How can parents convince their boyfriends if they are not optimistic about them?

First of all, we have to know that parents are not optimistic about their boyfriends, which means that they have a reason, and parents hope that their daughters can join a good family, only in this way can they make their lives more complete, and parents are also people from our age, they are more experienced, they will also put forward relevant things to remind us, so we must pay attention to their reminders.

But if your parents really don't like your boyfriend, first of all, you must explain the advantages of your boyfriend to your parents, and also tell your parents how he will feel about himself in life, and also tell him how he treats himself in life, only in this way can your parents fully understand their boyfriend, if you yourself don't praise your boyfriend in front of your parents.

Then your parents won't know what your boyfriend is like at allAnd you must have a calm attitude when communicating with themDon't argue too much with them, because at this time it is meaningless for you to communicate with them, only if you calmly explain this problem to them, they will pay more attention to you, will believe you, and also love you, support you, in the adult world, whose parents are to rely on whom to get it.

It's impossible to ask your boyfriend to help you get your own parentsBut I personally recommend that you say a lot of nice things about your boyfriend in front of your parents, and that the two of you should be very sweet to each otherDon't complain in front of your parents about how your boyfriend treats you, otherwise it will really make your parents feel that they were very right in the first place, and it will not change your boyfriend's opinion.

In this case, you can communicate with your parents and tell them the advantages of your boyfriend, and I believe they should agree.

Then you need to let your parents see the good in your boyfriend, so that they know that your boyfriend is actually very good.

I think I should sit down with my parents and talk about why I think her boyfriend is not good, and let her parents see the good in her boyfriend.

I think you can tell your parents please give you a little time and also give your boyfriend a chance to behave well and show them that you know him better than your parents.

said that he had decided, that he had been with him for so long and knew him very well, and that he felt that he was the person he was looking for, and if he lived a hard life in the future, he would choose it by himself, and he would not blame them.

Communicate with them carefully, understand where they are dissatisfied, and then slowly ask your boyfriend to correct it.

You can talk to your parents that you should give your boyfriend a chance to show what he can do, and then decide whether to look at it or not.

Find out why your parents have an opinion and work with your boyfriend to solve the problem. If a relationship wants to really go to the end, and if you want to step into a happy marriage, the support and affirmation of parents are 10 points important for two people. If the girl's parents have a big opinion about the boy, it will be difficult for the two to really go on.

There is no love and hate for no reason, and when you encounter a problem, you have to find a way to find the cause. Your parents have a big opinion about your boyfriend for the problems you are having right now, it must be because they are not happy with your boyfriend in some way, or because some of your boyfriend's behaviors touch their bottom line.

There is no point in relying on pure speculation, you can only solve this problem if you communicate with your parents, and only find the real reason for their opinions in their words.

This means that you need to be calm in communicating with your parents, rather than losing your temper or threatening to be irritable during the communication process. What you need to know is the root cause of their dissatisfaction with their boyfriend, and that's something you can only do.

And the boyfriend try to satisfy the parents, and decide the next behavior according to the actual situation. If your parents are not satisfied with the financial conditions, then the two of them work hard to earn money and make the living conditions better, and your parents may not have such a big opinion in the future; If your parents are unhappy with your boyfriend's behavior, you can let him make changes in his life after telling him.

This is actually a very feasible route in life, but in many cases you simply cannot solve the problem of your parents' dissatisfaction. For example, if your boyfriend never wanted to enter into marriage with you, if your boyfriend was not willing to change himself at all, and if your boyfriend never wanted to please your parents and satisfy your parents, in this case, I think choosing to break up may be the best ending.

Choosing between love and family is a very difficult thing to do, and it would be best if you could make everyone happy, but if it is really difficult to solve this problem, perhaps you should prepare yourself mentally in advance and not let yourself be too embarrassed.

Although we have always emphasized that marriage is natural, parents cannot interfere in their children's marriage, but in real life, there are still many parents who interfere in their children's marriage or romance at will, resulting in many couples who love each other in the end unable to come together, obviously love each other deeply, but because of the opposition of their parents, this relationship becomes more and more painful, so when their parents have a very big opinion of the man, what should the woman do?

Think from the perspective of parents

The relationship between men and women is actually very simple, it is that wonderful feeling of love, they only care about the present, and will not consider the future, so girls pay more attention to the relationship with boys, rather than other things. But from the perspective of parents, parents think more comprehensively, look at things more rationally, and parents who love their daughters are more concerned about the man's family economic situation, work and income, so when these conditions cannot meet the requirements of the parents, the parents will feel that once they get married, the man will not be able to guarantee that his daughter can live comfortably, so the opinion of the man will be great. In such a situation, the woman will feel that her parents are snobbish and greedy for money, and she will argue with her parents angrily, which will only make the parents' opinions about the man greater.

