I m in trouble right now, and I don t know who to ask for help?

First of all, see if you can solve it, and secondly, see if there are people among your friends who can help you or guide you to solve difficult problems. If you don't have it, you have to reflect on your usual way of making friends, your friendship situation, and your own way of life. If you really don't have friends, then you should ask your relatives, after all, blood is thicker than water.

What kind of thing is it? If it's a mobile phone problem, a computer problem can be solved here.

If there are other real-world problems, you can ask your relatives and friends for help.

We are a family of four, there is an 86-year-old mother-in-law, a 40-5-month-old daughter, my husband is 52 years old with severe emphysema, as well as severe asthma, lost the ability to work, I have severe postpartum depression, severe headache, and also lost the ability to work, I hope to help our family of four, my husband and I went to various departments, they are all pushing three and four, just the day before yesterday, my daughter was sick, the family has no money to see a child to see a doctor, there is no department to help our family, my husband is looking for the district committee, The attitude of the district committee is not good and my husband quarreled, the neighborhood committee hit the police station, I didn't expect the neighborhood committee and the police station to be a gang, and my husband was locked up, what should we do with the old and young, is there no king law in this society, what should I do as a woman, ask for help!

I am Shishan Village, Chaoyang Township, Shangrao City, Jiangxi Province, I opened a small shop, and a person came to my small store to buy a pack of sanitary napkins with a 7-degree space.

Hello, when faced with insurmountable difficulties, our first reaction is usually to ask for help. But now there is another saying that "when you are at a low point, you should turn yourself into silent mode". What do we do?

I feel that I can ask for help and try to pull myself out of the pit with the help of other people's strength or resources. But there are two precautions for slow dismantling:

2. Lower expectations. Human nature is self-interested, and the essence of communication is value exchange. If you are at a low point, sane people will definitely worry that not only will they not save you, but they will be pulled into the pit by you.

To help others, you must have an attitude of "fighting, but not demanding", even if you have helped them before the age of time. We must believe that "it is my duty for others not to help me, and it is a favor to help me, and I should repay it with a spring in the future." With such a mindset, you will be able to open your mouth and will not be hit too hard by being rejected.

Then again, even if no one really helps you, that's not necessarily a bad thing.

There is a person who works in other places to buy a lottery ticket and win the jackpot, and the first thing he does after that is to call ** and tell his wife: "I am going to be hospitalized and need a large sum of money, you go to a relative to borrow it." The next day, I asked my wife again:

Did you borrow the money? The wife was about to cry: "I begged my relatives and friends, but no one would borrow it."

The man smiled: "Very good, I see who still has the face to borrow money from me."

Good luck.

Summary. Kiss, hug you! Don't be sad, life is the process of experiencing the difficulties of ninety-nine-eighty-one, and the past is growth and rebirth!

Kiss, hug you! Don't be sad, life is the process of experiencing the difficulties of ninety-nine-eighty-one, and the past is growth and rebirth!

It is not terrible to need difficult things, and the important thing is the attitude we should have in the face of the difficulties we encounter. First of all, to be calm, you must not be in a hurry, overwhelmed, even if this is the case, do not worry, this is also a normal situation, this is because in the face of difficulties, most of us react to the lack of preparation in the face of difficulties! Even if we don't have the exact level of difficulties that will occur, we must remain calm, a calm mind is more conducive to thinking, and the more anxious we are, the more helpless we are.

Second, we must properly comfort ourselves, think calmly, we can't change the external reasons in the face of difficulties, but we can change ourselves and make ourselves quietly stronger! Third, maintaining a positive attitude and an optimistic attitude is the most important lesson in overcoming difficulties. Fourth, analyze the causes of difficulties, and the first step in solving difficulties is to understand the causes of difficulties, and only when there is a clear direction can there be a direction to solve them.

If you don't even know the reason, you will blindly find a way to solve the problem, and I am afraid that you will take many detours and wrong paths. Fifth, summarize the lessons and lessons, take this as a lesson, and learn a lesson!