My friend is a bit selfish, what should I do with such a friend?

No matter how selfish your friend is, you have to be honest and reasonable, as long as you have a clear conscience.

If he befriends you. Just to take advantage of you.

Don't be a friend like that!

Since you call him a friend, you should be honest with each other like a friend, no one is perfect, and no one will have no shortcomings. I felt that he was selfish and selfish, so I said it bluntly. Maybe he'll change.

Seek common ground while reserving small differences. Don't seek perfection, just adapt.

Look at pulling, if it's always like that, let's not pay it!

Treat it with a tolerant heart, but you can't let him take advantage of you, you should let him know that you treat him as a friend, but he will not bully people who are materialistic. Also, the relationship between friends is limited to ordinary friends, don't make friends in deep friendship, this kind of person can't work together, you can't move him anyway, don't let him eat you.

It depends on what kind of friends it is! Different Friends With Different Methods Boyfriends and Girlfriends Have Boyfriend and Girlfriend Workarounds.

Ordinary friends have solutions for ordinary friends.

Figure it out for yourself! Relationships are not heard!

I'm talking nonsense, but it's practical! Good advice can be hard to swallow.

If my best friend says I'm selfish, then I'm going to reflect on it and see if there's something wrong with what I'm doing. If there is, it will be changed, and if it is not, it will be encouraged. If it's your own mistake, you will apologize to your friend Cheng and hope that he will forgive you.

If it weren't for my own mistakes, I wouldn't have argued with my friends, just laughed it off.

Then you can ask yourself if there is something that makes your friends think you are selfish. In fact, people are selfish, but it is best not to be too selfish when getting along with friends. If you're really too much, then apologize to your friends.

When I am told to be selfish by my good friends, I will only think about whether I have really done wrong, if I have not done wrong, then I think it doesn't matter, after all, sometimes everyone can be said something bad by others, after all, the mouth grows on other people's bodies, not what we can control.

I'm still sad in my heart, because I think I'm good enough for her, maybe I'm selfish, but I'm still very selfless when I treat her, after all, she is my friend, the only good friend, how can I treat her with someone else's attitude?

If my best friend really said that, then I would definitely reflect on whether I was really selfish. But I personally think the subjective consciousness is too obvious, I will kindly ask my best friend, my personal selfishness is manifested in **? In what way?

Then ask the other party to point it out and make it clear that you will change it in the future.

Since I am the best friend, my first reaction must be to reflect on myself, because after many years of friends, my relationship with him is undoubted, and we are both straightforward people, since he pointed out my shortcomings, proving that I also have such problems, only people close to me will have the courage to point out my mistakes, and I really hope that I can correct them.

If you are misunderstood, you must prove your innocence, refute everything she said, and then prove yourself with examples, and say everything that should be said. If what a good friend says is not wrong, sometimes the advice is contrary to the ear, reflect on it, and correct it immediately.

I feel that since we are my best friend, there is something we really did wrong, otherwise he would not have said such things. At this time, we don't want to argue with good friends, which will affect the feelings between each other, maybe the good friend is angry and waiting for him to be angry, and then sit down and talk about it, it is estimated that they will feel ashamed of their behavior!

One time I went out to the movies with my friends, and I only bought a Coke, and my friends saw me and said I was selfish. I said that I don't know what you drink and buy you a copy, friends need to empathize with each other, and they won't be unhappy because of some small things, and everyone cherishes this friendship very much.

"Selfishness" is not a good word. Saying that others are "selfish" in life is equivalent to saying that others are immoral, and it is time to reflect and repent.

However, thanks to the flow of information, most people have heard such words as "people are selfish" and "human nature is selfish".

Since "human nature is selfish", why does "selfishness", such a natural, objective, and universal human nature, become a lever for people to attack each other?

In fact, people don't have to carry the "original sin" of "selfishness" and live in a humble life. You know, man is the noble god of this planet!

