I only have 4 friends. Isn t it very little?

That's a lot! Some people think that the more friends the better, and the more the better. In fact, it may be a burden to have more friends, and you should be cautious when making friends, not too much!

Not really. You said it too. They are all friends you believe in.

There are actually 4 of them.

My friends have a bunch of them. All the people I know are my friends.

But I believe that there are only two.

No. I've only identified two so far.

Because the high school ones are not sure.

A girl is a good friend in college.

The guy is my colleague.

That's a lot. Like a bunch of friends like me, what's so good?

What do you think? You're going to help out with some of their big things, aren't you?

Certainly not less. It's rare to get a confidant in life. And you have four.

No, I don't have any either. After graduating from school, I didn't even contact the only one.

Friends can't be measured by how much important is the status of each friend in your heart.

And the wonderful they give you in your life.

There are not many friends.

But you have to make true friends.

I only have 1. I think that's enough.

What friends care about is the heart, not only this person who has stepped into society? When you step into society, you will feel that it is really difficult to find a friend to talk to.

If it's a true friend, that's too much.

Better than me. I didn't have one.

Not much, but if the friend is sincere, that's enough.

Professor Robin Dunbar, director of the School of Cognitive and Evolutionary Anthropology at the University of Oxford and author of How Many Friends One Needs Friends, believes that the maximum number of people who can realistically have a personal relationship with us is 150, and this will also include relatives and nodding friends, and when it comes to close friends, most people only have five, a figure evidenced by the old Portuguese proverb: you only have 5 real friends, the rest are just landscapes.

Despite the popularity of competing 'friends' in personal social networks, most of the communication still takes place within a small core of members. It's not that we're socializing less, it's just that we're keeping our deepest secrets to a few close friends.

How to make friends:

1.looks are not annoying, if you don't look good, let yourself be talented; If you don't have talent, then always smile.

2.Temperament is key. If you don't learn fashion well, you'd rather be simple.

3.When shaking hands, you can shake them a little longer. Sincerity is a treasure.

4.You don't have to use "I" as the subject of everything.

5.Don't borrow money from friends.

6.Don't "force" guests to look at your family photo album.

7.When you say "yes" to someone, please sit next to the driver first.

It's not much, if these four are confidants, it is enough to stick a knife in your ribs

Hello, there are not many friends, the key is that the quality of these four friends is the most important, there are more friends, and the road is easy to walk.

If you talk about friends who play better, that is, bosom friends, 4 is enough, but ordinary friends, 4 is relatively few.

Not all three people's friendships will necessarily have one person who is superfluous, it depends on the relationship between each person and how they interact. If each skindigger can participate in communication and interaction in a playful way, and have common topics and interests with each other, then a strong friendship can be built.

However, in some cases, there may be situations where someone is excluded and ignored, causing the person to feel isolated and helpless. In this case, he or she may feel redundant in this friendship circle, but in reality, it is not because of his or her own problems, but because the way the entire friendship circle interacts is not perfect and robust.

Therefore, building a healthy circle of friendship requires all members to work together, including respect, care, understanding and support for each other. Only when everyone is actively engaged in the friendship can the friendship of the three people become stable and pleasant.

Have you ever considered the reason for not having friends? I think there are probably the following:

1. Personality and temper are not easy to get along with.

2. Close yourself off and don't give others a chance to approach.

If you don't have friends because of your bad temper, then is it because we close ourselves off and make others feel that you are a cold and difficult person to get along with?

There is such a pair of laws in the mind: the law of ** and the law of anti**.

The anti-** rule refers to: hope that others will do to you the way you want them to be. Many people will have this idea, but this idea is actually wrong, because your idea can only be yours, not the standard by which you measure others.

The rule is to treat others the way you would like them to be treated. When you think about it, do you feel like you can understand why you feel like you don't have friends?

You want others to take the initiative to find you, but maybe the other party thinks you are too cold, and you will be rejected if you take the initiative to find you, and they don't know how much you actually want to find you, so you can try to take the initiative, take the initiative to ask your classmates, colleagues, friends, I believe that the kind people in the world are still the majority, no one will have malicious intentions towards you for no reason, since you have opened this problem, I believe that you want to change, so why not give it a try, it is difficult for us to change others, but we can change ourselves.

If you have a bad temper, then try to put yourself in someone else's shoes and think, we have to learn to be self-aware, instead of always feeling that we are right, interpersonal communication is not as difficult as we think, want to know how your interpersonal skills are? You can pay attention to the psychological note*** Reply to "Interpersonal" to participate in the test

Everyone is an individual, and no one else can live well.

I don't have a friend But it doesn't matter if the personality is like this Some people are suitable for making friends Some people are not suitable For example, my brother and my brother made friends not to mention the same It's almost the same On the other hand, the friends I made in my early years all care about me borrowing money and don't pay it back after borrowing My money is also a special hard-earned money I'm so sad and urging me... So now I've summed it up, I'm not suitable for making friends, because I can't see the good people, and the reason for this is maybe I'm too rational to suppress my emotional instincts, so I can't judge a person by feeling, and I have to observe for a long time to grasp it, but this will suffer a lot of losses, and it's very tiring, I can't help it, hehe, I don't have friends now, I think it's quite easy.

Why don't you try to find common ground? Don't wait for someone to come to you, be proactive and you'll make a good impression. Definitely.

Others don't have a lot of friends, so I don't have money to see that day, and I still have friends, so don't be too envious of others.

Take your time, get to know each other better, be more cheerful, and make more friends.

How can it be, everyone will have friends, it depends on whether you accept it or not.

Do you have a boyfriend or girlfriend? I only have one girlfriend