Urgently, the boyfriend wants to get engaged first but

Of course he's afraid you'll fly. That's why I'm in a hurry to settle down. Save yourself from changing your mind.

But you'd better think about it, and if you want to live with him for the rest of your life, convince your parents that he is better than he is poor. If you are convinced by your parents, give this paragraph a result quickly.

You should have a good talk with him Work together to get your parents to agree, this hard way will only make things worse I have a brother and girlfriend who have been talking for almost ten years, and the girl's mother has been unhappy, but they haven't broken up after so long, although sometimes there are conflicts in this area My brother's career is doing very well, and they are about to get married through hard work

I don't eat or drink at home, but it's better to be too much, so I said that I can't eat it, and I show that I'm on fire, and when I go out, I eat more, and it won't take half a month for my family to agree.

Your parents don't agree at all, so what are you talking about engagement? It's a bit too much for your boyfriend to not understand you and make such unreasonable demands on you. I have a classmate who is very similar to you, but they are about to get married, and their parents think that the man's family is too poor and don't want their daughter to marry her so hard!

In the end, for the sake of his parents, he didn't get married!

Be realistic and rational.

He should try to convince your parents with you.

But all he could think of was himself.

Your position is not taken into account.

Love is important, but be realistic, you feel good now, but you have to think about it in the future, whether you want to live there in the future, whether it is about yourself and what your parents should do, you have to consider.

This request is a bit reluctant, and if he is really sincere, he can spend all his energy on convincing your parents instead of putting pressure on you.

It is recommended that you talk to him clearly and explain your current situation, which is barely fruitless.

I think you'd better forget it, it's better to be rational, and your boyfriend's request doesn't make sense at all.

Marriage is a major event in life, there can be a hurry, and the friends above are right.

Unreasonable requests, your boyfriend is not rational at all, and you don't need to break up with him urgently, because not everyone is a saint, and they don't think so comprehensively, you can persuade him first, and you can say that our main task now is not to get engaged, but to persuade our parents, and so on, if he still doesn't realize it, then he really has to break up and pull him dictatorship, and you will not be happy after you are together.

I sympathize with you, and if you have time, take a look at the questions I made! ~

The only thing you're getting early now is to break up.

Selfish boys, don't do it, why not try to achieve something to convince your parents that it can bring you happiness? Not at all for you to think about ......

Let's find a day where we can sit down and have a good talk. Tell him how you feel now, and ask him why he got engaged half a year before he got married, because of what traditional beliefs? Money issues?

Personal reasons? It's always because of something that makes you stick to this idea.

The most important thing is that if he refuses to say it, you tell him your concerns, just say that you are afraid that something will happen to both parties, or even be dragged along, and if you are killed, you will not say it, and you will not be engaged. It's up to you to measure it.

Engagement is just a formality, if you get married, you will get divorced, girl, it's not a deal, when you graduate, you will know that there are many good men in society, and your boyfriend will find out how precious you are when he enters the society. Don't worry, it's yours after all, it's yours, it's not yours, and it's not happy to force it.

After all, sometimes the customs of this thing are different, how to say it, anyway, the contradiction is quite big in this area, her family must get married as soon as possible, and the sooner she gets a certificate, the better. My family thinks that at least they are getting married after graduation, anyway, both sides are reasonable, and I especially think that what you two said is really right, embarrassing. It's hard to say, sometimes I will say that hey, you don't care so much, why don't you get it, but when you really encounter this thing, you will know it.

My girlfriend and I have been away from each other. The two of them are the same age in their twenties. We see each other once or twice a month or so, and we keep in touch almost every day.

From the beginning, I was rushing to get married, and I made it clear that I would get married together. It's been more than five years since they've been together, and of course they're not less quarrelsome, but it's still very sweet overall. Well, Pi is very happy this time.

This year I have a Ph.D. and she works, and I am a few years away from graduation. Okay, the point is that the engagement is. It really makes sense for girls to be anxious about this, and sometimes even the family is more anxious than you.

What we said before is to pull the certificate first, because they are all in other places or go to school and work in other places, and the family doesn't have so much money, so let's buy a house.

