What to do if you are misunderstood in life?

First of all, it depends on what it is, and if it hurts other people, I will definitely explain it. Like once, I had dinner with a group of colleagues. At the time, a friend of mine had just fallen out of love, and we were comforting her.

I said at the time:"What's the big deal, as long as the family is still there, the friends are still there, and the feelings are all floating clouds. In fact, when I said this again, my colleagues around me started touching me under the table, but I didn't realize it.

When I said it, I realized that I might have said the wrong thing. The two have been engaged and have been in a relationship for more than seven years. At that time, the colleague I was talking to cried.

I tried my best to explain, but to no avail. In the end, I didn't explain it directly, because at this time, everything I said became a wind talk. In the end, I left early.

When I went home, I sent a lot of apologetic texts and comforting words to my colleague, and I told her about my outspoken personality so that he could understand. After my sincere apology, the other party did not meet me again. Instead, they talked to me more.

I feel that I usually have to talk more than my brain, don't say it casually, it will be very uncomfortable to be misunderstood.

It's hard to be misunderstood, but it's already going wrong. Mine just straightens out my attitude and position, and I won't refute or clarify too much. Let time tell.

It's like when my parents lived in a university family home, and I went to school in another place. Every time my parents go to the school and visit the playground and see a couple who are right, they wonder if I am also looking for a partner in the university outside. Then ask me every time you come back.

Actually, I really don't have a partner, but I feel like I don't believe my parents in what I say. In the end, I won't talk about it directly. Until I graduated and worked, I didn't look for a partner.

My friends and family around me began to look for me to find a partner, and my parents also knew that my emotional intelligence was very low, even if others found me a partner, I didn't care. Therefore, I feel that as long as I don't do it, I don't have to worry about anything, and time hates it to prove everything.

When you are looked down upon, saying one more word is to please you. When you are misunderstood, it is a cover to explain it more than once. Instead of arguing about a right or wrong, it's better to get things done.

Some people will misunderstand you, they will see you clearly, not so many reasons, they just don't like you. To say one more word to such a person is to look at it highly. It's not easy for people to live, don't care about the opinions of passers-by, be true to your heart and please yourself.

Only weak people care what others think, and weak people are more likely to be bullied. In fact, it's not a misunderstanding, it's a deliberate misunderstanding, the truth may not be cared about, they just want to find someone to blame. So make yourself strong enough.

So strong that you don't care if you misunderstand you, so strong that they don't dare to misunderstand you. "He is strong by him, and the breeze blows on the hills"。

Those who should feel wronged by being misunderstood are those who have not lied. If you have deceived others and made them lose trust in you, then it is reasonable for this person to misunderstand you. Don't say anything about dealing with other people's misunderstandings with a broad heart, think about why others don't trust you.

The source of the misunderstanding is you, not him. It's disgusting that the kind of person who has made a mistake or broken a promise because of his own mistakes and broken his promise is misunderstood by others and says to be broad-minded. The story of the wolf coming, who would sympathize with the child who lied three times in a row?

Others don't believe in him, it's all his own doing.

If you are misunderstood, you will be misunderstood, and if you explain it, others will think that you are covering it up, and it may become more and more black. So it's good for us to just ignore it, there will be a lot of misunderstandings in life, and it will waste a lot of time to explain them one by one.

It's normal to be misunderstood, even by your nearest and dearest. Don't always expect others to think of you, after all, different hearts will have different ideas. When there is a contradiction, you might as well laugh it off and believe that time is the best running agent.

My approach is, since it is misunderstood, let him misunderstand, anyway, he will not take the initiative to explain, whether he understands it himself, or has been misunderstanding, in fact, our lives are limited, there is really no need to waste time to explain.

I don't think it's necessary to explain, people who understand you don't need to explain, and explanations that don't understand are redundant.