My boyfriend and ex girlfriend have been breaking up for more than 3 years and are still in contact,

It depends on what kind of situation it is, if it is not an objective situation, such as they are close to each other or have work and business contacts, then the other situation is obviously the residual affection, of course, the party that has not been left behind may not be your boyfriend, after all, the two people have some good feelings about the original thing to be able to say that they are friends or something, and they can still have contact after breaking up for so long, which can only show that one of them still loves the other person very much, and after all, one of them is silently giving.

There is no innocent friendship between a man and a woman, and there are only two possibilities for such a situation: one is that there is still affection but does not want to hurt each other's family, and the other is that there is some kind of interest relationship between two people who use or help each other.

This one is a bit complicated.

1, it is possible that they really have nothing and really become friends, after all, that time is a memory that belongs to him, and no one has the right to deprive him of his memory.

2, maybe there are feelings, after all, it was once difficult for the sea, always with some regrets in contact, if you grasp it well, it should be nothing, but you have to be vigilant, use your love to completely melt his heart and keep him, let him gradually fade.

3. If the contact is frequent, and your boyfriend's attitude is very vague, ambiguous, etc., you have to be careful, remind, observe, see if he has changed, or talk, and live to consider whether you should continue to date.

If it's the first two, it means that your boyfriend is still a loving person.

There are two sides to everything, and they keep in touch maybe it's an innocent friend relationship, maybe it's a special relationship. First of all, you have to calm down, because if your worries and anxieties are too strong, then maybe the effect is not good, if there is a chance, the three of you can get together, the three parties in person may be able to really feel their relationship, and then make a decision, okay.

How do you feel to say that I'm, Sissy. I still have a connection, because I still have feelings, and I can only say that I am still a friend with others, but how do I define it in my heart? In my heart, he and I can't be friends, we both came out to work, and we should be sensible, and we should be measured, and we can handle this relationship well.

I love him, 100% sure, if it's just that I have feelings for him, I can't always have contact, after all, a slap doesn't make a sound, you can have no information for a month, no **, but there are still concerns, after all, breaking up was a helpless choice, if you are his girlfriend now... If you say that they are in constant contact, there will be trouble.,It's easy to die.,It depends on how the current girlfriend grasps this scale.。。

It depends on who contacts who comes first.

If the woman contacts the man first, most of them want to see if the man is doing without her, this is a woman's careful eyes, and I always hope that the man will not marry her for the rest of his life.

If it's a man who contacts a woman first, needless to say, it's still a little nostalgic for the old love.

Hehe. I would also very much like to know this question of yours.

But I summarized it in one sentence.

Only love will make one party work hard to maintain a relationship with the other.

Even the few things they had were kept.

For example, text messages.

The lotus root is broken, and the remaining feelings are not over.

Watch closely! There are some things that can't be forced, make it clear to him, and be a stranger if you don't be a lover!

It's not a big deal. Just once acquainted.

Can't friends be contacted?

It's also an acquaintance.