What do you think of people who like to describe their tragic experiences in front of others?

I think people who like to describe their tragic experiences in front of others must have been emotionally traumatized in the past and have not come out of the shadow of the past. They want to confide in others so that others can feel their pain. We should comfort them more and encourage them to live a positive and optimistic life.

For those who like to describe their tragic experiences in front of others, they mainly want to win the sympathy of others.

When someone tells you about their tragic experience, they treat you as a bosom friend. Otherwise, don't treat you like a friend! No matter how bleak his experience is, he won't talk to you! Because, everyone has a difficult scripture!

Maybe this person has a strong desire to express himself, and if you look closely, you will find that not only tragic experiences, but as long as you can express your experiences in front of people, whether you are happy or unhappy, he likes to tell. ‍‍

It is believed that he is pitiful and accompanied by mental depression and should be comforted! If you don't want to be a good person, at least don't show boredom and humiliate him, just ignore him and say that he doesn't want to hear it! Give more kindness to the weak. ‍‍

I don't like such people, and I like to tell others about my tragedy, maybe by telling my own tragic experience to vent my negative emotions. Our emotions, like water, need to flow naturally, both within the body and between ourselves and others. When something bad happens, different people have different ways of coping.

Some people can exercise, some people will eat a meal, and some people will talk to their friends. Confiding in others about your sadness is also an outlet for your emotions and a way for them to flow. ‍‍

People all have a need to seek psychological security, and when faced with something sad, we look to others to gain security. Each of us also seeks emotional support so that we can be happier and happier, and when we tell others about our tragic experiences, we can get emotional catharsis, we can get emotional support from others, so that we can feel more secure. ‍‍

I don't like to vent my sad story in front of others, they must want to gain sympathy or some kind of profit by showing their tragic side, commonly known as selling miserable. The subtext may be, I'm so miserable, should you let me? Should you help me?

If it's not a particularly good friend, sometimes even a good friend can't tell him, I won't tell him, not because of anything, but because I don't want my negative emotions to affect other people. ‍‍

I'm more annoyed by this kind of person, blindly selling your own affairs, you think others will sympathize with you, in fact, no, in exchange for the ridicule in the hearts of others, don't tell too much about yourself to others. ‍‍

In this case, there are two kinds of people, one is just to say it and feel comfortable, and the other is to take advantage of their sadness to get the sympathy of others, to be honest, I don't like it very much. ‍‍

I think one is that he is really miserable and wants a little comfort, and the other is that he may just say it and want you to help him, or use the tragic experience for his benefit.