We love each other, but she s getting married

I also encountered a similar problem, I think, why get married, why are you together, it must be a bond of affection, two people without feelings, even if they are materially rich, their hearts are still empty, ask the girl what she really thinks, is she still hesitating between the two of you, or is it already determined that it is you, if it is the latter, I think it is up to the girl to tell her mother, but don't bring you up first, everyone is a woman, and as a mother, they all really want their children to be happy, and it is recommended that you search the Internet There's a show called Rubik's Cube of Happiness, which often talks about the love of young people, and parents stop it, which has very bad consequences, and suggests that your girlfriend pretend to be unconscious and watch this kind of show with the elderly.

Love doesn't have to be together, it's really hard for you to face such a reality when you want to be together! As a man, you can't do it for your own selfishness, think about it, if you snatch her back now, her boyfriend and family who are about to marry her will definitely not be happy, and her mother will also be hit So at present, you can only leave her silently, otherwise what do you want? Reality is not a TV series, there are not too many miracles happening Let's work hard, if she is wronged in the future, she will snatch it back!

Seeing such a thing is the most worrying, love her and let her go, although she doesn't want this family business, but it is the mother who is in charge, the mother is already sick, don't do any more useless struggles, as you said, I hope she is happy, if she is not happy, you can divorce, can you wait for her?

You can see that you are very impulsive when you say this, have you ever wondered if your family will agree, if you don't care, I also believe that you will wait for him.

I wouldn't get married just because I was married, and I wouldn't have a happy marriage, and it would make me unhappy, which would be unfair to either of you.

For me, marriage is a very sacred thing, and you can't marry for the sake of getting married, it would seem meaningless. It is a happy thing for two people to get married when they like each other, so that two people will have a common topic, understand each other, and thus feel the actual value of marriage. The people around them suddenly got married, this is their choice, they can't go with the flow, otherwise they will put themselves in the abyss of misfortune, and they will make themselves depressed.

Getting married because of marriage, so that two people will not be happy, and it will delay each other's time, such a marriage makes there is no hope. Marriage will only be happy if it is based on the same heart, and such two people will inspire mutual trust and respect, otherwise they will only accompany the marriage process, and such a marriage makes people feel very numb. If you don't live with someone you like, every day is torture, and it can also make people feel that life is an unfortunate beginning, and such a marriage hurts two people, or even two families.

Although marriage is a very beautiful thing, but you will be happy with the person you like, and you will get married for the sake of getting married. Marriage should be responsible for each other, not as simple as child's play, only two people are built on love, so as to get a better ending, not two people choose to be together in order to get married. If you get married for the sake of getting married, you will lose each other's happiness and your longing for love, so you won't let people see happiness.

Marriage is when two people come together because of love, not for the sake of marriage, which can lead to a tragedy. In my opinion, you can't get married for the sake of getting married, otherwise it will make the marriage meaningless, and it will also make two people live in an unhappy atmosphere, and in the end they will not get the happiness they want.

By the time you ask this question, your favorite person may no longer be with you, or she may have left you to find someone else. From the perspective of human nature, the easier it is to get, the less it is cherished, so there is what Zhang Ailing said, the white moonlight has become the rice on the cheongsam, and the red rose has become the mosquito blood on the mosquito net. You can like her very much, but you have to show a degree of shaking:

Afford it, put it down. If you show that I love you and I would die without you, then you are more dangerous, because once people have no worries, they will behave very presumptuously.

Let's talk about my experience, my first boyfriend was my high school classmate, of course I didn't be with him in high school, just having a crush on him, it took me three whole years, and I didn't dare to confess to him until college, and then he also found out that I had a crush on him for three years. I'm a face-loving person, and I don't want him to talk about this often, but he often shows off this to others, and makes fun of me, which makes me very unhappy. And he has a very bad temper with me, and often loses his temper with me at every turn.

Later, after another fierce quarrel, he retaliated and had a relationship with another girl, and he was recruited, he became a father, and after getting married, he sometimes gave me a ** hole touch, and his tone was very gentle, but I didn't pay much attention to him, and occasionally only said some irrelevant topics. The main reason why he started to lose his temper with me unscrupulously was because he felt that I loved him and couldn't do without him. I got married and spoke softly because I had lost me, and I regretted it.

Now I am with my husband, he is a very humorous, funny person, he is very good to me, he does all the housework, I go to ** is also to give me a good job in the morning, drive me, or buy a good ticket, I will buy whatever I want to eat, and take it with me. But he never said anything like what I would do if you left me, he said I love you, and I will be sad if you leave me, but I won't beg you. One time we had a fight and I ran out, and I got on the train and immediately remembered how good he was and came back.

Generally speaking, the favorite person is not suitable for being a couple, and the most suitable person is right. People also know how to cherish after experiencing loss, and I wish the subject happiness.

Who knows if they can guarantee to love each other for a lifetime and live together? There will be a lot of things that may be said to be very much in love with each other, and there will be a lot of troubles in life, or what the other party is doing and saying that you don't like.

