The boy said that he was tired and didn t want to talk about it, and he wanted to break up

Summary. Hello, dear, I'm glad to answer for you, I'm an emotional mentor Baobao, I hope mine can be helpful to you. Men say that you are tired and can break up, which is a sign of unlove.

This is obvious, he said that he really loves himself deeply, it is impossible to say such a thing, he will do everything to let himself enjoy that taste of happiness and sorrow, and he did not say this, but said that he can break up when he is tired, that means that he is already an indifferent attitude, he is dispensable to him, that's all. So when the boy says this, he has to know in his heart, because he doesn't care about himself anymore, and he can't get anything in return no matter how much he pays, he must understand this truth and know what he should do right, otherwise he must be sad in the end.

The man said that you are tired and can you break up without love.

Hello, dear, I'm glad to answer for you, I'm an emotional mentor Baobao, I hope mine can be helpful to you. Men say that you are tired and can break up, which is a sign of unlove. This is obvious, he said that he really loves himself deeply, it is impossible to say such a thing, he will do everything to let himself enjoy that taste of happiness and sorrow, and he did not say this, but said that he can break up when he is tired, that means that he is already an indifferent attitude, he is dispensable to him, that's all.

So when the boy says this, he has to know in his heart, because he doesn't care about himself anymore, and he can't get anything in return no matter how much he pays, he must understand this truth and know what he should do right, otherwise he must be sad in the end.

He didn't mention breaking up, that is, I could break up when I was tired, he said that there was love, and he said that he had me in his heart, is it all a lie.

Teacher, what you said is also right, maybe you just don't love me anymore, if you want to continue, continue, if you don't continue, leave, I asked him if he was uncomfortable, he said that letting go is equivalent to letting go of himself.

I hurt him once before, and he forgave me, but he said that I won't love you as much as I used to, so I can part when I'm tired, but only if I tell him in advance, I want to know what he thinks.

Hello dear, he said such a thing, the meaning is obvious, you hurt once before, she is really difficult to show such enthusiasm to you, he thinks that he will be really tired in this way, so he is ready to break up, since there is this idea, it is destined to be difficult in the long run. That's the case, he's such an attitude now, he can also say that he's waiting for you to take the initiative to leave, he just thinks that it is impossible for the two of them to have a result, so he comes up with this indifferent attitude, this is what he really thinks.

Summary. But I hope to come back, if you think he is really important and can't do without him, you can try to change it, change it slowly, and make the other party less tired.

My boyfriend said he was tired, but he didn't say he wanted to break up, right?

Hello, I have seen your question and am sorting out the answer, please wait a while

Not necessarily.

It may be angry words, and the other party does not say that they will break up, so don't deal with it as a breakup first.

Don't overthink it.

He said I was tired of him, he said he was feeling weird right now, he wasn't interested in anything, and I asked him if he wanted to continue. He said yes, but I kept looking for him with a very cold attitude, what's the situation?

With a cold attitude, it is possible that I am not looking forward to this relationship.

But I hope to come back, if you think he is really important and can't do without him, you can try to change it, change it slowly, and make the other party less tired.

I hope you can get in touch with the misunderstanding as soon as possible.

He said he wasn't cold, he said he felt weird right now, and he told me not to be angry.

That shows that he wants to save this relationship.

Aren't you usually very strict with him?

Generally, people who are too stressed or apologize often will feel tired or powerless.

I love to get angry, I think wildly, I often quarrel, I talk about breaking up at every turn, and then every time he thinks that I don't take the initiative and doesn't care about him.

He said that he felt empty in his heart and weak in his body.

Maybe he wasn't 100 percent considerate, and you were strict, and then it led to this, and he said he was tired, which was to be expected.

You have to give each other a certain amount of tolerance, sister.

If two people want to be together for a long time, someone must be changing.

Both of them are developing in a good direction in order to last a long time.

Every time he took the initiative to find me, I didn't have a good attitude towards him, I got angry and thought about a little thing.

This is not necessarily just your fault, emotional matters can not be divided into who is right and who is wrong, if there is a mistake, it is good to know that you can change it slowly, admitting mistakes is also a process of growth, and it is also courage.

Although boys generally take the initiative to find girls.

But if a girl is willing to take the initiative to find a boyfriend, I believe that he will be happy immediately and will not be tired immediately.

Excuse me, are you a man or.

Oh, man. A man who understands girls very well.

Of course, I understand boys better.

I hope you can get out of the trouble soon.

The boy said that he didn't want to talk about it, he was tired, and if he wanted to redeem it, he had to be more tolerant and admit his mistakes.

If two people are strong in a relationship, it is destined to not go far. So if you have an argument with him, no matter what the other party says, don't refute it, but agree with his point of view. Because once one party decides to break up, all your explanations are quibbling.

Only when you admit your mistakes and promise to correct them will he feel that you are genuinely repentant and do not want to break up. Remember that this is not the time to be competitive, the first thing to do is to stabilize the other person. How to break this cycle so that the argument can be turned into a pedal for your relationship to escalate.

There is a key point, let go of winning and losing, and take the initiative to communicate and express love.

Resolve conflicts

You can't always think that the other party should accommodate you, sometimes you take the initiative to change, and he will change with him. Misunderstandings between people are everywhere, so it is important to establish a clear and accurate communication model. Face your lover, the clearest and most direct explanation of the reasons for your actions, your needs, your vulnerability, and the direction you want him to act.

It's hard because the more you love the other person, the more you give the other person the right to hurt you.

Therefore, in front of lovers, especially when there is a conflict, the more you disguise yourself to hide the most vulnerable side, pretend to be strong, and protect yourself, the easier it is to stimulate the other party's desire to protect herself. Then two people destroy each other as if they are insulated from each other, communicating together but without intimacy. Exposing your vulnerability is sometimes the key to intimacy.

As long as there is a rush between you, he loves you, pities you, helps you, and protects you.