Understand and communicate with parents

In fact, there are reasons why parents have opinions about the man, and this reason may not be worth mentioning in the eyes of the woman at all, but it is really very important in the eyes of the parents, but the understanding of each other is different. As a child, you should actually consider the problem from the perspective of your parents, and you can think about it from another perspective. Because parents are from the past, they experience the bitterness of life, and feel that love is not the necessities and security of life, and work and money are the most reliable, so no matter how strong and deep the children's feelings are, they are useless in the eyes of their parents.

Therefore, the woman can understand them from the perspective of her parents and talk to her parents calmly about her thoughts.

Of course, if the parents still react very violently, then they can let the parents say their requirements, and then work hard with the man to meet the requirements of the parents, and when the man has done this, I believe that the parents will also see the man's sincerity and ability, and can rest assured that the daughter will be handed over to the man.

Yes, I think the key is to see if the two of you like each other, you can also communicate with your parents well, see why your parents have such a big opinion about your boyfriend, of course, the key is to see your choice, if you really like it. Just stick to it!

Learn to communicate. You can let your boyfriend show her strengths, go to your parents' house more, let your parents know more about your boyfriend, and change their perception of your boyfriend.

It depends on what aspect your parents are dissatisfied with your boyfriend, you try to communicate with your boyfriend, hoping that he can get rid of these shortcomings, so that you can change your parents' opinion of him, otherwise it will be difficult for you to be together.

If they have a big opinion of your boyfriend, then you have to try to convince them to have your boyfriend with them more.

In the face of this situation, we must consider the current relationship of the two people, if the relationship between the two people is particularly stable, we must say more good things about the boyfriend in front of the parents, and we must change the parents' prejudice against the boyfriend.

First of all, you have to understand why your parents have such a big opinion of your boyfriend, and it must be something that he doesn't do well, otherwise parents don't do that.

I think the first thing to do is to adjust your mentality, and secondlyLove your boyfriend more and believe that their attitude towards you will change.

The reason why you say this is because the man's parents may feel that you will not be able to bring a better life to their son in the future, so they will have a bad attitude towards you or dislike you. It is precisely because they can't see that you have better care for their son or help in their lives that they will deny you. In such a situation, as long as you do your own things well and give your boyfriend more care and care in daily life, they will be able to accept you more gloomily.

1. Adjust your mentality and don't dwell too much on this matter.

There are many people who have been entangled in this matter because the man's parents don't like them very much, but they have not made substantial changes, and always think that the man's parents don't like them, which is the problem of the man's parents. If you don't put yourself in the shoes of others, then the matter will never change. So what you have to do now is to adjust your mentality and consider the problem from the perspective of the man's parents, then your problem will be solved.

Second, it is better for his boyfriend, especially in front of his parents.

The reason why the man's parents do not agree with you may be that they are only unilaterally aware of your family background or unilaterally think that you are not good enough for their son, and they are worried that their son's marriage will be unhappy in the future. So what you have to do is to give them enough security, be nice to their son, especially in front of them, and be sure to show great love for their son, so that they will let go and let you get married. <>

3. Be good at communicating and let them feel that you are a girl worth marrying.

The best solution to anything is communication, and if you can communicate effectively, then many things can be solved well. So you have to learn to communicate with the man's parents, dispel their concerns, and let them know what kind of girl you are. Getting people to trust is not something that can be done overnight, so you have to stick with it and make them feel that it is a great blessing to marry you back home.

I also need to go around with my boyfriend's parents a lot, and I can bring some gifts every time I see his parents, and I also need to maintain a polite state.

You should use your sincerity to move your boyfriend's parents and let them see your filial piety, because only in this way can you improve their attitude towards you.

I think you should always go to your boyfriend's house to connect with his parents, in fact, you should also prepare some gifts for his parents, and at the same time, you should behave well, so that the other party can accept you.

Summary. Hello, my boyfriend thinks a lot about his parents' thoughts because he thinks about a lot of factors, such as the future life, the problem of supporting the elderly in the future, and the problem of children, and not only the problems in front of him.

Hello, my boyfriend thinks a lot about his parents' thoughts because he thinks about a lot of factors, such as the future life, the problem of supporting the elderly in the future, and the problem of children, and not only the problems in front of him.

Your boyfriend doesn't introduce you to your parents.

How long have you been talking about someone?

Isn't it time for me?

Talked about it for more than two years.

More than two years is the time to see my parents.

In this case, you need to investigate whether he is raising fish.

It is possible that there are other people who are in a relationship with him.

It is recommended that you ask or investigate it secretly.

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