Should I care about his past or not, should I care about his past?

I feel the same way as you, and it's hard to accept my past. I saw that the book says, "To love a person is to heal him, not to tear his wounds; To love someone is to give him happiness, not to dwell on his misfortune; To love someone is to respect his past, not to judge his past! "It is said that stupid women will be happier!

But it's only because he's someone I love that I care so much!

Let's give you a conscientious suggestion! Yes, yes, but don't overdo it! Don't take the initiative to bring it up! Don't make people unhappy now because of what has already happened! It's not worth it!

Remember, the person he loves now is you, and that's enough!

yes, no one wants to care about his past.

However, the truth is in front of you, what can you do?

If he really loves you and you really love him, let it go.

At the very least, it's you who is by his side now, not her, right.

Everyone has his past, so why make himself unhappy.

Being able to spend a good day together is your greatest happiness.

Why make both of them sad.

The most important thing is how you grasp this love. All right.

Remember that everyone has a past and everyone makes mistakes, but the important thing is that what can come out of the past and face it is the best.

Trust him

People are subject to change, and if you really love him, and you can feel that he really loves you, why care about his past?

What you should care about is now and in the future. It's not that past without you.

Don't bother yourself!!

Smart people don't ask about the past. Everyone has a past.

His past doesn't have you, why should you care, that's his business, as long as you feel happy with him now, at least his present and future have you.

It's best to depend on the severity of the plot.

I wouldn't care about TA's past. If you mind, you can't love him with all your heart. Mind refers to taking things that make people unhappy to heart.

When you mind a person's past, state that person's past is something that makes you unhappy. Whether these things are his fault or not, they will leave a gap in your heart, even a shadow.

First of all, if you are very mindful of the people or things he has met in the past, your heart will not be able to love him 100% anymore. In the future, when you face him, you will be very entangled and painful, and while you enjoy his kindness to you, you will also think from time to time, did he also treat others so well before? Did he treat me like the one he used to be?

In the matter of love, I am most afraid of suspicion and crankiness.

Secondly, and there is a characteristic of human psychology, there are some things, when you don't care about it, it slowly disappears; But if there is one thing that has left a deep mark on your heart, the more you let yourself not care, the clearer it will be in your memory. So in response to this question, from the point of view of love, it is like this: if you love him, then you certainly don't mind his past; If you mind his past, you won't be able to love him anymore.

Thirdly, if you mind his past, it will make him very painful to mind this matter, not only will it cause you a certain amount of pain, but it will also make him very painful. You don't mind his past, there will be some manifestations to a greater or lesser extent, sometimes it is an attitude of wanting to be detached, sometimes it will be asked often, and he will be sensitive to the fact that you are very concerned about those things.

In the end, his original intention to tell you about the past is to let you see the real him, and he is not willing to hide anything from his loved ones, and he hopes that after hearing these things, you can rationally consider whether you accept his past. If you don't accept it, then don't get along anymore, the deeper and longer you love, the more painful it will be when you leave; If you can accept it, then he hopes that the past will not affect your future happiness!