, so it still depends on your own mentality! Water under the bridge!

Getting out of a broken love --- not painful.

The pain is the process of coming out.

Because you walked in.

Good luck!

Friend, go and take a look at my blog, look backwards, by date, you will find out how to get out ......Come out, there will be a happy ...... that truly belongs to you

How to get out of the pain of falling out of love (1) and adjust your mentality to treat broken love correctly

Broken love is not so much the end as a new beginning. Love is not the whole of your life, it is just a station in the process of life, there are many cars passing by, and not every car must stop. What's more, the loss of love is not the destruction of the earth, God will definitely open another window for you when he closes one door.

Looking back at the broken love many years later, it was just a small episode on the road of life, not a theme song.

Get out of the pain of falling out of love (2) and don't break your heart all the time

Don't break your heart all the time, don't often tell your friends about the things that have passed, that will not comfort your wounded heart, it will not do you any good, and the things that have passed will be defeated by Qingju! No one can help you get back on your feet, only yourself. So don't be cranky, don't get into the horns, and take out the vitality of your youth and devote yourself to the fiery life and work.

Get out of the painful method of falling out of love (3) and vent the painful emotions

Weep as hard as you like. You can find a quiet place, or a bathroom at home, with the sound of running water and cry happily, if you have a confidant friend to talk to, you can also talk to a friend, vent your inner anger, answer this is just don't treat your friend as a breakup with you, let the other party as a poor ghost. But don't rush to find another lover to fill your emptiness, it's best to slowly reconnect with friends of the opposite sex.

Because the wounds of your soul have not yet healed, you should focus on some interesting hobbies first, and distract yourself from the trembling of your reputation, until your emotions return to normal, it is not suitable to fall in love with other people.

Get out of the pain of falling out of love (4) and stay away from everything about the other person

At least I know who is in love and who is in pain, but life still has to be lived, so how to quickly get out of the pain of falling out of love after falling out of love? If you want to get out of the pain of falling out of love, then you should stop missing the other person after you fell out of love, and of course, don't recall anything related to him. Stay away from each other, away from familiar lives and scenes.

Wipe out all items related to the other party. If it's valuable, you can return it to the other person and get rid of the rest of the items at once. That is, to draw a clear line at one time, and not to break the thread.

Take some time to go out for a walk, change to a new environment, don't miss the old days together, the past is the past, and you can't go back.

The most commonly used methods of adjustment are: first, allow yourself to suffer and accept the fact of falling out of love; Then go into the group to socialize and entertain with friends to distract from it; At the same time, you can also confide in your friends and face it calmly; In addition, after the lovelorn mood has calmed down, you need to start to re-establish your understanding of love, start a new relationship, and help yourself out of the shadows. Don't let yourself forget about him.

Many people often miss each other after falling out of love, and feel annoyed and helpless about their behavior, and unintentionally shake their heads desperately to tell themselves not to think about him, not to think about him. As everyone knows, the more he does this, the more his face appears in his mind, and the more he tells himself that he is going to forget, he is actually already remembering. In fact, the more painful this kind of period, the more we have to find something to do, such as work, study, travel, etc., so that we don't have time to think about so many sad things, let ourselves try to be paralyzed, don't run away when we think of him, and think about it will fade away.

Let yourself be presumptuous. When we are in love, we will choose to fall asleep at home or cry quietly for hours because of low mood, although this is a solution, but some people still feel breathless and overwhelmed. I think the best ways to release stress and pain are singing, shopping, shopping, and drinking.

Although drinking alcohol is not recommended, let yourself be completely drunk for one night, cry for one night, sleep for another night, and when you wake up the next day, you will feel a lot more open, and understand that no matter how sad you are, what you have lost will not come back.

1. Accept the facts.

The pain of falling out of love is unavoidable, no matter how strong you are, no matter how much you hide it, you can't deceive yourself, so accepting the fact that the relationship is over and acknowledging your pain is the first step out of falling out of lovelorn.

2. Stay away from the painful environment.

Taking a break will remind you of your ex's environment, so you can travel, meet more people, participate in activities, or adjust your living environment to seal away items that might be thinking of you.

You can change the layout and decoration of the room, and the new environment can help people rebuild new hopes, travel, participate in activities, and meet new people can increase their knowledge and help them get out of their own limitations.

3. Vent your emotions correctly.

Generally speaking, lovelorns will experience emotions such as anger, pain, grievance, and pity, which is normal, just like a person who is burned will scream in pain. These emotions need to be dealt with in a timely manner, you can confide in relatives and friends, you can also hold the pillow and cry silently, and you can also listen to some sad ** to relieve emotions. In any case, negative emotions need to be exported, otherwise, a person with negative emotions or suppressing their own emotions will have a great negative impact on future relationships.

Remember that even if there is a burst of negative emotions, you must leave a trace of sanity, the pain of falling out of love is temporary, don't use the pain as an excuse for indulgence, and don't do things that you may regret.

