What do you think about loving and being loved?

Updated on vogue 2024-06-08
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Whether you are loved by one or loved by someone, you are happy. If you love someone, learn to pursue it and say it out loud. And to be loved by someone, there will always be someone who will protect you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    When looking at the matter of loving and being loved, we mainly consider these factors.

    The first factor, love is selfless, to love, or to be loved are complementary interests, you take the initiative to love, but also your right, at the same time love is also equal, mutual, you are loved by others is happiness, you take the initiative to love is persistent, this is called the dedication of love, love also needs fate, lack a lot.

    The second factor, at least when you love someone, you can take it out and remember it slowly, and even her walking posture will appear in your brain. The loved one doesn't know what's going on at all, holding her head up or going her own way, and she can't even remember who you are when you're old?

    The third factor is that different people have different evaluation criteria according to their different personalities and cognitions, and I think it is more important to be loved. As a person who is emotionally cold, cares about equal exchange, and values first, if the person I love does not love me, then I will suffer from the pain of constantly giving in one direction, I will feel worthless, and gradually lose the ability to love it. If I am the one who is loved, and I have no necessary motive to reject or reject being loved by the other person, then if I accept to be loved, I will also try to love, and strive to make the return and give equally, of course, when the two people have both love and be loved, then it is meaningless to be unequal, and it is enough to have love.

    Of course, there are some people who don't care if they can get something in return, they have a rich emotional world, always full of love and enthusiasm, maybe they have grown up in the honey nest of being loved, so they don't have a stronger desire to be loved, so they pay more attention to their love than being loved.

    The fourth factor is that in the relationship between two people, you can't blindly ask for it, you must give the same or more in return, so that the relationship between two people will be durable. Don't take other people's love for granted, no one owes anyone, youth is fleeting, and when you regret it, it may be too late, and in the same way, don't love others as a lifelong career, if there is no result of love, why cling to it?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If someone loves you, you are very happy, and if you are the one who is loved, you are also very happy. It's especially good to love and be loved.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Being loved is a kind of enjoyment, you don't need to give any emotion, just enjoy the love given by the other person. However, if being loved is based on the fact that you don't love you, you will feel very irritated. Because I don't love each other, but being loved by the other party actually feels very entangled.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It should be viewed correctly, because I feel that no matter what kind of person I meet, I choose it, so I should have the right attitude.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The meaning of loving and being loved is actually pretty much the same. But if you really need to choose feelings, most people will choose to be loved. Because it is painful to love someone, but to be loved is to enjoy love.

    Although the relationship between the two feels different, the ultimate goal is actually similar. In love, there are many people who accept love and are finally lost, and they are easy to choose to be loved.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think the relationship between loving and being loved should be that two people have the feeling of loving each other together, and then understand each other and tolerate each other, so that there will be true love in the end.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Loving and being loved is actually a mutual relationship. If a person loves or is loved in one way for many years, then he will definitely feel tired one day in the future.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Loving and being loved are very happy, if you don't care about what you reciprocate, being able to love is also a kind of one's own ability, being loved and feeling that you are valued and cared for, and you are more happy.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Loving and being loved are only two people who are mutual, if you love others, others will not be happy, and if others love you, you will not be happy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think they complement each other, and feelings can't just ask or demand, just like in life, you can only get something back by giving.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think that only when people have felt the taste of being loved will they really know how to love others, love is important, and being loved is equally important.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I understand that loving and being loved is mutual, giving more to each other. can have a very loving feeling.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    One is active and the other is passive, simply put, love is a person who takes the initiative to give, but being loved is that this person will be loved, and it may not be what she likes. The relationship between them is opposite, but often there will be a love between a pair of lovers in life, and the other may be a loved relationship, if you meet two lovers is very rare, but you can't find it, so you should especially cherish the person who is loved in life, because this requires a lot of time, energy and money, not ordinary people can do it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think if two people really love each other, then there is a loving relationship between them, but if one party gives more, then the other person gets to be loved.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's not the same. Love is hard work, giving is weakness, being loved is demanding, and there is no fear.