I am two years older than my ex-boyfriend, and my family is more anxious and wants us to settle down and talk slowly, at first my ex-boyfriend told me that we would get engaged after the New Year, and after the New Year, he said that he was too anxious and inappropriate, so I mentioned breaking up, in fact, it was not because I was not engaged to break up. It's that I still don't like me enough.

I don't think that a girl is worthless at twenty-five or something, but I just think that if he drags me, it would be better to stop the loss in time. I'm reluctant to part with him now, but when I think of his unwillingness to get engaged, I feel like I can't see the future of the two of them. It's not that I don't have the confidence to be in a long-distance relationship and wait for him, but I just don't feel that there is hope.

I don't think getting engaged means anything, I've seen people who haven't been married for two years after getting engaged, and I've seen people getting married two months after getting engaged, maybe the customs and habits are different in each place, and I don't know the situation on your side.

It's normal, I just feel too small, I'm not married at all, and there is the economic foundation, but the emphasis is on the important factors in the front, but the most important determining factor in the back.

No, in today's society, marriage and falling in love are completely different things, and when two people fall in love to a certain extent, they will naturally enter the palace of marriage. Of course, before getting married, the steps of engagement are also essential, engagement is a very common prenuptial ritual, it exists to tell others that the lover already has a heart, determined for life, and immediately enters the marriage stage. So, how long does it take for a blind date to be engaged?

1. How long after the relationship is confirmed, is it suitable for engagement.

1. Rational thinking People with rational thinking believe that the best time to get married is between six months and one and a half years. Because within three months of the first three months of love, the two of them are like glue, as the so-called lover is out of the eyes, during this time, both parties see basically the advantages of both parties. I take it for granted that I am the best in the world.

After three months of getting along, gradually both parties are no longer so enthusiastic, and can gradually discover some shortcomings of each other in life. After half a year to a year and a half, if the two parties can still be together, then it means that the lives of both parties have gradually integrated together. Therefore, this is the most suitable time to get married.

2. Perceptual thinking People with perceptual thinking think that marriage is one thing, falling in love is one thing, and they can't judge whether the two parties can get married based on the length of time they have been in love. People who have been in love for ten years can be happy when they get married, and people who get married after a month of love can also be happy, so whether to marry or not to marry still depends on both parties.

2. What do you need to prepare for engagement What the man needs to prepare when getting married:

1. Bride price When engagement, the man should give the woman a certain amount of bride money, and the bride price should not be too much when engagement, but it must be an even number, in order to ask for an auspicious one, it also represents the blessing of the newlyweds' engagement.

2. Dowry Dowry is divided into six kinds of gifts, eight kinds of gifts or twelve kinds of gifts, most of which refer to items such as chicken, duck and fish, tobacco, wine and tea, desserts, snacks, dragon and phoenix candles, salutes and other items. The specific dowry to give at the time of engagement depends on local customs. It should be noted that when preparing the dowry, the number of gifts must be even, which has the beautiful meaning of pairs!

3. Clothes and jewelry When engaged, the man needs to give the woman gold and silver jewelry and clothes, which generally include the traditional three gold (gold rings, gold necklaces, gold earrings) or hardware (gold rings, gold necklaces, gold earrings, gold bracelets, gold pendants), etc., of course, they can also be converted into cash for the woman.

4. Matchmaker Ceremony If both men and women are introduced together through a matchmaker, then a matchmaker ceremony should also be prepared. The matchmaker gift is generally to wrap a red envelope, thank the matchmaker for the introduction, so that each other can understand each other, and will work together for a lifetime.

5. Banquet ceremony When engaged, the man needs to go to the woman's home or the hotel booked by the woman to participate in the wedding banquet.

Don't flash marriage! You have to spend a certain amount of time together, because when you are in love, you are all sweet talk, and this is true for both men and women. After getting to know each other well, get married. It's okay to get engaged.

Hello, this kind of life event is a matter of two people, if both parties are very happy with each other, then it is okay.

Don't be in a hurry. You are sure of your relationship with your boyfriend, but you generally know about the other party, especially his family situation, don't blindly get the certificate.