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It depends on your family's financial conditions. If the conditions are good, it is not a matter to help buy a table. After all, it's your own relatives. The conditions are not superior. I can mean it a little. And tell my mother-in-law about it.

If the sister-in-law is a minor, she can buy it, if she is already an adult, it depends on the situation! Anyway, whether to buy it or not is your choice, not your mother-in-law's compulsion.

It depends on whether your sister-in-law has a job or not, if she is already working, she can afford it, and there is no need for your husband to buy it. If you are still underage, there is no problem with buying it for her.

It doesn't feel like it should be, because he's married, why would he ask your husband to buy a computer for your sister-in-law? Don't your mother-in-law have this ability? Or your sister-in-law doesn't have this ability.

This depends on your economic situation, if the economic conditions are good, you can buy a computer for your sister-in-law, and if the economic conditions are not good, you don't need to buy it for him.

Of course, this depends on your own economic conditions. Relatively wealthy, you can buy it.

Definitely want to buy, whether your mother-in-law gives you a child or not. Buying clothes for your sister-in-law can increase the relationship with your mother-in-law's family, and at the same time let your husband have face in front of his family.

Mother-in-law bai helps you take care of the child, proving that the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is still good, the sister-in-law is reading a dao book, you buy it for her.

I think it's okay to have clothes, after all, your sister-in-law is still a consumer and has no life**, she is your husband's sister, she loves the house and Wu, you buy clothes for your sister-in-law to show your love for your husband, and your mother-in-law is also happy, why not do it for a family and Meimei, buy it, buy a little within your economic range, and your sister-in-law will be able to stand on her own in the future, and she will remember your good.

Of course, you can buy it, people don't usually receive gifts.

Buy a gift once in a while, people will be very happy, your relationship will be better, the next time she comes home, she may talk to her mother-in-law about it, everyone is happy, and people who are still studying have little money to buy new clothes, like don't forget to adopt it.

Hello! You can consider buying clothes for your sister-in-law, which can enhance the relationship between your sister-in-law and promote family harmony.

Then it depends on her that she is not short of clothes, if she is not short of clothes, there is no need to buy them, and if she wants to send something, she will give her what she needs.

What's wrong with just buying a dress? Whatever you buy for her is a piece of heart, and it doesn't matter if you don't buy it.

You can buy it, if you are good to her, she will also be good to you, it is all heart-to-heart experience.

You can buy bai for her, but if you look at people's preferences, don't buy it, people don't like it.

Dao Huan's efforts are in vain, such a big child has his own ideas, if it doesn't work, you can take him to buy it, you can see according to your economic situation, and there is no need to be a big head. Anyway, it's not your intention to buy one, you can buy one, or buy anything, buy tops, pants, shoes, and see what you need.

Buy her a dress, your mother-in-law will be happy.

It is right for the elders to care about the juniors, if you treat her well, she will be grateful to you when she grows up, and your status in the family will be higher, why not?

You can buy it, if you treat her well, she will remember you, and you will compare your heart to heart.

As a family affection, she is going to school again, you should buy something for your sister-in-law, and your mother-in-law is helping you take care of the children, and as a thank you, you should also buy something for your sister-in-law, and the most important thing is that the family is happy.

If you want to maintain a good relationship, I personally think it's better to buy some good aqui te amo.

This kind of thing is according to your mood, according to the usual family relationship, you should give her some help, because she is still a student and has no job to earn money.

You can buy it, you can buy it for her if she needs it.

I have been digging my ears for a long time, and I recently picked my ears to make the inside pottery serious, and I grew a bag. What should I do, please advise.

If your financial conditions allow, you can give a little money to your sister-in-law。But if the economy does not allow it, then don't help him to pay, because if your financial conditions allow, you can contribute a little money to increase the relationship between the two of you. The relationship will also be a little better.

But if your financial situation does not allow it, you do not have to pay for him. Because after all, it's your sister-in-law, not your wife, why should you pay for others, if your mother-in-law comes to say, you tell him that I don't have any money myself, and I plan to ask him to pay a little money to buy a house for me.

