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My college classmate, she is 88 years old, 32 years old this year, she experienced a second marriage at the age of twenty-eight, divorced at the age of twenty-six, life is less than thirty years old, she experienced marriage, divorce and marriage, her family conditions are better, she played with her classmates when she went to school, we are a dormitory, she actually has little time to play with us when she goes to school, our relationship is fine, the reason why we don't play much is because she has a boyfriend.
When she went to college for military training, there was a boy who pursued her, she was a person who had not experienced anything at first glance, or it could be said that she had not suffered a girl, and it seemed that she had grown up pampered, and this boy actually had a very average family condition, probably a little poorer than ordinary people, and his home was a village in a small county town, and it was not a poor country, nor was it a place for people who were too poor, but it was just an ordinary child in the countryside.
And at that time, he pursued her very passionately, so they established a relationship within two months of the start of college, and then the two of them were so sweet in college that they couldn't do it, so she spent almost all of her free time with her boyfriend, and the two were really inseparable in college, so at that time, we were very envious of them, and they got married after graduation.
Although the girl's family conditions are much better than the boy's, the girl's family is in business, but the girl's parents feel that if she really likes it, they will support her, so the two got married, the house was bought by the girl's parents, and the boy was completely different from when he was in love after marriage, and in the end the two people always had conflicts, married for three and a half years, and the two divorced when the child was one and a half years old.
Later, the girl put the child in her mother's house, and then found a good job near her home, and then a colleague in the company pursued her, this male colleague's family conditions are a little worse than this girl's family, but definitely better than her predecessor, now the two of them have known each other for six years, married for four years, and live every day as if they are in love, not to mention how happy they are.
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The second marriage is indeed better than the first marriage, and I have a few friends who are second married, and they are all better than before, because their second marriage will cherish each other more.
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I'm married for the second time, and since you married your current husband, it really makes me feel what real happiness is, and I'm very happy every day, and I am spoiled as a baby.
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My uncle's second marriage is happier than the first marriage, because the first marriage is arranged by the family, and the two of them often quarrel, and the second marriage is my uncle's own finding, and after marriage, it is really very happy.
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Nowadays, many people who are married for the second time are doing better than the first marriage? Why? Because of happiness.
As we all know, the biggest contradiction in the second marriage family is the loss of children. As the saying goes, "Dog meat can't stick to sheep."
If you are not your own child, you will treat him (her) wholeheartedly. He or she will naturally have a feeling that he or she has nothing to do with you. Over time, contradictions naturally arise.
If one of the spouses is a reasonable person at this time, he or she will handle the conflict appropriately.
<>I don't think it's necessary to divorce if it's not necessary. Since we choose to be together, we should be responsible for the relationship, especially those who have children, because after the divorce, the children are poor and the children are innocent. In fact, there are very few good second marriages with foundations.
This can lead to divorce. In fact, there are problems on both sides. If this issue is not resolved, you may get a second and third divorce.
So you say that happiness comes from? In fact, you can never find the feeling of the first marriage in the second marriage, because the second marriage, frankly, is like buying second-hand. This is true because of the low price.
As long as it can be used, it will not be cherished or not cherished!
When a woman works outside and has sex with other men, she has children at home, but she chooses to divorce and elope with someone else. As a result, he came back half a year later and wanted to remarry, which showed that he was not living well outside. It is said that he was often beaten before returning.
The man also chose to remarry and continue living for his children. It's a bad life. There are also good people who have seen a second marriage.
Too many people get married and have children, and they live a good life. On this premise, they must all be divorced. If the first marriage and the second marriage are together, it is estimated that some people will have obstacles in their hearts.
It can only show if the person you're looking for is right. If you want to find the right person, you will be happy if you get married three times.
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Because many people are in the second marriage, they take "finding a suitable person to start a family" as their mentality, not for love, the so-called run-in is a mutual accommodation of "not wanting to toss", rather than a change of "wanting to live well together".
So first of all, the purpose is very strong, directly screen the right object, eat twice to determine whether it is suitable or not. My dad is busy with work and his time is unstable (in the same industry as my mother, so I was often left unattended when I was a child), and I wanted to find a stable family when I got married, so I directly told the introducer to find a civil servant or teacher, and some careers were not considered.
