How much bride price is appropriate for marriage, and how much is the appropriate bride price for ma

This question depends on the economic conditions of the man's family and local customs, but this is not important, it is important that the two people must have a certain emotional foundation, as long as the relationship is good, everything is a floating cloud.

First of all, love and marriage is to find the right person, people with the same three views, entering the marriage hall bride price is a must, how much depends on the man's family background, as long as the two families are equal, work together to live, the bride price is appropriate.

Loving one another is not something that money can measure.

It depends on the woman's request, some want more, some want less, and there is no bride price, it depends on the situation of the girlfriend you are looking for.

What does it mean to ask for a bride price? Is it proof that you are worth a few bucks? Or proof that you were bought.

If it is not for these two questions, it is to take advantage of the man for nothing, or to prove whether the man is sincere? In short, the bride price for marriage is unreasonable, and I think it doesn't make sense from that aspect. If the purpose of marriage is to use the bride price as a bargaining chip, I think this person is very worthless, and if the family can buy the person with the bride price, isn't it just buying and selling marriage.

Everyone knows that people are priceless. Especially marriage, on behalf of the two people to voluntarily form a family, this kind of sincerity is not bought by money, because both parties have this kind of sincerity, after marriage, you will be able to share weal and woe, no regrets, white head to old age. This kind of marriage is not something that can be done with bride price.

If you have moral cultivation, you should not use the bride price as a bargaining chip, but you should want true affection and character and cultivation, which is responsible for your own true happiness.

Personally, I think that there is no standard for how much bride price you want to get married, it depends on the economic conditions of the family you are looking for, if the economic conditions are good, then give more, if the economic conditions are not too good, then give less, in general, look at the right person, what conditions can be negotiated, what to do is the best way.

It depends on local customs.

I think that if you really fall in love, the bride price is just a formality. There is no need to compare. It depends on your own situation. According to the man's family situation, the relationship with the two people. Consider these two points. Best.

How much do you think you're worth a pound.

How many lovers who love each other end up breaking up because of the bride price.

For marriage, the appropriate bride price depends on the family conditions of both parties.

The bride price usually depends on the family economic situation between the two parties, if the woman's family wants the first bride price or even the sky-high bride price, it is undoubtedly suspected of accompanying the daughter, because the sky-high bride price makes the man undoubtedly smash the pot and sell iron to marry the daughter-in-law, which will make the daughter-in-law not be affected by the in-laws after entering the door, and the right look will make people feel that the bride price is used to buy the daughter-in-law.

The bride price of hundreds of thousands of dollars has made it difficult for a large part of the family to come up with, so this kind of bride price can be regarded as selling daughters, and it will also make the relationship between the female brother and the parents become weaker and weaker. Many women's families are reluctant to communicate with their daughters after getting these bride prices, and the daughters' in-laws will not be willing to have too much communication with their daughters-in-law because of these bride price money, and they are more complaining. Therefore, when marrying a daughter, don't blindly pursue the best bride price, but should decide how much bride price should be based on the economic situation of both parties and the other party's good or bad for their daughter.

In some families, both men and women will use the dowry money and bride price as the living funds of the newlywed family, and many families even give as much as the bride price of the man and the amount of dowry money the woman will give. Such a marriage model should be commendable, but there are many women who raise daughters in order to get bride price money to maintain their selfishness. Especially in some remote areas, the bride price is very expensive, such a custom can not be regarded as a good inheritance of the jujube species, but has reached a vicious circle of very bad customs, many families marry their daughters in order to get the best bride price, so that their sons can marry a good daughter-in-law.

Some families want to give a bride price, that is, to let their sons be able to give a higher bride price when they marry a daughter-in-law, and this vicious circle leads to a higher and higher bride price. The higher the bride price, the shorter the marriage will last, because the purpose of their marriage is for money. On this basis, when both men and women encounter problems, they will compare the bride price and dowry as the source of the quarrel, and they will not think about the reason for the quarrel from the standpoint of both parties.

Foreword: The bride price is part of the traditional Chinese wedding ceremony, which represents the groom's respect and gratitude to the bride's family. However, the amount of bride price has always been a controversial topic, and there is no fixed standard.

I will look at the appropriate amount of the bride price from multiple perspectives and provide some suggestions to help you decide.