First of all, if you want to solve the problem, you have to be deeply aware of the cause of the problem, so you have to be aware of what is going on?

Why does she say you're selfish? Whether it's your fault or hers, if you're right, you can have a clear conscience.

My friend wanted to borrow my lipstick, and when I refused, he said I was selfish and stingy. It's sad and angry, but it also feels ridiculous.

Where do you stand to accuse me? It is my right to borrow or not to borrow, even my best friend can say no.

Don't kidnap me with friendship and make me do things that hurt my own interests or that I don't want to do at all.

Accusing me of being selfish, aren't you selfish? I will keep my distance from this friend, and it is better for everyone to have less contact in the future.

Selfish people are often personal values, there is a problem with the worldview, sometimes it doesn't make sense to reason with him, and he doesn't know what you're talking about, so I personally meet such a person I can not socialize, of course, just don't socialize, but it's best not to hurt him, it's not necessary! I think you're still in school, but one of your dormitory classmates is selfish, right?

Only the same kind of people will accuse others of right and wrong, not alarmist, as the so-called, the bystanders are clear, and the authorities are confused. Correct yourself moderately, and you will suddenly become enlightened.

There's no need to be a friend, you don't want this kind of friend, he's actually more like your enemy.

By your description, her personality is inherently distorted.

If it's not suitable, don't force it! It's the same with camaraderie! Aloof!

Do you still think that such a person is your friend?

When I first saw this question, I was thinking about how old you are, because your question is really too naïve, and the snacks that your friends bought were considered particularly selfish by you because they were distributed to you, so I would like to ask children, will you share them with your friends if you buy something yourself, or will you not buy it yourself if you want to eat it, why should others share it with you?

I don't know if people nowadays are very rich and willing to share anything with others, but I am very poor, and if I buy delicious food, which is relatively luxurious within my financial range, then I may not want to share it with others. Because I may not be able to eat enough, and I may not be able to satisfy my cravings, how can I be willing to share it with others.

And in my opinion, since it is food, you can buy it yourself if you want to eat, and the premise of making friends is that no matter what others buy, they have to share it with you, then I think probably no one wants to be friends with you, because who wants to find a friend who is only waiting for others to share everything, and he never knows how to pay.

Even if you really want to eat a food, then shouldn't you work hard to make money by yourself, or save pocket money and then buy it back to eat, everyone is from the same family, why should I share the food I buy with you?

According to your idea, is it not that others buy half of what they buy, and you wear clothes for a day, don't always think about others sharing with you, others are willing to give you is someone else's kindness, and others are not willing to give you is their duty. You have to dare to come here quickly, otherwise you will have no friends.

It's all about selfishness. There is a saying that if people are not for themselves, the heavens and the earth will perish. Confidants and friends should be tolerated. And sometimes if you think about your own behavior sometimes, you can be more understanding and tolerant of them.

If you are truly a friend, you should tolerate your friend's selfishness.

Selfish people.

There will be no friends forever.

No one is born particularly selfish, maybe he has some difficulties, since they are friends, they must be considerate of each other, and friends want to be able to pull you at critical moments.

1.Talk to a friend and point out this selfish flaw in him. As friends, we have an obligation to make our friend better and better, and if we find that our friend is selfish, we should tell him and ask him to correct it.

Even if it is a friend, if you directly tell him that he is selfish, it is not particularly appropriate, you can sit down with your friend and talk to him about his problem as if chatting, and when you talk about his selfish problem, you should also give appropriate examples, such persuasion will also be persuasive, tell him, because of the harm that his selfishness has brought to himself and to others. Be careful not to quarrel with your friend when persuading, if he can accept your persuasion, it is better, if he is not willing to accept it, then forget it, as a friend you have done your duty.

2.If a friend is still so selfish, then such a friend is better than not having one. He did his duty as a friend and persuaded his friend, but if he felt that he was not wrong and was still so selfish, then he still didn't want to have such a friend, and having a selfish friend was really better than not having such a friend, and he didn't want such a friendship.