If the financial ability allows, in the form of an IOU, lend it to the sister-in-law, stating how much to borrow, how long to return, how to return it in installments, sign and press the fingerprint, so as to avoid being far away when it is returned in the future

Don't give, because if you give it, there will be a next time, you can't always help her, all will refuse one day, when the time comes, they will scold you, don't give it directly, now say you, anyway, if you don't give it sooner or later, the result will be the same, just don't give it. If the sister-in-law has the ability, she can buy a house by herself, or find a son-in-law who has a house.

If the financial conditions allow, you can lend some money to your sister-in-law. If you don't allow it, don't borrow it.

It should not be given, the mother-in-law, sister-in-law and daughter-in-law are not of the same heart.

Actually, I don't think you should give it, after all, your money is also your hard-earned money, you can't give it in vain, even if it's a family, your brothers still have to settle accounts, not to mention the relationship with you that can't be beaten.

In fact, this matter is not difficult to deal with, taking money to buy a house for my sister-in-law is a big deal in the eyes of ordinary people, after all, tens of thousands, hundreds of thousands, or even hundreds of thousands, that is yours and your couple's hard-earned money. Discuss with your husband whether you should give your sister-in-law the money to buy a house and let your man have the final say.

Your money is your husband's, and your husband's money is yours. Since it is the joint property of the husband and wife, should I give the sister-in-law money? How much to give? Originally, the husband and wife decided after discussion. Don't you know how to blow the pillow wind on your own man?

Knowing that you don't want to, then give some money. It's what your man says that doesn't have much to do with you.

If the relationship is good, the economic conditions are okay, and the appropriate can help, but the relationship is not helpful.

Nonsense must not be given, whether you have money or not, you can't give. Unless you really want to give, because it's not good if there is a dispute in the future.

The IOU should be played, and the time for repayment should be specified.

It's normal for your husband to sell her things.

It's okay to help once in a while, after all, both of you live with him and have tolerance for each other, otherwise it will be easy to cause contradictions and misunderstandings. As long as it's not too much, it's fine.

Otherwise, you will tell your husband that you will not give your sister a penny in the future. Wouldn't the two of them have to be angry?

Anyway, I see that the two of them have a particularly harmonious marriage, and they don't care about each other's things and the like.

But if there is a degree to say, who can't live?

Actually, it's nothing, it's like your parents bring you a child. It's just that you want your parents-in-law to help you take care of the children now, you feel unfair, you can tell them: let them help you take care of the children, if they are really embarrassed, you can hire a nanny.

In fact, it may be better to ask for a nanny than to bring it to the elderly, to some extent, at least all the initiative is in your hands, and there is no need to disagree about how to take care of the children.

No, she got married and her husband also had a house for her to live in. I shouldn't care. My sister-in-law is 92 years old, one year younger than me, my husband's new house was bought before I knew me, only his name, my in-laws sponsored most of the down payment and decoration costs, my husband and I have been renting a single apartment next to the company, a month before marriage last year, my in-laws decisively let my sister-in-law leave the rental house to live in a new house, I think I have not lived in a new house, there are others who live very aggrieved, and my husband is very troubled, my husband tactfully said to my in-laws that my sister-in-law is not suitable to live in a new house.

As a result, the mother-in-law said that the new house must be inhabited, but she didn't say how long, and sued my mother to ask my mother to suppress me, and the matter passed temporarily. This year, I directly had a showdown with my in-laws and said how long my sister-in-law lived, the house was not connected to the subway in the third ring road, and it was more than 1 hour to take the bus to work in the city, and my mother-in-law said that it was not long to live, and it was not suitable for my sister-in-law to rent a house and what relatives thought ......Completely dead set on them. I just want to say that this TM is too bloody, it's simply not a human family.

There is also the saying that if your husband doesn't listen, he will take away the salary card and everything, and only buy the things at home that she needs for her own life, and she wants to buy them with her hands and feet to make money by herself. If you really can't do it, go back to your parents' house to be quiet, or call your brothers and sisters back to live. In fact, no matter how well you do, she will feel that she is not happy in your house and she will be wronged. In the end, it was all because you didn't do well as a sister-in-law, since this is the case, take care of her, be an ordinary and polite relative, and live your own little life. I've thought it all through.

