What is it like to have a bad relationship with your parents?

I don't feel anything.,Anyway, the relationship has been bad since I can remember.,When I was a child, I didn't have the ability to resist.,Every day I'm either beaten or scolded.,Now it's been a long time since the relationship was severed.,Anyway, half a life has passed.,I've tasted the sweet, sour, bitter and salty things that should be tasted.。 I don't hate them anymore when I live to this day, but it's impossible to think about loving them. Human life is short, so why care too much about those garbage people?

I can't wait to be outside forever, never miss home, never tell them what I'm thinking, no sense of belonging, never coquettish, always a rational behavior pattern, and it will be embarrassing to ask for living expenses.

When I was so desperate that I wanted to die, I felt that I had no reluctant concern, I understood that my parents loved me very much, treated me very well, just understood, if I could, I was willing to do my best to reciprocate, but I couldn't love them without guilt, sometimes I felt that it was because of the lack of intimacy that I liked my boyfriend so much, and acted more and more crazy.

Other people's families are unhappy and sad, and they will be homesick, but all my pain and troubles are brought to me by my original family! I don't feel the warmth of home. I've never been spoiled with my parents.

God has also taken care of me, and has given me a good man, who is super good to me, better than all the people in my family. You can be yourself in front of him, get angry when you want to be angry, and laugh when you want to laugh. He's probably the only thing I can show off!

I don't like to go home!

Staying at home is always a sense of oppression, a feeling of being under the fence. I don't feel like I'm even qualified to cry at home.

I feel depressed at home, I just want to stay away from them, and then I have to bear the inner condemnation of whether I am rebellious, unfilial, or too willful.

Probably it's just that everyone is unhappy and complains to their parents, and all my unhappiness is because of my parents.

I don't quarrel because I am silent most of the time, I feel that the house is closely monitored, and I don't feel relieved when I go home, and I often feel very stressed and painful. I even felt a little depressed.

I'm very happy with my friends, but when I get home, I don't have anything to say, I don't have a common language, and I'm always looked down on and criticized by all kinds of things.

Home doesn't give me a warm feeling, and when I get home, it's a fight, and it feels like I'm not my own. In this home, I only have myself.

I have never felt the warmth of home, I have no status, no dignity and no right to speak at home, I will always be their punching bag, no matter what I just want me to fly and soar, they will follow the light, and when I see others mixing well, I will scold me for not being capable, and the snob will only have money in his eyes, and he will not care about anything else.

Since childhood, I have not been loved, I have no parents' touch on my children, I have no touch, I have no exchange of thoughts, I am the most familiar stranger, I don't even have the courage to open my mouth, I am depressed at home, I am suffocated, I don't have a trace of warmth, I can only breathe a sigh of relief when I go out the door

Don't want to go home. After a long vacation, others will excitedly plan to go home, but I feel worried and disgusted.

There are many things that they don't understand me, and I don't explain them, and there is basically no emotional communication. I don't take the initiative, and occasionally I have a big fight when it is triggered, because I can't bear to talk back to them, and afterwards I am annoyed why I had to talk back in the first place.

I'm a woman, and I don't want to be seen by my parents! Once wrote a diary to confide, the teacher criticized: "There is no parent in the world who does not love their children!" Be careful! "It's only the children who are wrong! To be a parent is to be right forever!

Sometimes I talk to my parents, grandmother, and sisters, and the tone is a little heavier, and after thinking about it, I feel very uncomfortable, and I really can't imagine what those people who treat their parents badly are.

I never complained to them, I had a car accident, and I didn't tell them.

Every time I think of my biological mother, I feel upset and feel that my life is miserable.

If you don't have a good relationship with your parents, it's easy to go out to find warmth, and there will be no leftover men and women, which is good.

I am my mother's heart and liver, my father's burden, I can leave my father, I can't do without my mother, my mother doesn't like my father very much, but I don't get divorced, the family is together occasionally, there is no warmth, no family affection.

My parents didn't like me since I was a child, and I was a nanny at home, and I did all the housework.

As long as I have no fault and have done my filial piety to my parents, I will have a clear conscience!

Me too, not all parents are good.

My parents are the people I hate the most.

I didn't dare to go home after school, so I stood outside the door and listened for a long time when I went home, and the noise was too loud to go in.

You don't like to stay at home.

It doesn't matter if you feel it or not.

This kind of experience is only known to the person concerned, it's good, if you suffer any grievances in your in-law's house in the future, you can run back to your parents' house directly, and parents don't have to worry about their daughters being wronged. The daughter can usually go back to her parents' house to eat, and this kind of life is quite enviable.

Nowadays, many people are basically far away from their own homes when they get married, which will make parents worry, worried that their daughters will be wronged in their in-laws' house, if there is anything, parents have no way to help, if their daughters marry not far away, parents will worry less, usually go to see their daughters, if their daughters marry farther, parents can not often go to see their daughters, after their daughters are wronged, parents do not know.