Hello, I'm an emotional expert "Yuanlai" and I'm glad to have your question. Love is the mutual attachment between two people, mutual admiration, mutual understanding, and the resonance of each other's hearts, true love is not necessarily the perfect match in the eyes of others, but the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other, in order to make each other's lives better and silently dedicated. Since you like each other so much, it may be cruel for you to let you give up.

But he has a family, which is also an indisputable fact, will he give you happiness at the expense of his family? We don't know. Such an assumption may be cruel, but it is also realistic.

If you don't care about the form, only pursue real feelings, then I will say that you like him, and she likes you, and that's enough. I hope to inspire you.

Why do people get married? It's for love.

We live to make ourselves happy and to make those around us happy. We got married to make this love complete and full. Legend has it that women are the lost ribs of men, men and women fight from birth, only half of life, we have been looking for our lover, looking for our own other half.

In the vast sea of people, only when we find our other half can we have a complete life, and we can make life abundant and happy. So we keep searching, bravely fall in love, wrong, hurt, and then despair, lost, because we have not found our true love, because true love is hard to find. In this life, you may meet several lovers, or you may have only one.

You may be with your lover forever until the day you die of old age; It may also be that happiness is like a flash in the pan, happiness or sorrow, both love and marriage.

In fact, many people misunderstand the true meaning of marriage, especially some young ignorant teenagers Marriage should be the ultimate testimony of true love, it is sacred and solemn, some people may mistakenly think that marriage is a kind of shackles, which can tie two people together, or some people think that there is a home Although marriage is essentially just a formality, it must have a very profound meaning

Either way, it should come naturally, regardless of the reason. Let everything that should happen happen, and follow the trend, without force or deliberateness.

I like this sentence very much: Let's get married, I'm idle anyway, it's really boring to fight, so as not to be lonely.

May you be happy!

Life is always more dramatic than a TV series and overwhelms us.

From your description, I can feel that your patience and tolerance stem from your love for your current boyfriend. Because you love Him, you can tolerate those "blemishes".

What happened half a year ago is where you are, and although things happen that cannot be changed, sometimes you have to learn to let go. These recent events have made you feel a sense of crisis in your relationship. But this time it's just your suspicions.

You see, guessing often hurts yourself and your loved ones.

If your suspicions are true, only time will tell. Whether your boyfriend loves you or not, only your boyfriend knows and you can feel it. Manage your current relationship well, others don't matter, what matters is your own feelings!

You're not honest enough, you're not sharp enough to communicate with him. Unless a man has a deep exchange of feelings and thoughts with his other half, or a tacit understanding, he will reveal his heart normally. Otherwise, if you force him, or if you don't communicate straight to the point, he won't say it.

Love is love, although he cares, but whether he can be completely trusted, whether he can accept or bear his heart, it is difficult to say.

The boy cried in front of the girl, that was really moving, and it was really moving! As for the fact that I can't break off with that woman, I should have left something in that woman! If you have time, I suggest you open up and talk about ......

This is a matter of principle. If you can't accept that your man can't fight for you, you should leave him.

How tired, why bother. I am looking for a quilt.

If you are like him, hesitate and hope that the day of sin is yet to come.

Someone has to make the decision, otherwise we will be unlucky.

Think about it! Getting married is a big deal! Divorce is a bigger thing than the sky!

Many people have graduated from college for two years, and their classmates have begun to slowly take turns to enter the marriage hall. Many people will be distressed at this time, and they will have to pay a lot of money, and many people will begin to worry about their partners, because their parents will start urging, and relatives will start to introduce you to the object.

At this age, you may have a slight improvement in your work, and you may also start to feel that you can talk to someone and get ready to get married.

I'm no exception, in the past six months, there are about 20 friends who got married, and some of them have had a particularly good time. I also began to itch when I saw the happiness and joy of their marriage, but I began to retreat when I saw the difficulty of the wedding process.

I often discuss marriage with my roommates, but every time I say, "Oh, there is no partner, what to talk about getting married, let's find a partner first".

That's right. When the people around you get married, it will affect your thoughts, at least you will feel that you have indeed reached a marriageable age, and you will feel that it is time to find a partner.

Are we really married because we love someone? Or is it because of loneliness and loneliness, or is it to achieve some kind of goal If you meet your own love Then marriage is a natural thing What if you can't meet it? Is it just for the sake of age, for the anxious life of parents, and a person who I don't like very much, let alone love someone?

Don't you think you're going to ruin the happiness of the rest of your life? But there are people around me who deceive themselves in order to escape this loneliness and singleness and not disobey their parents, and I really feel sad, and maybe I will join this team of pathos

As I grow older, my mentality is slowly maturing, and the people around me are starting to get busy getting married. See what will happen to you, although your current life is very calm, but I still think about her in my heart, I will still think about her at some point, and I will think about her like a wave at some point, as long as I give my feelings seriously, no one will let go of this relationship, even if it is only a one-day relationship, but I have to think of some time, the tide will quickly recede, and suddenly I feel that we were once so warm together, and I will break up when I say that I will break up, and I don't regret it at all. It was destined to be so, What can I do, I have to silently bless her, find a good person and get married, but I still think of her from time to time and deceive myself