If my husband stands on their side one day, then I'm too miserable in this family alone, I don't care, anyway, I don't like what I don't like, I don't eat their food anyway, I don't want to cater to what I don't like, I do what I should do now, just like acting, act well during this time, since my mother-in-law can't tolerate me, my little sister treats me as a thorn in the side, my husband is not firm, I'm sorry, I have to plan and consider for myself, since this mountain does not leave people, then there is a place to keep people.

Shouldn't it be your own house, why let it be lived in by someone else? Even if he's your sister-in-law, he can't.

Definitely can't live for my sister-in-law, he also has his own in-law's family, why do he want to live with you, directly and decisively refused.

No, how can you give your house to someone else? Not to mention a sister-in-law, even his own brother, doesn't he have his own house?

I don't think so, since it's your own house, it must be your own house, if your sister-in-law has a problem, she can help solve it, but there is no need to come to this point.

I think it's okay if she's staying temporarily, after all, it's my own relative, but if she's going to live for a long time, I'm a little reluctant.

Why should I let my sister-in-law live in my own house? My own house is not as good as I want, of course it shouldn't.

Of course it shouldn't be, this is something that you and your husband spent money to buy, why should you give it to your sister-in-law who didn't pay anything?

I don't think so, why should my sister-in-law live in my own house, I earned it with my hard work.

I think it depends on whether you can live or not, if you don't come back from the field for a long time, you can let her live, but the premise must be good.

I quarreled with my mother-in-law before because of the reason about my sister-in-law, my mother-in-law is the kind of person who looks heartless on the surface, but actually has a special perineum and other people's words, mainly because the sister-in-law is married, she only has a mother-in-law over there, no father-in-law, my mother-in-law belongs to the kind of person who will not be able to pass the special life, the sister-in-law has no food to eat after work, his own mother does not ask, my mother-in-law often sends stir-fried vegetables, I speak straight, I say that people don't ask the, you ask what, there is money and no land to spend, and once my husband was at home, Her mother herself said that your sister had no one to help her, and she bought a house, and her mother-in-law said that she wanted to sell her hometown house, and I said what to sell, and the family was not in a hurry to use money, and the family did not buy a house or a car, and people came directly to me to sell, and I didn't squeak, and then the object and my mother-in-law sat on the sofa in the living room, I was in the toilet, and I listened to my subject say that his mother would talk and do things later, and then talk about it, and said that I would consider my feelings, and my object told my mother-in-law that her sister was a matter of two families, and people didn't ask you what to ask about, Asked her mother how much money she gave to her sister, I heard it in the toilet at the time, and after I came out, I said that my daughter and my son must be different, and I always count on my son's filial piety, can I count on my daughter? My mother-in-law said that my daughter is as filial as I am, I said that my daughter is as filial as you go to live in my daughter's house, I said that there is a mother over there, and I only found out about the words I said later, I said that I said to your mother at the time, and your mother thought I would learn something for you! After this happened, my mother-in-law deliberately came to me the next day and said that the little daughter-in-law upstairs is weird, and her eldest sister and child also live here, and the little daughter-in-law has a good heart, and she doesn't let her stay here, I know that she deliberately said it to me, I said that people go to school during the day to eat this piece, and they must go home at night, and my mother-in-law said that they don't let the big sister and children live in their own homes, and my mother-in-law said that if you don't have a bad heart, you don't let this stay, I said directly, I want you not to let you stay here, she stopped talking, after a while, people came directly to the tone of the yin wind, said hey, there are good hearts, there are bad hearts, I came to the fire after listening, I said you have something to say, don't put that yin wind angry people, people come directly to say I didn't say you, don't let people speak, I said I should say, don't say don't say, people come directly to say I didn't say you, just say that you have a good heart, there is a bad heart, I said you said you didn't say you know it yourself, I'm not a fool, you feel that you can't hear it, people come to say that you can say that you can, That's not because you can't, I just said that you don't come tomorrow, you can come, if you can't come, don't add to the blockage here, and then they quarreled ......