On a blind date, someone else introduced the two people to choose which one is better

If you want to look at the job, both of them have relatively stable jobs As for the burden of the family, a seems to have to bear more in terms of parental support b there is a younger brother at home, and the cost of studying may be greater in the future The pressure on the two brothers to get married and buy a house may be greater

But no matter who is better or worse in the conditions of the two, what can finally come together depends on how the two of you get along If the two of you get along more harmoniously, have a common language, can communicate well, and can run in each other's personalities and habits well, you should know what your choice is

Of course, the most important thing is this man's attitude, whether he knows how to cherish and care for you Find someone who has a heart with you and knows how to love yourself, you will be happy

Met, talked, and talked.

All right? Loyalty, responsibility, thoughtfulness, and dedication should be a criterion for measurement.

Good luck.

Choosing B Parents is not only a pension issue, but also a medical problem.

Without these, you will be very tired in the future

Actually, I said

Why do you insist on picking one?!

Are you in a hurry to get married?

Take your time, maybe neither of you is your cup of tea...

Hello. It depends on whether you like that person, whether the person is good or not, not just the family conditions.

Let them take 100w each

Whoever comes out first, isn't that what you think?

Don't just look at their family background, but also look at whether you can talk to them or not, which is related to your happiness in the future. Getting married is a lifelong event!

Find someone who has a heart and soul with you and knows how to love yourself, and you will definitely be happy

The topic of blind date has always been a very sensitive topic. Everyone's thoughts are different, and some people may look forward to this arrangement very much, while others will be very disgusted by it. Personally, I won't completely reject the blind date, but I won't completely follow the family's arrangements to go on a blind date.

First of all, I think blind dates are really a way to meet new people. In the blind date process, we can learn about the other person's life experience, family background, occupation and hobbies, which is very helpful to further understand the other party. If the other person is a suitable person, then we have a chance to develop a good relationship.

Secondly, a blind date can also be an opportunity to challenge yourself. Some people are afraid of social situations, but blind dates can make us more confident in facing this challenge, making it easier for us to communicate and get along with strangers.

However, I also believe that the arrangement at home cannot be the only criterion. Everyone has their own feelings and thoughts, and they can't go against their hearts because of their family's arrangements. Before going on a blind date, I will first understand the basic information of the other party to determine whether they have common interests and values, and only if these conditions are met, I will consider going on a blind date.

At the same time, during the blind date process, I will also express my thoughts and needs honestly, and I will not blindly compromise because the other party was introduced by my family.

In general, blind dates are very meaningful for meeting new people and challenging yourself, but the premise of blind dates is that you must have common interests and values, and you should not go against your heart. The arrangement of the family is only a reference and cannot be the only criterion. Blind dates are not for the sake of family arrangements or social expectations, but for their own happiness and growth.

When introducing the blind date, sometimes the elders often stand in the perspective of their generation, pay too much attention to the dimensions they care about as a screening criterion, individual elders, hope that you will start a family as soon as possible, and rarely come to understand your feelings, and most of the time your needs are chaotic Mandarin duck spectrum. You said that you like young and handsome little fresh meat, and he introduced you to one, rich and rich with a big belly and obscene. They don't know, or they don't agree with some of your views, and if you reject them, they will find it hard to be too picky.

There is an information and cognitive bias between blind dates.

Sometimes the words of the introducer cannot be fully believed, and the introducer who needs to read the subtext is not reliable? In fact, it's very critical, many aunts and uncles are too enthusiastic to push it to you if it's a one-star, no matter what? In their eyes, as long as you meet a man or a woman, you will be able to live a match, and they will urge you next to you, you are so old, what do you want?

Look at your elementary school classmates have all given birth to a second child, and you haven't even been someone else's spare tire.

A large part of blind dates are unreliable people.

Sometimes the blind date on the back may be that the elders blindly mix with each other and don't want to participate at all, but because of the pressure of the elders, they have to act on the spot, which leads to embarrassment on both sides, on the other hand. In the process of blind date, you meet some people who may have a part of the problem of IQ, and the blind date itself is a low-probability thing, just like a numbers game, after a certain number of people, it is possible to meet a person who is really suitable for you.

Whether the person who introduces the blind date is reliable or not sometimes depends on our mentality. In fact, most of the people who can go on a blind date are people with a narrow social circle, or people who are more picky about the other half and have higher conditions, and there are also some people who are not very good because they have not been able to find a partner, so they need to introduce a blind date.