Which would you choose to love or be loved?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-19
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Choose to love you. It can be tiring to love someone who doesn't love yourself. And it's a very unfair situation.

    He doesn't care what you give. On the other hand, someone who loves you will care about you everywhere. Don't say anything you don't feel for him.

    Without love, eventually you will understand that the so-called love is really ethereal and illusory. Slowly you will know what life is. The so-called love will become extremely fragile in the face of real life.

    Being alone is good to you. Everywhere for your sake. As long as you don't really hate him.

    Like him a little bit, then there will be a good life between you

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I will choose the one who loves me!

    Because being loved is also a joy.

    When you love someone and he (she) doesn't love you, how will you feel, is it because you are really bad, I think otherwise, it is because he (she) does not fully understand you and does not see through your heart, so he did not choose you. On the other hand, maybe you don't see through the person who loves you, but you first see through the person you love now, but don't love you.

    At the same time, there is also a point, that is, the other party is not handsome or beautiful enough, the first step will affect your choice, of course, everyone desires beauty, but when you fall in love with someone, even if he (she) is not very good, but in your mind he (she) is a very good person!

    Personally, I think the true beauty is the beauty of the soul!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Choose the person who loves you. In today's society.

    It's too easy to find someone you like or someone who likes you, but it's too hard for you to find someone you like and like you, and as for choosing whether you like or someone who likes you, I think it's better to choose someone who likes you. In this way, you can not spend too much trouble with love, and you don't have to work hard to please and grovel. After the test of time, you know her thoroughly, maybe she is the one you are looking for.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I remember that the two heroines had a conversation in "Court No. 1", and the third party played by Deng Cuiwen asked Ding Rou played by Chen Xiuwen: Do you choose someone who loves him more, or choose someone who loves you more. Chen Xiuwen is the latter, because she is more realistic, Deng Cuiwen said that she used to think so, but later found out that she was wrong.

    At the time, I didn't understand, and I thought I should choose someone who loved me more. So far, I feel that if I could choose, I would also choose the person I love. Because that's really a kind of happiness, it's a true reflection of your own emotions, and it's not because of the other person's dedication and effort that you force yourself to fall in love with him, but it's a reflection of your instinct.

    If you love him, you will willingly give for him, and you will consider it a blessing. If, one day, he also falls in love with you, wouldn't that be the most fulfilling? Of course, the safest thing is to choose someone who loves himself more, but that's passive!

    In fact, I say this because I don't have this kind of opportunity, I hope to find the kind of person I really like and are willing to give everything to give true love, I think it must be very happy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Of course, choosing someone who loves you, and loving someone who doesn't love you is very tiring, and the injury will be the greatest.

    If the other party is a girl, you should try to love her when choosing her, because girls are meant to be loved and loved.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I will choose to love. It's going to be painful, but I'm not going to choose someone who loves me, it's not going to be happy and it's not going to be responsible for him. This kind of love will not last long. Remember not to settle for the next best thing in love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love is painful and happy, and happiness is in your own hands.

    Being loved is pure enjoyment, and I don't know if I'm happy or not, even happiness is in the hands of others, so I suggest you choose love.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Of course, I have to choose to be loved, it will be very hard to love, it will make the lover's heart suffer, and being loved will be cared for and cared for everywhere.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Choose the one you love!

    Because loving others is also a kind of happiness, being loved by someone you don't love may also feel happy, but there will be regrets!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Love! Someone you love but don't love you!

    Elected"Someone who loves you and you don't"It's a wise choice, but if you're wise, it's not someone you love. So, in this case, everyone will choose the person they love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's better to be in love!

    First of all, you must choose the person you love, because you have courage, and you will not regret it even if you do not get his love in this life.

    Second, move him and let him love you. And so it becomes love!

    What do you think? Hope you are happy!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Choosing to be loved, of course. Because to be loved is to be blissful. It's tiring to love someone.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No, I think I really have to choose the person you love, because being loved is numb, but loving the person you love is a kind of enjoyment, a real giving, which is also where love lies.

    Choosing the person you love is responsible for yourself.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I will choose the one who loves me and make him fall in love with me.

    If, in the end, he still can't fall in love with me, maybe I'll choose to have no one.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Now I will choose to be loved, because I have loved but lost the heartache, and I will never have this unforgettable heartache again.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Someone who loves you and you don'tBecause he (she) loves you, you will love him (her) in the end. Try it if you don't believe it!

    Someone you love but don't love you, you may not be able to make him (her) fall in love with you! That's how I am!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hello, I will choose to love each other, unilateral love is destined to be sad!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I choose both because they are mutual, and without one there is no meaning.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I will choose to be loved and feel more comfortable.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I choose both, love is mutual, and we must grasp it well.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Of course choose the person who loves you, and then love the person you choose.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I won't choose either. Because love is two-sided after all, you will feel happy.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    None of them, because love is the source of suffering.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Lovers are loved by mutuality, I just hope to be loved for a long time like walking corpses, lovers will be paralyzed after a long time and don't feel it. Only love is long-lasting.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The one I love but don't love me, go for it, one day he will love you, and giving will always be greater than taking.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I used to choose to be loved, but now I choose the people I love

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