What is love without love, and what kind of pain and suffering will there be without love?

Probably experienced a lot of things with a person, loved, hated, and hurt, but in the end found that he had no qualifications, no identity, and cared about him again. It's like the saying on the Internet: I have 100 reasons to want to see you, but none of them can see your identity.

Quietly look at your dynamics, but don't dare to like it.

Because I'm afraid that you know, and I still like you, because I'm afraid that if I'm not careful, I will send a long list of messages and make a mistake to keep you.

Talking to a reader, I heard the story that she and the boy met in college, and when the boy finally broke up with her, he said this reason: this is not the love I want, you are not the one I really like, so we are not a good fit.

The reader said that it doesn't matter, in fact, I just want to quietly watch him graduate, find a good job, and talk about a girlfriend who gets married happily, so that I feel very happy.

It turns out that my greatest happiness is that I just look at you happy, and it doesn't matter if I'm happy or not.

Although you rejected me, I still like you very much, maybe you don't know, during the time you stayed with me, you were the only boy who made me want to live with you and want to marry you.

Later, after you and I broke up, I still thought that since I can't be by your side and be your girlfriend for the rest of my life, then at least we can be friends who don't talk about anything.

But, it seems that I am thinking too much about it.

Later, you talked about your girlfriend, and you told me that you were afraid that your girlfriend would be jealous, so you deleted me.

As a result, I was sad for a long time.

You see, I said I like you, I want to be friends with you, I don't ask you to like me, but you don't even give me the opportunity to be friends for the people you like.

There is also a kind of love that is very tired, eating inexplicable vinegar, but there is no identity to love you. Crush for four years, confession, spent three weeks doing **, still rejected. This year is the sixth year, we are all going to graduate from college, she wants to go back to her hometown to take the civil service exam, she said she doesn't want to drift outside, but I can't go back.

That's it for this life, it should be impossible, I have no other extravagant hopes, I just want her to be healthy and happy.

If I could, I would like to live next life.

When we meet, it's just love.

I want to say it out loud to you: I like you, serious and cowardly, from the beginning to the end, I don't.

I want to have a crush on you again, I don't want to be a timid person by your side anymore, I will definitely have the courage to confess the moment I like you when I am young.

Many people have told me, why don't you cherish it when you are in love? It wasn't until after we separated that I realized how much I liked him, why didn't we cherish this love so much?

yes, why didn't you cherish it in the first place? People always know how to cherish after losing.

It seems that my relationship with you is so strong that when we are together, we don't cherish it much, as if we only face it after knowing that we can't be together.

Then I'll give up, my last wish: remember to take good care of yourself, I'm not with you anymore, remember to be kind to yourself.

To love is to love someone very much, but not get any reply from that person.

Love but not in the end is the most painful thing in life, I love someone very much, but I can't have him, my heart will be very painful.

Love is that you love and care about someone very much, but you can't get a response, only you are suffering alone, and it is difficult to get out of this unrequited love.

The first point is that my heart is particularly tormented, I feel that my life has no color, the second point, I feel very painful in my heart, I feel that there is no pursuit in life, and the third point is that I feel that this way of life is really too tiring, and my heart is very bitter.

It is very painful to love without love, it will make your heart very uncomfortable, it will make you toss and turn, and you can't sleep at all. If you really love someone, then you also want that person to be happy, so when the person you love finds happiness, you should sincerely bless him. So when we can't love, we should learn to let go and don't torture ourselves too much.

It is very painful to love but not to love, for example, if you particularly like a man to know, and this man does not like you, then your heart will be very painful, and you have to see this man to find his other half. So if you really like someone, you should pay a little more meat, your sincerity to impress him, but you shouldn't be stalked, if the other party has made it clear that he doesn't like you, then you should not be pestered unless you let go. And love is like a blunt knife cutting meat, which makes your heart very painful and makes your heart full of holes.

At this time, we can also learn to let go appropriately, so that you can get spiritual comfort and make you no longer so painful. After letting go, we will be able to find new feelings and you will be able to find love.