    1. The essence of love is to work hard, to work hard, to be loved is to ask.

    The essence of love is to work hard, to work hard. And all the hard work is risky, and it is risky, maybe failure, will make you lose a mess.

    To be loved is to ask for it, to have a lot of confidence and momentum, to have capital. But this capital is not long-lasting, and people are not eternal.

    2. Love is a weakness, and being loved is fearless.

    To love someone is to spare no effort to hand over one's weakness to the other party. In addition to money, I will also work hard to pay hardships, sadness, and grievances. Being loved is an extra pair of armor, and there is more fearlessness for those who treat themselves well.

    3. Love is very easy to hurt, and it is very easy to hurt people by love.

    Deeply in love with someone, you can love very casually, leave and stay casually, love and hate yourself, your initiative can affect the time period of the relationship, and also have some position in the relationship, but in the case of you love that person deeply, you also have a very great ability to bear all the pain she brings to you, as well as hurt, although some of the hurt is inadvertent, but you also have to bear it, because you love her, you have to accept everything.

    A man who loves you, he values your feelings, and he will do his best to give you better. On the contrary, many of the men you love are able to work effortlessly, just because they don't matter. The man who loves you, you may not have the idea of holding hands with him.

    The man you love deeply touches you in every move, and you care about all his behaviors, so he doesn't need to worry about coaxing you with a lot of energy, just because he is the person you love. In front of the man you love, women should be careful when they speak and do things, for fear of making him unhappy all of a sudden. A man who loves you, whether it's your fault or not, can be polite.

    The man you love, whether you're wrong or not, you're going to give in.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In fact, it is not the same, to love someone is actually to give your own things, to make others feel loved and loved, in fact, it is to be satisfied by yourself, and it is others who fill their hearts and hearts with love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't think it's the same, love is when you take the initiative to pursue others, and you yourself put in the effort, but you just need to stay where you are.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's not the same. Different definitions, different objects, different situations, different ways, different meanings, for a good relationship, they must go both ways, so they know that loving is just as important as being loved.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Everyone likes to marry handsome guys, and everyone is willing to marry a beautiful woman.

    But this is very unrealistic.

    Personally, I believe that good feeling is the first element, and with basic good feeling, there is the foundation for long-term love.

    Love at first sight is a kind of chance, and love at first sight sometimes comes and goes quickly.

    Sometimes, on the contrary, the first good feeling can breed long-term love.

    As the saying goes, people with good feelings have the foundation to give birth to love.

    I hope that while unmarried men and women dream of fairy love in drama books, they may wish to look more around them who have a good impression of themselves and the opposite sex.

    After all, Prince Charming and Snow White are very few in the real world, and even if they do, most of them are sought-after, and almost all of them are famous.

    Unless you have a strong overall strength, you may be able to try your own fighting ability.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Between you is that you don't want to love.

    Nor is he willing to accept love.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    To love someone is to be tolerant of what is right and wrong and all that is there.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Love is painful, being loved is blissful.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Loving and being loved are actually happiness, both feelings.

    Love is giving, being loved is reaping.

    That's all there is to it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Love is giving, and being loved is reciprocating.

    It's just as good to love as to be loved.

    Since you give true love, then you will definitely be loved, maybe it's just a matter of time, even if you can't get it in the end, or the result is not what you want, but you have paid, your heart will be more solid, if you have been deeply loved by a person, even if you lose it one day, or leave, you will have a sense of happiness back when you recall, !

    So, to love is just as happy as to be loved...

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Love: is to unknowingly like someone:

    To be loved: is to be liked and protected by a person:

    Note: It is happy to be loved, but it is hard to love someone, maybe some people will think that this is not the case!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Love is to give, but you are not sure whether he likes you or not, being loved is to get, people like you, but you don't like others, but it will be easier to be loved.

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