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It is said that if a woman wants a career, it is best to go to the big city to work hard, because in some small towns, the professional exclusion of women is still very serious, so there are many excellent girls with dreams and academic qualifications, for the fairness of the workplace, so the Manni choose to work hard in the big city, if you want to live a stable life in the big city, you must spend most of your energy on work, so after a few years, gradually become an older leftover girl in the eyes of some people, about the final fate of the leftover girl in the big city, some people really don't have to worry.
They are actually a group of people who have a good plan and control over their lives
Most people have about the same general ability, and if they have a certain financial foundation, they will return to their hometowns to buy a car, buy a house, and get a good job, and then find a warm man to marry, some people may say that after half a day of tossing, you still go back to your hometown to marry an ordinary man, in fact, these girls are just studying and working for their ability to survive in this society, and they are more patient and have their own goals, if you just want to marry a good man and don't have to work for life, then you might as well go on a blind date in college every day and give birth to a child after marriage to take care of your family.
When you find love and have a will, when you really mature, you know yourself and know the boy you want to find
You may just have to wave and you will be able to see the person at a glance。Always working and also being able to buy a house and a car in a big city, because a person is used to living a free life, so he is still alone, he finds a wife after retirement, marriage may catch the last train, she may have a better life than people who struggle in the city, in fact, most of the older leftover women have a good ending.
Because they are a group of intelligent, confident, capable and persistent women, compared to those who have no self-confidence all their lives and are controlled by lifeTheir fate is better, and they have a lot of choices about their future.
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I think that being able to take care of their lives, an honest person who can live a life is their ultimate destination, because this can bring a sense of security to them who are struggling.
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I think that people like Manni need someone who can give her a sense of security, and someone who understands her and tolerates her, so that it will last for a long time.
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I think that people who have a house, a car, and a deposit are the ultimate destination for Manni. Because this kind of man can make Manni have a more stable life and can struggle for many years less.
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Rich people with good personalities and single-minded people. Because they have been drifting in the big city for so long, what they want most is a home, and only rich people can give them a home. At the same time, they have high requirements for feelings, there is no room for sand in their eyes, and the other party must be a person with good character and single-minded feelings.
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It should be a romantic and funny, golden and handsome man who is their ultimate destination.
Big cities are tiring, but they are more diverse, and both mainstream and subcultures can find groups. Third- and fourth-tier cities generally find it difficult to accept a lifestyle that deviates from mainstream values, and they are not tolerant enough and have a slightly less ability to adapt to changes, like an elderly person.
First, the problem of accumulation; Having connections and resources in your hometown can help, but you have to start all over again outside, and it's still this kind of cannibalistic society. Second, there is a saying, a strong dragon can't suppress the head snake, people who develop at home and develop outside are not in the same state of mind, at home is a bold move, step by step outside is walking on thin ice, I think that young people just came out is to work hard, so to a certain extent, mentality has an impact on personal development. Of course, it is not that the development in the big city is not good, the opportunities in the big city are more and greater than at home, so to speak, we have to go back to the first point, the problem of accumulating time, swimming in the big city during this time, constantly enrich yourself, is gold, will always shine.
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