I believe that many people know a lyric, what you can't get is always in turmoil, and those who are favored will always have no fear, so if you love someone very much, then this person will have no fear, and this person will think that your contribution is deserved. Therefore, when we can't love, we should learn to let go, so that we can make ourselves free, and we can also free ourselves from this sea of suffering, let ourselves find new feelings, and make our lives better. When we like someone, we also want that person to live well, so if the other person really finds their own happiness, we must also offer sincere blessings.

It's very painful, and this feeling of not being in love is very tormenting, and at the same time very emotionally draining.

It's very painful, as if something is scratching my heart, and I'm not happy to do anything.

Love must not be painful and sad.

It's painful to really like someone you shouldn't like. Because I really like it, I know that it is impossible to be together because I am not the same kind of person, but I will still accompany and like it silently. Even if you look at him more in class every day, you have nothing to talk to him, even if it's an embarrassing language.

Because I really like it, I am afraid of losing, so I choose to be silent and cherish the time together even more.

First of all, we must recognize what level of life is impossible, if things still have a turnaround, you can try to try together, but you must not hurt others, and you can learn to forget when appropriate.

Forgetting, withdrawing from this sad love, Monoma takes these as memories, as landscapes, of course, it takes a long time, the process of forgetting is painful and long, and other interests can be cultivated to divert attention. Keep smiling, as long as he is happy, be sure to let him and her spine be happy.

Try not to disturb the other party, although you are unwilling, although you can't help it, but after calming down, tell yourself to disturb her as little as possible! It's good to put her in the purest place in your heart, and miss her when you miss it. It is difficult to let go of a person, and there will be a very painful process, but if you continue to love, it will be equally painful, so why bother?

It is also painful, it is better to choose a more painful one. Let go, after experiencing the pain of letting go, you will usher in a new life. You must know that love is also an experience, whether it is sweet or sad, after experiencing it, maybe we will understand love better.

The brain cramps, the brain is not under their control. Oh! Aren't you the brain?

It seems that there are some things that are instinctive, for example, I told myself (in my head) not to think about her, and it made me miserable. But the brain doesn't listen, it still wants to think about her. What is the reason for this?

It's stupid to miss her and make you so miserable, but you still want to think about her.

It started in the early hours of the morning when I was sleeping, dreaming about her, and this is not the first time, it has been going on for months.

So during the day, when I was in class, my brain was very messy, like a multi-thread, one thread was listening to the class, but there was another voice thinking about her. As a result, in the morning, the efficiency was extremely low, nothing was learned. It's really more than worth the loss.

The bell also needs to be tied to the bell, and heart disease also needs a heart medicine. After two hours of mental preparation and abandonment, reason finally triumphed over fear. I thought, even if I was rejected, at least I would feel better than I am now!

So I sent her a message: It's been a long time, can I go to you tomorrow?

Eventually, she agreed, but—she said she wanted me to go with another classmate. It's speechless. What does this mean?

Doesn't seem to be interesting to me. Think about it, if a girl I like asks me out, how can I possibly say, "You're bringing someone?"

In the evening, everyone was discussing going. I got home, and then, out of the blue, I got a message from her asking what my birthday was. I was puzzled but secretly happy, and I asked her: Why did you suddenly ask about this? She said: You don't care about the beauty.

To tell you the truth, I was very happy to see this, although I didn't know what she wanted to do.

But when she was about to go to bed at night, she pulled a boy ** and said: Bring another good partner. I was annoyed, I didn't want to go back, but I couldn't bear to have no one to reply to her, so I replied OK. I feel that this ok must be hiding my love for her.

I'm really tired, and I have to bring in a boy we don't know. My heart is cold.

It turns out that she has a good time with so many boys. Hehe, I'm just a denominator, I'm not the only one.

I don't need fraternity, I need the preference of one person. It's like Sanmao said: If the gift you give me is the same as that for someone else, I don't want it.

Yes, if you give me the same love as you give to others, don't give me love. It only makes my heart ripple and confuses my thoughts. When I watched the drama, it was difficult to immerse myself in it.

Tomorrow at 10 o'clock, 4 people will meet, 3 men and 1 woman, hehe. Although I hate it, I still want to go once, after all, I miss her a lot, I haven't smelled her in a long time, I don't know, does she still have that smell that I am familiar with?

Finally, I hope you all have a great experience tomorrow. As painful as I am, tomorrow I will still wear a mask of happiness.