Secondly, the premise of forming a new home is not to harm one's existing interests. (especially with children) my dad and his second wife (usually I call my aunt and brought a younger sister), before and after marriage, the division of their respective property is clear, and they make their own wills, and they will not have any emotions when they settle accounts. First marriages generally can't accept such a reckoning.
In the end, the mentality is not the same, if the average person gets married for the first time because of love, although they are not thinking about divorce, but the temper of the two is difficult to contain, and it is common to quarrel with contradictions and cold wars. The second marriage is not exactly true love, but it is really not a divorce, and there are contradictions.
All marriages that are not based on the husband and wife are basically no fun. It's just that the contradiction between the second marriage is more prominent, and the reason is still the same.
I see many, many happy families in Europe who are married for the second time.
There are two second-married couples within my eye who have no children of their own, and one family even has as many as 5 children in their previous marriages, but they get along well. The reason: people choose to make the couple the backbone of the family, the rock.
Children, no matter who they are, are all outsiders between husband and wife. Leave your child alone, my child. We are husband and wife, they are both children, and they are treated equally, so this marriage is worth concluding, and this matter can be done.
Looking back at the situation of many families in our country, let alone second marriage, many couples have never twisted into a rope in the first marriage. In Cao Ying, his heart is in Han. Everything has never been based on the new home of the young couple, and there is no child brought by the ex-wife and ex-husband to have the original family.
's parents go in and out of the emotional territory of the young couple at will. Isn't it the same thing to shout at your father and my mother between the couple in the first marriage and quarrel with your children and my children in the second marriage? The key is that they didn't see each other as their own people and got into a fake marriage.
said that it was a bird in the same forest, and they were all thinking about speaking out for their mother's family to get benefits. If it is a divorce due to this factor, don't be lucky, the second marriage is likely to be Waterloo again.
It's really better to take their own children and go out on a generous date without talking about family responsibilities to support the elderly, and the children don't have to call this dad today and that aunt tomorrow.
If you want to go the road of marriage, then the new husband and wife are the only partners in your future family. Don't seek personal gain, don't enjoy the comfort of marriage, but only mess with the welfare of your children. If you really can't let go of your children, don't remarry, go to prostitution and settle accounts.
Don't fool anyone with marriage.
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The main reason is that two people in the second marriage cannot treat each other sincerely, so no matter how they get along, there will be a big gap between each other, which is not as good as the first marriage.
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Because behind the second marriage, there are also exes and children, and they can't devote themselves to the new family, so the second marriage is generally not as good as the first marriage.
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The main reason is that people who are married for the second time have no hope for marriage, and they are married simply for the sake of living.
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Because when I got married for the first time, I didn't understand a lot of things, I dreamed of being a girl, thinking that I was full of love and water, but after stepping into marriage, many men didn't want to be motivated, and they couldn't even guarantee the most basic life, so what happiness did they talk about? A woman who is married for the second time will never be easily deceived by a few words of love.
When you get married in the first marriage, you are innocent and easy to be coaxed by scumbags, but when you get married for the second time, you will pay more attention to the investigation of character and character. Find a man with a strong sense of family responsibility, and it's no wonder if you're unhappy.
A truly mature man doesn't care whether a woman is married for the first time or the second time. Those men who have low eyes and low hands and have achieved nothing will feel that divorced women are useless, and truly mature men will know that divorced women know how to cherish life. Two people are considerate of each other, which is the foundation of happiness.
Women must not suffer the torture of scumbags silently because they are afraid of divorce, which is not only unfair to themselves, but also fuels the arrogance of scumbags. Start over and give yourself a chance to make a new choice so that you have a greater chance of finding happiness. If you are unfortunate enough to meet a scumbag, divorce is really not so terrible, and God will definitely treat every kind woman well.
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It can only be said that I haven't met the right person, sometimes some people fall in love with the brain, and they don't care about it when they love, and only then do they know what they want and what is suitable for them. So it's not that the second marriage is better than the first marriage, it's that you have figured it out!
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You think that a woman marries well because she is young and beautiful.
In fact, no, young and beautiful are just suitable for being a junior, and the requirements of capable men for their wives are more about how much added value they can bring. And being smart is one of them, some women learn to be smart because of a failed marriage, and it is reasonable to marry better.