4. Cultivate your own interests.

After falling out of love, you can focus on cultivating your own interests, which is actually a kind of emotional transfer, that is, let yourself focus on the lovelorn emotions and devote yourself to the things you are interested in. At the same time, you can also arrange your own meeting activities according to your stage of lovelorn, less contact with the Internet, and more experience life in real life, such as traveling abroad, playing ball, participating in public welfare activities, etc.

5. Give yourself time to grow in pain.

Pain takes time to repair, there is no need to rush, try to feel the pain, reflect on the last relationship, find yourself and the other person's problems in the relationship, until you can accept it calmly, you will find yourself growing.

When you are able to look at the previous relationship calmly and find the problems and strengths of each individual, you have grown in the pain and can let go of the past and get back on the road.

Breaking up is an unforgettable thing that many young men and women have experienced! Some people say that separation is a habit, and some people say that separation is a kind of past.

No matter how many things are said, it is undoubtedly painful for people who are going through a breakup! Everyone does things differently when they go through a painful breakup.

Some people smoke and drink alone, some cry and talk to friends;

Some people embark on a journey alone, and some people leave this sad city silently!

Netizen 'Likai': He is my classmate in elementary school, and he has gone through junior high school and high school together, and applied for the same university. Later, when we broke up, I went to the school where I met him and burned all the little notes that had been passed around when I was studying......

Netizen 'Solo Flying Sparrow': It's nothing, I'm the best, he doesn't know how to cherish it, it's good to get through that period of time when he is used to being by his side!

Netizen 'Flowers and Butterflies': When I drank, I thought I could drink and vomit, so I spit out all the past, but I was lying to myself!

Netizen 'stay in Thirteen Months': I have been in love with her for a long time, and she went to work in other places due to work. Originally, she had already said that she would get married the year after tomorrow, but when I was secretly planning a marriage proposal, she disappeared, and she didn't reply to WeChat**, and when she came back, she said she broke up, saying that I couldn't give her the life she wanted.

I compromised, but I didn't tell my parents, I didn't tell my friends. Because I know that when I tell them, they must be angry and must be on my side. If one day she changes her mind, at least my parents won't agree!

So, I pretended not to break up alone, was happy every day, and waited for her for a year, but she didn't come back ......

The Buddha said that if you put two identical oil lamps in front of your eyes and one in the distance, you will feel that the one in front of you is the brightest! But after they are all far away, they are all the same!

In fact, all living beings are the same, the one who once loved is the lamp in front of them in the heart and in front of them! One day the light was gone, and it was dark! As the days go by, you get used to it, so all the lamps are the same!

However, how can people in this world forget except for really suffering from amnesia! It's just trying to fade it as best you can, or hide it in the deepest and deepest part of your heart!

However, no matter how painful the process of falling out of love is, in the end, we will all end up in the same place, that is, to have a warm marriage!

The landlord asked this question, it should have been spent in pain, if it really can't work, you can go to the doctor, after all, confiding in friends and parents is not a long-term solution, the key depends on yourself, whether you are willing to walk out. Falling out of love is just one of the big problems. If you can't cross this, you can't go to a wider wilderness.

I hope that even if you experience a broken love, you will not deny the meaning of love, only in this way can you not lose the ability to love others. When you really fall in love with someone, your heart will become soft. It's a lot like learning to ride a bike, you will form a memory, and if you know it, you will know it.

Time will always give you another perspective. Love yourself, friends.

In fact, in the matter of feelings, the biggest thing should not be to try to let go completely. When you want to let go completely, it means that you can never let go, and the more you let yourself not think about it, the easier it is to remember those painful memories.

Most people just rely on all kinds of coincidences that have no special meaning when they were young, and then they gradually establish trust and affection, and reach the state of lovers, lovers, and couples. But that's okay, if you live with anyone and help each other for a long time, you will build trust and affection. Fate is actually a coincidence, and people themselves add drama to themselves.

In fact, you don't need to forget the other person, on the contrary, you have to remember him, like a childhood memory pressed under the box, don't choose to forget, that is something very precious to you. It is undeniable that he existed and that he existed.

He has come to live your life, and your life is wonderful because of him, and that's enough! Everyone who has appeared in your life is here to teach you something, so thank him, we are all becoming what we like, looking for our more suitable other half, and pursuing the life we like more, everything is the best arrangement. Go forward and don't look back.

Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance, good luck.

Because falling out of love means the end of a relationship, and the relationship has invested you in a lot of experiences, you will feel pain, and if you want to get out of it, you have to try to forget about it.

Because the emotions in my heart are very complicated, I always feel that this kind of thing is impossible, so I feel painful. You should talk to your parents, or you can divert your attention, you can go on a trip, or you can focus on work.

The pain is because you are attentive, and you are reluctant to leave him. If you fall out of love, you will give yourself a small long vacation and travel to relax.