Look for friends who are willing to listen to your heart and don t want to talk to familiar people

Updated on psychology 2024-06-16
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Friend, understand you very well!

    Generally, the boredom and troubles come from real life, and when you spit out, you will inevitably say something a little excessive. Actually, it's not my true wish. If the listener is the familiar, a ticking time bomb will be planted!

    Because even if a familiar person is strict, he will also have times when he is emotionally unstable. Everyone knows that what you say when you are in a bad mood cannot be taken seriously, but once it is passed through the mouth of someone else, the listener does not know the scene of what was said at that time, and it is likely to be taken seriously. Therefore, I can't talk to familiar people about the days of inner depression.

    So, the ideal "listen to your inner friend....I don't want to be familiar with people" must be a "bosom sister" who is good at listening and understanding outside the circle of personal life.

    In fact, you don't have to deliberately go to this "bosom sister", the method of confiding by knowing the question like you are now is very effective. Do you feel that when you type out your depression through text and upload it, you feel a lot more relieved and your chest is less clogged?!

    Friend, it suddenly occurred to me that "knowing to ask questions" is one of the best listeners you are looking for. If you catch me online, I'm definitely one of your specific listeners.

    It's my honor to be able to help you, after all, each of us has had such a painful experience, everyone helps me, I help everyone.

    I wish you a speedy release, a relaxed life, a happy life, and a relaxed and happy mood every day!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    kk2kk66 **The boss has this business.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Finished? What about you now? What do you think?

    Hate Mom and Dad? Jealous of pretty girls? In fact, when your parents are old, if they still remember that to you, they will blame themselves deeply.

    You have to cheer up, live a brave and optimistic life, treat the things around you with a normal heart, and treat the people around you with a tolerant attitude. You'll benefit a lot from it yourself. Come on chick!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Some people choose to write when they need to talk, choose art when they need to talk, and resonate with their inner emotions with the help of literary works, movies, and **.

    All in all, it is a very dignified thing for a person to have a private emotional space and can be self-**.

    But confiding is definitely a normal human need, listening, responding, giving is the greatest care for a soul, is a sign of human rights, everyone is eager to meet the right person to help themselves complete the process of transformation.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Why do I see my former self....My memories of my childhood are still stuck in the picture of my parents beating me hard. There were times when I wanted to run away from home and want to kill myself, but I was very timid, afraid of death, afraid that even if I died, no one would remember me. I'm 23 years old now, and when I can look at things like an adult, I find that life is not as hard as I imagined, and my parents can now giggle and joke with me, and every time I go home, I rush to wash the dishes and clean them, and my parents don't let me do it, and I still live happily every day.

    I also had excellent grades, and I was a student leader during college, and now I have a good job.

    I hope you can talk to your parents independently and don't rebel in a negative way.

    I wish you a happy day!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Like you, I have low self-esteem, troubles, and never talk to others. Our Chinese teacher, she always asks those with good grades, beautiful people, and rich families to do things that we can never do because we don't have the opportunity to ......But don't be discouraged, life is still long, work hard, move forward, and be optimistic. Let's do it together!

    I was very ugly, I used to despair of hope and the future, but after the enlightenment of books and others, I successfully walked out of the shadows, but occasionally I still have some inferiority, you should try to communicate with good friends, tell your heart, of course, look for you who you can trust, if not, you can find me, because none of us know anyone.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In fact. It's the heart.

    It's the uneasiness in your heart. Caring too much about what others think.

    I've also walked past your age. It is an inevitable phenomenon.

    Actually, you don't have that much audience.

    You just have to be yourself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Adolescence is always very sensitive to everything, no matter how bad the environment around you is, how hateful the people around you are, you must learn to love yourself, others don't love you, you must love yourself. After learning to love yourself, you will love others. No one wants to hurt you, and even though your parents speak ill of you, they have given you life after all, don't hate them.

    Plan your future well, you are still very young, and after going through hardships, there will be a rainbow waiting for you. Remember to struggle!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't be like that! The wound of your soul is not a terrible blood, but the power of your own joy. You should think about it, maybe it's for your parents!