First of all, the appropriate amount of the bride price should be determined according to the economic situation of both families and regional customs. Different regions and families have different traditions and customs, and the requirements for bride price are also different. When deciding the amount of the bride price, the financial strength and affordability of both families should be taken into account to avoid causing financial burden to the other family.

Secondly, the appropriate amount of the bride price should be in line with the values of the modern social forest bureau. Modern society focuses on equality and respect, and marriage should be based on mutual understanding and consensus. The bride price should not be the only criterion for measuring the marital relationship, but should be centered on love and mutual support.

In addition, the appropriate amount of the bride price should take into account the family relationship and communication of both parties. When determining the amount of the bride price, the families should fully communicate and negotiate and respect each other's wishes and views. Both families should aim for harmony and happiness, rather than pursuing material possessions excessively.

Finally, the appropriate amount of the bride price should reflect respect and gratitude. The bride price is not only an economic transaction, but also an expression of respect and gratitude from the groom to the bride's family. The amount of the bride price should reflect the respect and gratitude of both families, rather than the excessive pursuit of material gains.

Summary: The appropriate amount of bride price should be determined according to the economic situation of both families and regional customs, in line with the values of modern society. Both families should communicate and negotiate with each other, respecting each other's wishes and opinions.

The amount of the bride price should reflect the meaning of respect and gratitude, rather than excessive pursuit of material benefits. It is important that the bride price should be a symbol of marriage, not the only measure of the marital relationship.

I must first show that the bride price is not a necessary condition of marriage, nor should it be a necessary condition of marriage. However, if parents have a strong level of attention to this issue, then we should respect their opinions and follow their suggestions.

The bride price generally includes both material and immaterial aspects. Material aspects, including money, real estate, vehicles, etc., needed to get married. These things are necessary for marriage, but they do not necessarily have to be measured in terms of money.

We can choose a marriage method that is more suitable for ourselves and our marital status, such as choosing to rent a house or borrow money to get married.

The non-material aspects include the size of the wedding, the venue of the wedding, the table of the wedding, the guests of the wedding, and so on. Although these things are not necessary, they can also be selected according to your budget and needs. As long as it is a sincere and simple wedding, it is the best wedding.

Most importantly, we should respect our inner feelings and marriage choices. Don't marry because of your parents' wishes, and don't divorce because of the bride price. Getting married should be a light-hearted affair, not a stressful affair.

Let's pursue true happiness together and not be swayed by external conditions.

The bride price is set to a degree that is acceptable to both parties, and as a female college student, I don't expect my parents to pay a bride price of millions or tens of millions at that time, which will make it difficult for my partner who is staring at me.

Again, my family is not very good, but it is not bad, just a common person. I also clearly know how difficult it is for parents to raise their daughters, the bride price must be given, and there must be no less, and I have always believed in the saying that has been handed down before, that is, the right door. I don't expect my partner to be rich, and I can't tolerate my partner being a lazy person who can't even take out tens of thousands of dollars and hundreds of thousands of dollars.

If this girl is a wealthy family, then the quality of life she has lived since she was a child must be very high, so as a man who knows that the other party is the kind of girl who has grown up pampered, and cannot give the girl a previous standard of living, then at this time the girl's parents will definitely give a test of the high bride price.

My insistence is that the door is right, and I also strongly condemn the way of "selling daughters" in the bride price. In the case that his own family situation and the other party's family situation are not very good, he asks the other party to give an excessively high bride price, that is, begging for money to "sell his daughter". In the same way, the man should not cover the old man and think that you can spend tens of thousands of dollars to prostitute a girl for free for the rest of her life, take a free labor force home to give birth to you, take the child to support the family, take care of the parents, laundry, cooking, cleaning, and the man should also realize that you are marrying someone else's baby bump that has been raised for half a lifetime, not a thing that you can take home and let you abuse casually.

Therefore, I also hold the concept of equality for all people in this regard, every individual is equal, since the man asks the woman to marry into his own family, it is also appropriate to give the woman a reasonable bride price, after all, there is an old saying that the daughter who marries out of the water spilled, you are equivalent to using that little bride price to buy out the second half of the girl's life.