Being friends with a selfish person will not get his sincerity, there will be no real friendship.

Although people are selfish, but we can't only think about ourselves at all times, we are all human beings, living in this world, there will definitely be this or that problem, we all need the help of others, so we really can't be too selfish.

There are often selfish people in life, and you may not care much about other people, but if your friend is very selfish, I think you should care as much as I do. My friend is very selfish, I think I can try the following methods to try to change his selfishness:

1.When you see that your friend's behavior is very selfish, you should not point finger at him face to face, you should find a separate time to talk to him in private, tell him your opinion, let him know that his behavior and thoughts are too selfish, and hope that it can be changed.

2.If your persuasion is ineffective, you can work with other friends to dissuade him, sometimes he may think that it is just that your personal thoughts are different from his, but when there are many people, he should realize that he may really be too selfish, and he will think about how he should change his selfishness.

3.Through his relatives or elders, let them persuade your friend, and sometimes he will realize his selfishness under the pressure of family affection, and he will naturally appreciate your good intentions.

If the other party is a true friend, he will know that you are for his good, and then change his selfishness, if he resists you because of your suggestions, and even complains about you and hates you, I don't think this friend should be, because he no longer regards you as his friend.

Making friends is a process of learning from each other and helping each other. Gift exchange has always been my way of socializing after making friends.

Etiquette is still exchanged, you should treat him as he treats you, he has always been very selfish, then you don't need to be good to him or try to maintain this friendship, maybe you have no place in his heart, many times it is just self-inflicted.

This is a very common phenomenon, and there are really many selfish people around. People don't die for themselves, this sentence is really true. Everyone is definitely for themselves, everyone is like that, and no one is exempt.

At the beginning of human beings, the inherent goodness of nature is something we learn from an early age. But I don't think this statement is entirely true, in fact, I think human nature is evil.

No one but your parents can be unselfish. Selfishness is human nature. In the face of those selfish people, we don't need to explain and talk to them, just stay away.

Because if you talk to them, they may be more selfish. Especially girls. As long as you're not selfish, don't be like them.

If you can't stand it, then you make it clear to them that you won't be friends anymore. After all, things gather like people, people are grouped, and if you want to be excellent and kind, you have to be with these people. There are really not many friends here, and one day there will be people who understand you.

I don't think you're being particularly selfish, but you're just thinking a little bit more. You are afraid that after the notes you have compiled are used by others, your grades will improve more than yourself. It's understandable, so let's take a look at my experience.

There are many manifestations of selfishness, the most common of which is not caring for others when eating. When I was in my first relationship, when my boyfriend went to dinner with me, he never took care of me, never asked me what I wanted to eat when he ordered, but would gobble it up as soon as he ordered it.

I remember one time I wanted to eat spicy food, but the other party felt that I couldn't eat spicy food, I wanted to put some chili peppers on my own, and the other party thought I was hypocritical. I know that the other party can't eat spicy food, I should understand, but why don't you buy two servings when you buy food, one is spicy and the other is not spicy.

Later, the two of us also broke up because of the meal, and in the end, this person became more and more excessive, and it didn't matter if I was full or not during the meal. When the two of us eat, we often pay for the AA system, but every time I always can't eat, because after the meal comes, the other party eats half of it, and the remaining half, and the two of us are half of each other, this kind of life makes me feel particularly aggrieved.

Once I went to eat Malatang with the other party, I went to get the soup, but I didn't expect the other party to eat all the dishes, and ate all the dishes I liked, at that moment, I felt that this person was really not suitable to live together, because it was too selfish.

With a selfish person, you may not even have enough to eat, which is not an exaggeration at all, because I have experienced it myself. Therefore, if a person is particularly selfish when eating, don't be with this person, because after being with this person, you can't even solve your own stomach.