I have a very, very strong sense of revenge right now, so please enlighten me, thank you 5

What you need to learn is not tolerance and tolerance, let alone indifference.

What you need is to learn to care! How should people live? Protect what you want to protect, and pursue what you want to pursue. What do other people think about it? That's total. You only need to care about the few people who really care about you, because you are guarding them.

I often see my father say this on TV: I am not your father if you want xx. Then it's time to buy a house, buy a car, buy a car. It's OK to buy a small gift when you're angry.

On the contrary, there is such a scene where neighbor A: The children of the xx family are really xx, and they have no interest at all. Then it should eat, eat, sleep, and sleep, and it will not be left behind in the matter of living expenses for its 30-year-old son.

These two little snippets tell us that as long as someone who doesn't really care about us doesn't say anything sincerely, it's no different from a fart to you. If you've been caring about ...

There's no need to care about other people's eyes, it's not worth it to lose the future for people who don't understand you! If you really feel uncomfortable, go to a place where no one is yelling, go hiking, or turn your troubles into your motivation for **!

Just go your own way, live happily, and don't listen to them.

Do they think you're "disgusting"? Then you will fulfill them, "disgusting" them to death, sing them at their doorstep, and finally warn them not to be big-mouthed, and to look for trouble every day. Look,

<> "The Fiercest Revenge."

If someone hurts you, you can't forget it for a long time, you can't let go, what do you think is the most ruthless revenge on him? Maybe many people's first reaction is that they are all first-time people, why should they let him? Of course, the hand year is a tooth for a tooth, and the way of others is to treat the body of others.

But in fact, if you really get entangled with these bad people and bad things, don't you think it's a greater drain on yourself? In fact, you don't have to bother to deal with a person if you really take revenge on someone, but only need to do two words: ignore.

1. Ignore and take a stand with indifference.

There is a line in "The First Half of My Life": "The best revenge is not hatred, but the coldness from the bottom of my heart, why spend energy to hate an irrelevant person.""。

In the face of the person who hurts you, the more you care, the more your emotions will be influenced and manipulated by the other party.

On the contrary, the more you don't care, the more the other party will be bored like a clown, which will make him feel extremely frustrated.

In fact, there are thousands of ways to solve problems, no need to entangle with others, you come and go, the best way is to ignore all changes.

2. Ignore and live your life.

Charlotte Brontë wrote in Jane Eyre: "Violence is not the best way to eradicate hatred, and just as revenge will never cure harm."

Many times, instead of changing other people's minds, it is better to try to be yourself, quietly rise to the top, and then amaze the four.

There is a saying that it is well said that living your life well is the greatest riposte to the person who hurt you. The more decadent you are, the happier those who don't see you well: the better you are, the more uncomfortable those who hurt you.

Instead of pestering with them, wasting your own time, and consuming your mind, it is better to ignore them, find a way to improve yourself, and stay away from their circle.

For those who hurt themselves, the best revenge is not to destroy the other party, let alone destroy themselves, but to ignore these boring people and work hard to make their lives better.

3. Ignoring is an effective means of keeping a distance from rotten people and good potatoes.

A truly smart person will not spend time and energy on bad people and bad things, which is not worth it or necessary. They will only keep their distance from them, and make themselves better, better, so that they can stay away from them, so that they can only look up at themselves, and they can't reach themselves at all.

So, instead of dwelling on bad people and things and wasting your precious time, you should ignore them and spend your time on improving yourself.

The better you become, the farther away you are from them, because they've been like this for the rest of their lives, but you still have infinite possibilities to move up.

In my own opinion, if there are people around you who are particularly vindictive, you need to calm your mind and then train yourself to be a positive person and not be too nice to them. In order to prevent direct contact with them in life.

Repaying grievances with virtue is not a good way, and getting along with kindness is a person's generous way, so you must treat it with your own kindness, otherwise everyone will retaliate, and slowly the society will become very dark.

It is better to offend the gentleman than the villain, and it is better to stay away from this kind of person, because maybe he will do you bad behind your back, and you can't bother to guard against him every day.

I think this kind of person is terrible, because you don't know what is hurting him, but he is going to hurt you, and it would be better if you could reduce the contact with such a person.

1. Remember not to touch the interests of such people. Generally, vindictive people are very important to their own interests, and their interests also include many aspects, such as money, love, friendship, promotion, etc.

You must learn to observe words and emotions and minimize cooperation with them, because cooperation must be linked to interests, so once you don't handle it properly, you are likely to fall into the trap of the other party and bring harm to yourself.

2. Remember not to have a heart-to-heart relationship with this kind of person. Don't tell him some of your secrets or your grievances with your colleagues and bosses, because this kind of person is usually very deep in the city, and it is very likely that one day your secret will suddenly be revealed, and you will not be able to gain a foothold.

If you don't offend him, he won't take revenge on you.

The psychology of this kind of person is often that people don't offend me, and I don't offend people, so as long as he doesn't become an enemy of him and doesn't hurt his interests, he has no reason to retaliate.

This kind of person is a bit of a retribution, so try not to quarrel with this kind of person, don't scold them. Be sincere and offer some help appropriately, and his anger will shift.

As the saying goes, it is better to offend a gentleman than a villain. For a person with a strong sense of revenge, don't offend him, just have a good relationship with her on the surface, and don't have a deep friendship with him with your heart.

There are two kinds of people who are extremely vindictive: 1. If people don't offend me, I won't offend others. 2: Villain.

A tooth for a tooth for my neighbor, I'm going to have to clean him up sooner or later.

Recoup his losses and undo the damage done to him.

Is there garlic, no! Are there economic and trade negotiations, there is! It's so !! Don't be sensitive, aren't you sensitive? Hahaha