What do you think about the behavior of you ll give you another candy after the beating ?

I think this kind of behavior is disrespectful to children, is not conducive to children's growth, and will make children think that there is nothing wrong with doing things that hurt others, as long as they are kind to that person later, there is nothing wrong at all.

This kind of behavior is very bad, I will not forgive this kind of "give me a candy after the beating" people, they have the first time will have a second time, when you tolerate it again and again, the other party will always habitually think that you are a good bully, so you always suffer inexplicably.

Giving you a slap and a piece of candy means "grace and power", appeasement and coercion are carried out at the same time, hurting you, and caring for you, that is, they want to buy you, and they also want to consolidate his majesty and position in your heart.

It is an act of grace and power that hurts you, and then comes to comfort you, to care for you, and also to strengthen his position in your heart and to consolidate his majesty.

I think it's unreasonable to give you another piece of candy after beating you, because I obviously hurt you, and after hurting you, I want you to forgive again, how can there be such a good thing in the world.

Because he hurt you before, he hit you, so he comes to comfort you again, which is actually an act of bribery, taking advantage of people's psychological characteristics, making you defenseless against him.

This is a phenomenon of encouragement, and if it is used on the right path, it is a very good encouragement, but if it is used on the bad path, it is aiding and abetting.

There are many people who will beat you and then give you a piece of candy, and I don't agree with the behavior of giving you another candy after beating you.

I think it's really inappropriate to slap and give a sweet date. It feels like a lie.

Oh, this is not good, it feels like a lie.

Treat people like monkeys.

With panic and hesitation, you stumble all the way, alone, with your bags on your back, stepping into the forest of the university to explore. Although frightened, although panicked, I still chose to cut off the way back, and there was no belief in turning back, and I still kept moving forward.

Always believe that God will give you a candy after giving you a slap in the face. You can't avoid the slap, and don't shirk the sugar. When facing the first foreign teacher's class, it was a slap in the face, but when someone cared for and helped after class, it would make a piece of candy.

I suddenly felt that the best life is to go with the flow, I don't look forward to the stars in the sky, I don't decade in reality, I don't panic about other people's movements, and I don't dwell on my own choices. Because there is no standard for judging wins and losses in life, although "no matter if he wins or loses, he will go up if he doesn't accept it" is straightforward, it is indeed brave enough.

I can't avoid God's slap and sugar, but I can save myself from it.

Take that candy and slap the other person again, and give him that candy again.

I won't ask for that candy, but I'll be just as good to him, heart-to-heart, after all, there's no obligation in this world for anyone to be nice to anyone.

Accept, because there is still sugar. The premise is that it is sweet enough, and this sweetness outweighs the pain of the slap.

Your sister is playing with me? THAT REACTION ...

If someone slaps you with a sugar date, I'll slap him back.

If a person slaps you, gives you a piece of candy, gives you a slap in the face, and gives you another slap, then it's not right for that person to do that. You don't feel happy if you give anything to eat.

Fools will ask for it if they use it again and again, so it is enough to say once, and once is a lesson.

I won't want this, this is called a slap to a sweet date.

Look at who that person is, for ordinary friends, the first slap will not ask for that candy, and for particularly important people, again and again, the third time will not ask for it again, but I believe that I have heard this word.

Of course I won't ask for this piece of candy, I'm sick.

It shows that this person is quite insidious. hurt you first, and then gave you some benefits, wanting you to forgive him. At this time, you have to think about it, can you forgive?

Giving you a slap in the face and then giving you a piece of candy mostly refers to the common phenomenon of being hurt and blamed beforehand, and then soothing and comforting afterwards.

Giving you a slap in the face and giving you another piece of candy will appear in different situations:

1. Appearing in a relationship; For people in love, most people will not like this feeling, of course, everyone has shortcomings, but you can't always say that because of these shortcomings, you want to hurt your loved ones. Every time you hurt someone you love, you realize that you did something wrong, and then apologize: "I'm sorry, it's me who is bad, I won't do this again"!

After saying this over and over again, he is still the same, and he continues to do something to hurt you. Makes you angry and makes you unhappy! He didn't really realize that he was wrong, but just something that blew like the wind.

So, there is a time and time again that hurts you.

Second, when you have a love, you should grasp it well, and love is also managed by both parties. A friend told me: "Love is like a storage jar, there is money in it, but if you don't manage it well, the money in the storage jar will be emptied sooner or later."

Indeed, a very vivid metaphor. Since everyone has decided to be together, then, protect this love for happiness, instead of hurting each other. You should cherish your lover instead of using it again:

Slap you in the face, and give you a candy to eat." This way to manage love, such love, sooner or later, will be destroyed alive by you!

