Mother in law didn t pay anything during pregnancy?

Updated on parenting 2024-06-05
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Personally, I think that my mother-in-law is not obliged to pay or anything, it is my duty to pay money, and it is my duty not to pay for it, so I don't feel too angry, pay more attention to rest and diet, do a good job of regular pregnancy tests, and wish you a happy pregnancy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    During pregnancy, not all mothers-in-law will contribute money and efforts, if you meet a good mother-in-law, they will naturally take care of you in every way and spoil you as a princess, but most mothers-in-law can't do it, if you meet a mother-in-law who doesn't care about anything, you don't have to complain, your own little life is your own, as long as your husband is good to yourself, after all, you are pregnant with your husband's child.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    First of all, I am already an adult, and it is not particularly important for my mother-in-law to pay for it. This can show that the mother-in-law may be careless or think that the child's father can take care of you. Let's look at this problem with a tolerant attitude!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I don't think my mother-in-law is obliged to contribute money for her son and daughter-in-law after getting married. Because we are all adults, we should be more self-reliant after marriage, if the mother-in-law is able and willing to give money to her son, it is better, if the mother-in-law is not capable, or although she is capable, but she is not willing to give money to her children, as a child, you can't blame your mother-in-law at all.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It was his kindness that his mother-in-law contributed money during pregnancy, and if he didn't pay, there was no need to blame him, indicating that he didn't have much money. And he himself is very old and has no obligation to take care of you, so there is no need to force it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you are pregnant, you don't need to be served by others, you are self-reliant, you have nothing, you have to have some confidence, you don't ask for it, and you won't help too much in the future.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Such a mother-in-law, is the husband not responsible, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hello, I don't think you have to ask your mother-in-law to do anything, because there is no such rule in the law, it is better to live your own life than anything, show your mother-in-law, so that you are also tough, the family relationship is mutual, the family and everything is prosperous, live a good life, I will not say more, I wish you good luck and a happy life, happy and happy every day, good afternoon.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Your mother-in-law's obligation is to raise your husband, your pregnancy is a matter of your husband and wife's childbirth, and you honor the old man because she has children.

    If she helps you again, you should be repaid by your grandson. Blindly asking for a mother-in-law, that is gnawing at the old.

    It means that you husband and wife can't do anything.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The child is your own, and it is your child that you conceive. Look at the mother-in-law first and then the daughter-in-law, it's okay to get together more and get together.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    But it's not your own mother in the first place, so it's good that you have nothing to do with each other, if she doesn't treat you well, I believe you won't be so enthusiastic about her.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think it doesn't matter if your mother-in-law can't pay for it, your husband is responsible for supporting you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Personally, I feel that it is all up to my personal will to pay for it! If it's an unreasonable mother-in-law, then I really can't stand it! It's okay to be sensible!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hello, as the saying goes, it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs, and it is not easy to say who is right and who is wrong, I don't know what the relationship between you usually is.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Giving birth to a baby is a thing that takes a lot of money, energy and time, especially money, in the process of fetal growth, the mother should supplement the body's nutrition, ensure the normal development of the fetus, but also to do examinations, but also more expensive, generally after pregnancy mother-in-law will have something to say, so mother-in-law knows that pregnancy will give money? What should I do if my mother-in-law doesn't contribute money or effort when I'm pregnant?

    First of all, if the mother-in-law knows that she is pregnant, she will generally give some money, more if the conditions are good, and less if the conditions are average, because the child in the daughter-in-law's womb is the mother-in-law or granddaughter, and this is also a very happy thing, if the mother-in-law gives money, the daughter-in-law will also feel happy, and it will promote the relationship between the two parties.

    Secondly, if when you are pregnant, your mother-in-law will neither contribute money nor effort, then it is best to choose to stay away from your mother-in-law, because you will not live together in ordinary life, away from your mother-in-law, and it is also a good choice to let your mother take care of her or ask a nanny to take care of her.

    All in all, it is reasonable for the mother-in-law to contribute money and efforts, but if you don't pay or don't contribute, you can't be too careful, and you can get along peacefully in the future, after all, the mother-in-law's attitude is indeed very sad and disappointing, but too much care will have a bad impact on both parties, so don't care too much about the mother-in-law's attitude, and it is important to raise the baby with peace of mind.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    From the daughter-in-law's point of view.

    Most daughters-in-law think that their mother-in-law should still give money, because she gave birth to her mother-in-law's grandson, and her mother-in-law is looking forward to holding her grandson, and it is a happy event to have a child by herself, and it is natural for her mother-in-law to give money when she is pregnant. Moreover, there is the most important point, the daughter-in-law of many families around her is pregnant and gives birth, and the mother-in-law gives money, and the mother-in-law gives money, the daughter-in-law is happy, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will get along more harmoniously.

