I got married in a flash last winter, and I am facing a divorce this winter. What the hell am I supp

First of all, I want to say that if a boy can get married in a flash, the sense of responsibility is unreliable, what was the original intention of the two of you in the first place? Of course, being able to get married shows that your relationship was very good at that time, but everyone has a history of relationships, and if a boy can get married in a flash, it cannot be ruled out that he has been injured or has been lonely for a long time.

Marriage and love are two concepts, although love cannot be missing in marriage, but love must not represent marriage, you think carefully about what kind of feelings you have for him now after a year of getting along, do you love him? If you love and can't let go, then try to learn to tolerate and understand, if you don't love deeply, just consider the face problem after the divorce, then I don't think there is any need for your marriage to last.

When thinking about whether a relationship is over, in addition to thinking about his feelings for him, how he treats you, does he fulfill the duties of a husband, and often calls you abroad **? Do you know the specifics of what he has to do? Does he come home often?

If he hasn't been back to you for a few years, then his feelings for you have faded. A person who is abroad, when you quarrel or you are lonely, he can't really be by your side, this is all uncertain.

Whether to divorce or not, you have to make your own decision, and the feelings of both parties in marriage are the most important. Don't die to save face.

As for the hukou issue, if you decide to divorce, will he agree to it? If he agrees, he can agree to divorce, then the hukou will naturally be resolved, and if he does not agree, you can file a lawsuit through legal channels.

Then leave, anyway, I don't think there are any children and property.

In the case of divorce by agreement, after negotiation between the two parties, they should go through the divorce formalities at the original marriage registration authority with the divorce agreement, marriage certificate and ID card of both parties and receive the divorce certificate; If one party does not agree or regrets not performing after signing the divorce agreement, then the divorce should be filed in the court where the defendant is domiciled.

If you don't love it, let it go as soon as possible, this kind of thing is very bad for women, and flash marriage is like a big gamble

Alas. There is always some cause and effect to be together.

It's so easy to say that you can leave.

No, because no one is fit for marriage, marriage is like a traffic rule, only people obey it, not it adapts to us.

Marriage doesn't change its rules just because someone doesn't fit in. It is only we, the individuals who enter into marriage, who accept its occasional dissatisfaction. Marriage is not a piece of clothing, if it is not suitable, it will be cut and cut.

We can only change ourselves to conform to it, and to see the boundaries and rules of its relationship. If we don't comply, marriage will lead us by the nose, and then we won't feel happy, and it's better to be single.

Now many people have such doubts, marriage is too tiring to get along, why get married? Marriage is a one's choice, a one's need, not a necessity. Many of us choose marriage for love, age, and parental urging.

No one has ever married for the sake of the integrity of his own life.

When others come to the world, they also take a trip themselves. In the end, others felt the growth that marriage brought to themselves, increased the thickness of their lives, and they only got the shallow friendship of relatives and friends.

The world is full of wonders. There are those who choose marriage, and there are those who refuse marriage. It's not something that everyone has to go through with a knife rack neck. It's a completely voluntary decision.

If we choose, we can't give up easily, and the back of the marriage is a promise. You can't just buy a toy like a kid and throw it away after a few days of playing. Marriage is sacred, and it cannot be desecrated, let alone choose three points of heat and give up seven points of coolness.

Now many of us can't tell the line between marriage and love. Marriage is a responsibility, love is a hormone. Responsibility needs to be borne all the time, and the hormones don't know when they will subside.

We can't enter married life with an attitude of love. Otherwise, you will feel very different, and there will be no happiness at all.

Wailing and complaining, a piece of chicken feathers. once let himself collapse, his marriage was bumpy, and he wanted to give up all the time. I feel that Shoudan is not suitable for marriage, and being single is the destination, which is a problem with the mentality.

Therefore, I will not choose to divorce, I will examine my mentality and practices, and I will not give up easily. The life that so many people in the world have chosen can adapt to themselves.

In short, I hope you don't have such an idea, marriage was not invented for you alone, since it has existed for so long, it has its own reason for existence.

Personally, I think that if you encounter this situation, then you can rent Zheng Hui as much as possible to understand the other party, and if you really feel that it is not appropriate to answer, then you can choose to divorce Congyou.

I think I should get a divorce. Because two people are not suitable at all, there is no need to compromise, and there is no need to delay each other's happiness.

No, everyone is responsible for their own choices, don't divorce easily, otherwise it will make you very miserable.