    You have to study hard. Don't care about beauty or ugliness, as long as you are beautiful in your heart, you are truly beautiful. Don't run away anymore, face it, it's okay, as long as you don't forget, you still have us behind you, and we have your back.

    A fifth-grader Li Kexin.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Also an unfortunate child.

    Hopefully, you're strong now.

    Move a bench and listen to you.

    Seeing that you are in high school 2, you are almost an adult, and you will be independent immediately. In the past, it could be said that it was caused by parents. The road ahead is still to be walked by yourself.

    I believe you can still be admitted to a good university, you can fall in love, and you can start a family. Unpleasant things, don't always keep them in mind, it won't make you happy, it will only make you miserable, happiness is easy to forget, and pain is unforgettable for a lifetime. Learn to forget.

    Look ahead, let the past pass.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you can't find a topic, learn to listen! It's better to listen to the version and listen to what others are saying if you say something that everyone is not interested in.

    Something! If you listen to the right to listen, you will naturally have what you want to say, and it must be a topic that everyone is interested in! Friendship needs to be watered, but it can't be watered by chatting!

    Genuinely care about your friends, help more when you have problems, think more about your friends, put yourself in your shoes, let them feel your sincerity, even if you don't say anything, you will have a tacit understanding with each other! Sometimes a glance at someone who knows each other is enough! Because we've only lived so many years!

    There are still very few things that we can remember and talk about, so there's no need to worry about not being able to find a topic!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I believe in ideas, and I am willing to listen to the thoughts of others.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    What is half a friend, I want to be a listener.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't really like to talk to people about this.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Isn't half a girlfriend a good girlfriend?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There are some things in my heart, and I would rather tell them to strangers than to find acquaintances.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    What's going on? You can say it, let's help you analyze it, is there a lot of power?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You just need to talk, and you don't want to be swayed by others.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you have a psychological problem that needs a process of relief and release, of course you can't accept what others tell you directly, so try to relax.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think it's because you want to vent. Vent your complaints, and then it will feel very cool. Naturally, the gas is gone.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Me too. Usually I will divert my attention, I have some things, hamsters, goldfish, flowers and plants in the room, when I am unhappy, put some guzheng's **, just look at the pet.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    A person has been alone for a long time and lacks confidence in life.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's not good, it's easy to be autistic. That's trouble! Get out and walk around more

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You are a quiet person with an introverted personality, in fact, you want other people to take the initiative to find you, so that you can feel cared for, but this is not realistic, happiness is always pursued by yourself.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Likes to be lonely and enjoys the feeling of being alone.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's okay to get used to it. Don't be sad about it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Because a person is used to it, he doesn't know what to say to others, and he doesn't bother to talk.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's hurt, hehe, it's nothing, the sunshine is everyone's, and the time is your own.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I guess there is no one I want to find,

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Because there is something else to live by.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    People always need to have time that is completely undisturbed.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    No! It is the new things and new friends that bring out the nature of man.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Because he knows that strangers are not a threat to him, he is afraid that acquaintances will use his trust to do things that hurt him. It's normal that you're stressed out and relaxed.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    No, sometimes I'm just after all, what you talk to a stranger can be relaxed, you can complain, or at least he can comfort you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Because sometimes saying something to a familiar person will get some "preaching", resulting in the heart that wants to seek spiritual support is not comforted. On the contrary, you can talk freely with strangers, and the other person is willing to listen.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Yes, talking to strangers is very casual, saying whatever you want, and talking to familiar people has concerns.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    No, strangers can talk nonsense, humor, and friends are too familiar, only talk about things, and there are not many topics to talk about.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's normal, but it's hard to tell an acquaintance about some annoying things.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    No, there are a lot of people like you.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Girls are generally like this.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Like you, I have bitterness in my heart.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    No, it's all pretty much the same.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Feel safe with strangers?

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Each has its own understanding of it, respect is mutual, relative! Chatting is a fun and enjoyable thing, so it can only be facilitated if both parties have the same topic and are interested in each other.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    In that case, you need to change the subject, which means that she is bored or not interested in your topic.

    It would be better to move to a topic that she prefers.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    This is normal, you can find someone who is willing to listen to you.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Respect is mutual, and it would be better if you thought about others when you chatted!

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