    From the mother-in-law's point of view, in fact, whether to give money or not depends on your own mind, you can give if you want to, and don't give if you don't want to give. After all, the child is not his own, and he is not obliged to raise it. But it is indeed a very common behavior for mother-in-law to give money, so most mothers-in-law think that they should give money to their daughter-in-law, after all, even if they are just ordinary relatives and friends, it is also appropriate for others to give red envelopes when they are pregnant and give birth.

    The mother-in-law is closer, and she should give more.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Money should not be given. Our daughter-in-law gave birth to a child, and the most she could do was to buy clothes, diapers, milk powder and the like for the child, and then serve the daughter-in-law in confinement and help bring her grandson, without giving money.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When women are pregnant, they generally need to take a pregnancy test, and when they have a pregnancy checkup, there is some cost, and some women expect their mother-in-law to give some money during the check-up. So the mother-in-law doesn't pay for the pregnancy check-up, should the pregnant mother-in-law give money?

    When I was pregnant, my mother-in-law gave money in love, and it was in the past not to give it. Because the mother-in-law is not the parent of the baby after all, the parents have the obligation to raise and educate their children, unless they are unable to raise them, the father-in-law and mother-in-law have the obligation to bear this responsibility. But the in-laws help the daughter-in-law when she is in trouble, and the daughter-in-law will not treat the in-laws badly in the future.

    And when the daughter-in-law is in trouble, if she chooses to turn a blind eye, it is no wonder that the daughter-in-law treats herself badly later, and helps each other when she is in trouble, so that she can live a good life in the future.

    Some in-laws have better economic conditions, so they may give their daughters-in-law some money, but some are financially average, and the money for pregnancy tests is generally out of their own, so daughters-in-law can't be entangled in this regard. Life is passed step by step, not only by looking at money, but also by heart.

    In short, when the pregnancy check-up, whether the mother-in-law can pay or not depends on the family situation, so the pregnant woman should not be too entangled in this regard, she should look forward and treat the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law correctly.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Yes. Usually after the daughter-in-law of the family is pregnant, the mother-in-law will give some money as a condolence, a gift to the child, and will buy some nutritional products for the daughter-in-law to replenish the body, so that the daughter-in-law will lose nutrients because of pregnancy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Now many women are still very happy after getting married, they are pampered and cared for by their husbands, and they are well taken care of after pregnancy, and people's economic conditions are getting better and better, there are many mothers-in-law who have become open-minded, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not so tense, and some mothers-in-law know that their daughter-in-law will buy all kinds of supplements after pregnancy, so what is the matter if the mother-in-law does not buy anything after pregnancy?

    Not every mother-in-law will be good to her daughter-in-law after pregnancy, some mothers-in-law are good to you in their hearts, and they will definitely be willing to spend money for you during pregnancy, but some mothers-in-law don't like you in the first place, and they don't treat you as their own, so they are naturally reluctant to spend a penny for you.

    I don't deny that some mothers-in-law are really open-minded and feel that the pregnancy of their daughter-in-law is a happy thing, it doesn't matter whether the baby in the womb is male or female, but in some areas, the concept of patriarchy is deep-rooted, and there must be a boy in the family to inherit the lineage, if you feel that the baby in your daughter-in-law's belly is a girl, you will not pay attention to it, and even some mothers-in-law will let their daughter-in-law kill the child. If you meet this kind of mother-in-law, it is best to separate, otherwise giving birth to a girl may be affected by the mother-in-law's face every day.

    In short, when a woman is pregnant, as long as her husband is good to herself, and her mother-in-law doesn't care, you don't have to be sad, and your own body and the baby's health are the most important during pregnancy, and everything else is not very important.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    After getting pregnant, does my mother-in-law give me money? There is no reciprocal relationship, you choose to get pregnant is to want to conceive the crystallization of love with your lover, feel that it is time to have a child, or it is an accident, but it is also a surprise, welcome the arrival of the child, in fact, to put it bluntly, or to imitate your own affairs, or you and your husband's affairs, and mother-in-law has little to do with it, the reason why mother-in-law cares about you is also because of her son, so whether your mother-in-law gives money or not depends on his wishes, if your mother-in-law is very rich, Of course, you don't have to think that he will give you a big red envelope, because he can hold his eldest grandson and granddaughter, and my mother-in-law has no income from the manuscript, so it is reasonable not to give money.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It should be given. Hu Tingzhao.

    Because her daughter-in-law is pregnant and wants to add ding to the family, her mother-in-law is very happy, and she will give her daughter-in-law a red envelope according to the custom of renting land for pants.

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