How to get out of the pain of falling out of love for eight years

Hello! Hope I can help you!Falling out of love is the experience of growing up in life! Only those who are relieved in a broken love will.

More and more mature! It's an excuse to say that it's not suitable, and it's an excuse to get fate.!In fact, two people who meet each other and fall in love also need the joint efforts of both parties.

will continue slowly.!Often being the most familiar stranger will make you more miserable! Think a little more open!

The so-called encounter, why should it be similar! Now that you've known and fallen in love! And what is there to regret!

It's just an excuse to say fate, Respect her choice, respect her choice, maybe she will be dead to the ground for the man she has just met,!But she lost someone who loved him very much, and I think she would regret the choice she made. Come on, engage in career struggle. ,.

There is only one you in the world, even if no one knows how to appreciate it, you have to love yourself well and be your truest self.

Be sure to believe it. Good love will be next time!

Don't care too much about some people who care too much about some things, go with the flow and face it with the best attitude, because the world is so unfair, and we are often the least valuable in front of the things we care about the most.

You have to find something other than love that will make you stand strong on the earth with your feet.

Don't hold on to the memories, the kite with a broken string can only let it fly, let it go, and let yourself go.

Use children as motivation to create your own piece of heaven! Someday she will regret it! Time is the best medicine! Let yourself be healed in the struggle!

It seems that she has met a new friend, and you let your daughter impress her, if it doesn't work, it will be difficult to recover. Or you succeed quickly and become a successful person.

There are not many eight years in this life, and after 8 years of love, they broke up, which is very painful. However, this is already a fact. A breakup may be a sign that you are not quite compatible with each other and cannot go to the end.

How can I get out of my grief? Let's find out.

1. Complete disconnection.

8 years of love is really a hard and unforgettable love, and it is impossible to get out of the pain quickly. However, there is no one in this world who cannot be forgotten, it just depends on whether we are willing to forget. If you want to come out of your grief quickly,I think the most important thing is to find a way to completely disconnect from him, to have no contact with each other, and to be the most familiar strangers to each other.

After breaking up, many people can't get out of their grief for a long time, just because after the breakup, they will keep paying attention to each other, often looking at the chat records of the two people, and the ** ...... that the two have taken togetherDoing so will only make yourself more miserable, because how beautiful the love used to be is how hurtful it is now. So, let the past pass, and don't let the past torment your present self again. Let yourself no longer fall into the past, the best thing is to do everything possible to cut off contact with the past, delete all the information about him, and block all the information about him, throw away the things he sends you, and delete the ** that you shoot with him.

The so-called out of sight and out of mind, give yourself a little time, and over time he will slowly disappear in your mind. <>

2. Divert attention

If you're feeling sad and miserable, try to distract yourself and do something you enjoy. For example: take a trip, see this beautiful and wonderful world, you can go to sports, go to a big meal, go to the casino, ......<

It is also a good choice to turn the pain of falling out of love into motivation for work and study, and strive to improve yourself. It's normal to fall out of love, and don't be decadent because of falling out of love.

First of all, you should think about what the reason for your breakup is, and then if it is still possible, it is best to get back together with each other, 8 years of love is too difficult, there is no need to separate because of some trivial things; You should work hard to improve yourself, don't think about each other after breaking up, cultivate more hobbies, distract yourself, make more intimate friends, communicate and play with them, and listen more when you feel uncomfortable**.

I think you must go out and walk more, being in a noisy environment can make you forget your sadness for a short time and work as much as possible.

You can try to keep each other There must be feelings between the two people, if you can't get it back, tell yourself that it must be two people who are not suitable, even if they are together, there are a lot of contradictions in the back!

Hello subject: During this time, I was also facing the troubles caused by the loss of love, selling Li Hu, and bad emotions. I can understand your feelings, you can't eat well, you can't sleep, sometimes you cry when you think about it, your heart is very uncomfortable, it's really heartbreaking and sad. Here's how to help you.

1.Confide. You can take the initiative to talk to friends and family about your troubles, or you can write a diary or letter to record your distress and release your emotions.

2.Empathy. For example, developing friendly friendships and devoting yourself to nature.

3.Dredge. Harassing love is based on the premise of being outdoors, and the right of the other party to choose a lover should be respected, and more analysis of one's own advantages should be used to enhance self-confidence.

4.Self-examination. Think about it, although falling out of love is a loss of an opportunity and will cause harm, it can temper and help us grow.

5.Seek help. If you feel that you can't handle the pain of falling out of love alone, you can seek professional help.

The world and I love you!

Hello subject. 7 years of relationship, a person who has been completely integrated into his life, how can he say that he can let it go, and allow himself time to adjust.

Ask me if I am sad, because I am used to him, and I am not used to it after separation, or I can't let go of my feelings for him.

You first know how you feel, whether it is really because it is not suitable, or because of the other party, and propose to break up, and then you can sort out your emotions.

If you just don't get used to yourself and have problems with the other party, then you really have to adjust yourself to make it out of habit, just imagine that in the next 7 years, there is no result of this, there must be some problems.

The fastest way to improve this state is to use another Zhao Tan Kai mood, instead of past habits, you can see what you usually like, sports, hobbies, will make yourself not a family call to be full, slowly get used to a person's state, has wasted 7 years of time because of a relationship, do you still want to continue with sadness?

If the relationship is very good and the other party proposes to break up, whether you have kept it yourself, whether you blindly obey the other party's wishes, even if you propose to break up, you will not strive for it, then this relationship really needs to be summarized by yourself, whether you have the courage and strength to ask for your own happiness.

I wish you the courage to be yourself.