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Because I have already experienced a failed marriage, and then I get married for the second time, I must have more contact with the man and woman and understand each other more before they can get married, and they can't get married in a flash.
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Don't mislead some girls anymore, this percentage is very small.
Only occasionally some women, because they were hurt in the first marriage, have experience in the second marriage, marry a rich man, and give others the feeling that they are better married.
In fact, most of the second marriages are unhappy, and it is difficult to last long.
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The women around me, basically don't look for divorce, maybe there are more such people, because they recognize the true face of men, lazy, there are many reasons, women are not as comfortable as living by themselves.
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Because dizziness is blind, second marriage is more sober and knows what you want.
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Because summing up the failure of the first marriage.
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Today's marriage market because of the current situation of more men and fewer women, has poured into a lot of second-married women, they have gone through a failed marriage, more able to understand the true meaning of marriage, more empathetic, more gentle and considerate, but the same second-married women also have their taboos, so let's take a look at the three taboos of finding a second-married woman, and what are the differences between the first marriage and the second marriage?
The three taboos of finding a second-married woman are <>
Three taboos for finding a second-married woman: a taboo woman with a major mistake in the reason for divorce, red apricot out of the wall, delicate self-interest, Voldemort, mother's treasure girl, no opinion, serious women's rights, disgust with poverty and love for rich, three views of poor character, etc.
Two taboo women who are entangled with their ex, some women are divorced, but they have always been in contact with their ex and think they are friends, but in fact, this is very taboo, especially with the ex and the link of children, can't sort out emotions, can't reason, can't explain the situation, can't see the status quo, such a woman marrying home will also make people depressed and worried.
Many women can't take good care of their children who are not their own, but they can still be as fair as possible. Most second-married women are still facing second-married men, and both parties have children, so at this time, it is taboo that second-married women only have their own children in their eyes and treat their children differently.
What is the difference between a first marriage and a second marriage?
The difference between the first marriage and the second marriage is naturally very big, one is the relationship between the two, although the first marriage is blind, but it is also sincere and wholeheartedly trying, after all, the second marriage has experience, and naturally both parties will have reservations. The second is the reality of the two, the second marriage means that there may be children, and in the treatment of children, they need to be more careful. The third is the mentality, most of the second marriage is the mentality of living together, and there will be discussions on trust, love and dedication.
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There are many crossroads in this life, many times everyone will feel confused, and people will even choose the wrong road to go on, but it doesn't matter, life is a whole process of repeated choices. Everyone will always have opportunities, and the same is true for married life, many people feel unhappy after marriage, so they choose to divorce, and then step into a new relationship again, we all have a cognitive ability, that is, a woman who is married for the second time is not easy to be happy, but is this really the case?
As we all know, people are not easy to fall again and again in the same place, if we have a marriage breakdown, we will be very cautious in the later married life, afraid that they will be injured again, and the process of second marriage will be especially cautious, will be more clear about what kind of person they want, what kind of life, understand his living habits, his family situation, do the necessary preparations in advance, not easy to be rash.
In the case of second marriage, women will know more how to love a person, know how to deal with the relationship between men and women, know how to be tolerant, know how to understand, know how to be careful, understand that married life must be operated, and it is necessary to have small skills.
Once a woman is divorced, she will figure out her feelings, this kind of thing really can't be forced, and she can't be compromised! It must be consensual, after the divorce, they will be more persistent in choosing to find the right person, rather than choosing to make do with others and live by themselves. Therefore, it doesn't matter if you love wrong or choose the wrong one, we must come out bravely.
Since if you are serious about operating, you will continue to have a better relationship, I hope everyone can meet someone who understands you and grow old together!
No matter how many marriages you get, as long as you treat each other with your heart, think more about each other, and be more tolerant, you will definitely live a very happy life!
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Let's talk about the future life, especially if the second-married woman has already experienced a marriage failure, you have to show understanding and tolerance to give her happiness in the future, so that she can trust herself to you with peace of mind.
After marrying him, these belong to the marital property, and if they belong to him and you before they get married, these will only belong to his children.
In fact, marrying a second-married wife in my life, I feel that this is indeed a bit bad, and if you are older than yourself, it will be even more troublesome.