3. Appearing at work; If there is negligence in the work, when the leader is very angry, it is inevitable that he will not handle it properly, and he will not be rational enough, and if he finds that the punishment is too heavy or the words are too heavy, he will take this method if he has the intention to make up for it afterwards.

Fourth, appear in life; There will be more or less conflicts between parents, relatives, and friends, and there will also be times when you are wronged, and you will be comforted and comforted afterwards, so that you can open your heart and open your heart.

5. Appear in learning; There is also a phenomenon of "slapping you and giving you a candy" among classmates and teachers, but not all of this phenomenon is undesirable.

The meaning of this phrase is that a person criticizes you first and then praises you. Or to belittle you a little bit and then raise you to a height that makes you feel very satisfied. It is to suppress first and then to rise.

A lot of damage is made up for with a small benefit. It can also be understood as a combination of hard and soft.

Giving you a slap in the face and then giving you a piece of candy means "grace and power".

Appeasement and coercion are applied at the same time. Now it also refers to the two means that the person in power uses both small favors and punishments to his subordinates.

Hurt you, but also care for you. That is, he wants to buy you, but also wants to strengthen his majesty and place in your heart.

I beat you and want you to say hello to him!

It hurts you first, and then gives you some benefits or coaxes you with nice words.

You can start with the symbolic aspect. Generally speaking, a slap is a very heavy behavior, so the slap here generally refers to the negative behavior made to the other party, which will bring negative emotions to the other party.

After the fact, if the party feels that it is inappropriate, he will give the other party some comforting behavior or benefits, and this kind of comforting or giving benefits is "sugar", which can sometimes be called "sweet dates". That's why sometimes it is also said, "If you hit someone, you will give a sweet date." ”

Comprehensive understanding is a general term for the act of making up for the aftermath.

Murder you first and then coax you, first bitter and then sweet.

As the saying goes, if the heart is quiet, it will be clear, and if the heart is clear. A person's life is like a tree, if you don't cut off the extra branches, it may stop growing. If we want to live a comfortable and secure life, we need to learn to let go of distractions.

It shows that the person owes a beating, and he still wants to please you, a person like you owes and needs others to educate him.

Meaning! Mom, if you go too far, you end up saying that you are a good person.

It hurts you first and coaxes you.

You didn't do anything for me in my favor, I gave you a sugar ring is good, and I gave him two, he has helped me a lot, I should give him, that's what it means,

He gave me two pieces of candy, and I gave him two pieces of candy. You didn't give me anything, but I'm willing to give it to you. Ironize people who only want to get something in return, and are not willing to give.

That is: you only know to ask for it but you never say thank you ...

But we're strangers, aren't we......Even though that candy cost me dearly.

If I see it, I'll give him two slaps! Teaching him that he is not good at doing things actually made me see that he overestimated his own means and underestimated my IQ, and this kind of mistake cannot be tolerated.

To be a human being, we must learn to respect others. It's also normal for your boyfriend to make you angry first and then coax you. The key questions are:

Why does he make you angry, is he too much or you are unreasonable in front of your boyfriend. If he does things too much and talks too much and hurts you, you need to consider his attitude towards you. If you embody a girl's personality in front of your boyfriend, and deliberately lead him to coax you to please you, so as to check your position in his heart, this method is better to use less and hurt feelings.

Give somebody a taste of his own medicine.

Leave decisively, and it's not his pet, how can there be such a thing.

It's a sick relationship

It's good for everyone to end the relationship early.

He always stood in the least crowded place, quietly and indifferently looking at the world that had nothing to do with him. He always stood in the least crowded place, quietly and indifferently looking at the world that had nothing to do with him. He always stood in the least crowded place, quietly and indifferently looking at the world that had nothing to do with him.

It depends on the cause and effect of the matter, and what is going on. It is not possible to generalize.

If you should fight, why not accept it if you can have sugar?

It is estimated that under normal circumstances, no one wants to accept it; But it is also divided into different situations and different environments!

Everything in life is smooth sailing, and there are many times when there is no choice, endure the suffering for a while, and often meet a better self!

I won't accept this kind of thing, I'm not a pet, others use it to make people happy, why does he treat me like this, I'm not a soft persimmon, don't let others bully you casually, otherwise, in the future, others will always keep bullying you, think you're so coaxing.

The key is that there is too little sugar, so no one is willing, as the saying goes, [there must be a brave man under the heavy reward] If you don't believe it, you can prepare 10,000 pieces of sugar first, find a primary school student and ask, I guarantee that someone will be willing.