When this woman got married, she directly married her childhood sweetheart, the distance between the two families is only forty meters, and the parents of both sides are more assured, they all know the roots, and they usually have contacts, so there will basically be no contradictions in such a marriage. And the girl and the man's parents have known each other since childhood, and there will be no mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship that is difficult to get along with, they have grown up watching since childhood, and the mother-in-law will not embarrass her daughter-in-law, plus the relationship between the parents, after making any decision, they will definitely take into account the feelings of both parties, and it is not easy to quarrel.

Both the man and the woman have their own dependence, and even if there is any problem, the parents of both parties can discuss it together, and this kind of marriage is safer. For young people, it is also better, there will be a lot less family conflicts, and the relationship between the woman and her in-laws will be more harmonious after marriage. Especially when the woman gives birth to a child, the parents are by their side and do not have to worry about the hard work of their daughter, and they can take care of anything at ordinary times, and such a marriage is what the parents are happy to see.

However, there are few such marriages themselves, and in most marriages, the women will basically be far away from their parents, and some even choose transnational marriages, leaving their elderly parents to live alone in China. For children, if they can accompany their parents, try to accompany their parents, which will reduce some regrets in their lives, and can also have a support around them when the marriage is not going well, and parents are the biggest support for children.

Welcome to the classroom of Mr. Zhu, the lecturer of Pershing Education 108, here is Mr. Zhu's 1032nd day good morning greetings.

For a long time, our family relationship has always been easy to be ignored, and when we encounter problems, we don't take the initiative to communicate and solve them, and we don't have to worry about dealing with the conflicts that occur when we think we are relatives.

It is precisely because of the accumulation of various contradictions that batches of "households with difficult relationships" have been born.

In the homes of households with difficult relationships, a needle may fall from the ground and cause a quarrel, and the family atmosphere is tense and not harmonious.

All of this is a problem with the relationship, whether it is a family relationship or a social relationship, in essence, the problem of interpersonal relationship seems to be a communication problem, but it is actually a problem of the internal relationship model.

The inner relationship pattern refers to the interaction with important relatives when you were a child, internalized into your subconscious, and formed a pattern of relationship treatment, which will continue to affect your interactions with others when you grow up.

Everyone's internal relationship model is actually different, and behind each model, there is the imprint of the original family, and it also corresponds to a person's various "subconscious" reactions to different relationships.

If you want to have all good relationships, you need to learn to be self-aware of the relationship patterns and analyze the relationship patterns of others, so that your life will change a lot.

Parents and children have the closest relationship, and they should have a close relationship and harmonious communication. But in real life, many children do not communicate smoothly with their parents, and they will encounter many problems. The reason for this situation is that there are three reasons: different living habits caused by the age gap, different experiences that lead to different concepts, and different goals for work and life.

1. Poor communication between parents and children is first caused by a large age gap and different living habits.

The primary problem of miscommunication between parents and children is the difference in their living habits. ......There is a very large age gap between parents and children, which leads to differences in living conditions between parents and children, and the resulting differences in living habits. ......This difference in living habits directly leads to different understandings on many issues, which can lead to poor communication between parents and children.

2. Due to the different experiences of parents and children, the concepts are inconsistent, resulting in communication difficulties.

Parents have many years of experience in working, studying, and living, while children do not experience as much because of their young age. This situation makes them very different in terms of concepts, and when they look at the same issue, they often form different understandings. Therefore, when parents communicate with their children, it is often difficult to reach an agreement because of their different concepts.

This can lead to difficulties in communication between parents and children.

3. Different goals for work and life will lead to difficulties in communication between parents and children.

The most direct reason why parents and children have difficulties in communication is that they have different goals for work and life. ......Parents often hope that their children can have a stable job and life, and children generally hope to pursue a better life through their own efforts, so that there will be different opinions between parents and children, and it will be difficult to communicate. ......This is the root cause of communication difficulties between parents and children.

There are reasons for the bad relationship with both parents.

I was one of those who didn't have a good relationship with my parents. My dad has a family genetic"Patriarchal"When my brother bought new clothes, he said that his cousin had a lot of old clothes, and I couldn't finish them; He who works is speaking, but he who praises his younger brother; It was my younger brother who caused the trouble, and I was the one who was scolded and beaten.

After I came out to work, I only talked about money when I went home during the Chinese New Year, and I still complain that I don't pay them my salary after work. Hospitalized for surgery, it cost them money, and the next year they turned around and asked to go back.

And my mother, who was kind and kind when I was a child, became a stranger when she came back to take us to study. She has to work, and since high school, the first thing I do after school at noon and in the afternoon is cooking. If you cook too much or too little, you will be scolded, and if you don't get good grades, you will be scolded"When I asked for money, I knew I was your mother"

She echoed all the joys and sorrows of her father, and they were always husband and wife. When I talked to her about getting married, the first thing I talked to me about after my dad agreed was not the man's character and the bride price, but after my dad inexplicably disagreed, he immediately united with my dad.

That's right, I didn't get married with their consent or inform them. My dear mother went to my grandmother's house and scolded my grandmother and uncle. Because I was at my grandmother's house from the third month of my life, I was forbidden to go to my grandmother's house until I was able to study and work.

Because they're my parents, and when they're old, I'm responsible for what I'm supposed to do, but I can't let go.