Many people are very concerned about the issue of bride price and dowry when getting married, believing that high bride price and dowry have an impact on the happiness of marriage, and some people even suggest that the bride price and dowry should be abolished. ......Different people have different opinions on this issue. Specifically, the bride price and dowry are very important components of the wedding ceremony, the bride price and dowry reflect the importance that both men and women attach to marriage, and how much bride price and dowry they take when they get married.

1. The bride price and dowry are very important components of the wedding ceremony.

Marriage is the most important experience in a person's life, so marriage itself is very ceremonial. ......In the whole ceremony and process of marriage, the bride price and dowry occupy a very important position. ......Therefore, we should respect this custom, both a bride price and a dowry, which is an important ritual and process for us to be able to hold our wedding in a successful and festive manner.

2. The attitude of both men and women towards marriage can be reflected in the bride price and dowry.

Bride price and dowry can also reflect the attitude of both men and women towards marriage. ......Specifically, if both the man and the woman are not satisfied with the marriage, the bride price and dowry cannot be too high. And if both men and women are very satisfied with the marriage, the amount of the bride price and dowry they pay will be relatively high.

Therefore, the issue of bride price and dowry should be taken seriously when discussing marriage.

3. When getting married, how much bride price and dowry should be taken according to your actual situation.

Although bride price and dowry are very important elements of marriage, the issue cannot be measured simply by the amount of money. ......Different people have different economic conditions, and the amount of bride price and dowry that can be taken out is different, so only by combining their own actual situation and dealing with the problem of bride price and dowry with a rational attitude can the wedding be more complete and the marriage can obtain a happy and happy result.

Throughout the past ten years, affected by many factors, except for a very few areas, the bride price throughout the country is not only widespread, but also the bride price and even the sky-high bride price continues to appear, the bride price money is more and more, especially in some rural areas has become a typical "hard-hit area", has really affected the marriage of young men and women. Not to mention anything else, just the more than 30 million singles in the country, the vast majority of which are in rural areas, is the best proof, and the bride price is undoubtedly one of the most important reasons.

Judging from the latest ranking of China's wedding bride price, it has to be said that the bride price affects the marriage. Jiangxi, which ranks first, has a bride price of 380,000 yuan, and a house and a car, even if it is a relatively good family in the countryside, its burden is conceivable and self-evident. The second place Fujian is 300,000, and the third place Zhejiang is also 250,000.

The key is that in the economically underdeveloped areas of China's northwest, Gansu's bride price has also reached 130,000, plus a house and a car. Shaanxi also needs 120,000 yuan, plus a down payment for the house and expensive jewelry. For the more backward areas, it is not easy to make money, and it should be a relatively heavy burden.

Looking at all parts of the country, especially in rural areas, the reason why there are so many singles should be said to have a very important direct relationship with the bride price. In order to provide for their own old age, many elderly people in rural areas take the opportunity of marrying their daughters to ask men for high bride price, and some of them are even as high as hundreds of thousands of yuan, so that many young men in rural areas sigh because they do not have so much money, or they cannot afford to marry a daughter-in-law at all. Bride price, it is this ** and sky-high bride price, so that rural young men who do not have economic conditions become leftover men and singles, and at the same time, many young women who want to marry delay their marriage because of money, and it is difficult for many lovers to become dependents in the end.

In recent years, the Ministry of Civil Affairs of the People's Republic of China has successively carried out a nationwide pilot reform of marriage customs, and put forward specific guiding opinions on disturbing Feng, vigorously advocating changing customs, advocating "zero bride price", and frugal marriage. And many areas have indeed implemented it very well, and have truly achieved "zero bride price" and "low bride price". It is said that in Chongqing and other places, most women not only do not want a penny of bride price, but also pay for the dowry for their daughter's marriage.

It should be said that according to the local folk customs, it is reasonable for the man to give the woman an appropriate dowry to express his gratitude to the woman for raising her daughter. However, if you want to open your mouth, you will ask for hundreds of thousands, and you must have a house and a car, won't such a marriage become sour? Therefore, as long as the man does not have enough money, it is difficult to marry a daughter-in-law.

To sum up, in addition to other factors, the bride price should really be an important reason that directly affects the marriage of men and women. Therefore, the author calls on the whole society to actively pay attention to the reform of marriage customs, implement the relevant regulations of the state, advocate "zero bride price", resist "** bride price" and "sky-high bride price", and support marrying love and oppose marrying money for the happiness of young people.