What should I do Choose or abandon my friends

After reading it carefully, that friend of yours is very much like a friend of mine in college, you and I are the same, I always feel that friends can say anything, a very typical example; A friend of mine (another) high school classmate had a good relationship and found a girlfriend who asked me to rate it, and to be honest I didn't think they were suitable, and that girl was a little too impetuous, but I said it was, you're okay. Later, I told my other classmates about this, and my classmates said that if you are a good friend, you should give him your most primitive evaluation, good is good, bad is bad, and what friends are is that you can trust each other and help each other. Later, I met him and told the guy who had a girlfriend.

Of course, it's up to him whether it's good or not, at least I should express my original thoughts.

I think the most important thing for friends is to talk to each other and find out each other's shortcomings. As for your friend, I don't think you can force it, his character and yours are too sharp. You have to learn to tolerate him if you continue to associate with him, otherwise it is simply impossible.

He will never tolerate you. The key is still you, you feel that if you tolerate him, he will continue, and if you feel that you can't do it yourself, don't force it too much.

My friend who doesn't look up much with your friends is like that. I'm just very tolerant of him, and he sometimes tells me that he thinks you're so tolerant. What does this mean, it shows that he also feels that he has gone too far.

You don't have many friends, just get to know you. You only have friends in this life, and it is good to be friends in thousands of worlds, not to mention that you have been together since childhood, so cherish your friendship.

Finally finished reading hehe, I ask you a question about the little things in life

If one day when you're drinking tea, you accidentally spill it, do you think it's because of the water poured too much or because the cup is too small, hehe

No one has a crazy nature. It's just that someone is exposed.

Friends, let it be, don't overthink it now. After a while, everyone calmed down and faced it again.

It's too long, I haven't finished reading it, and it looks like you haven't sorted out the relationship between you yet.

Personalities are incompatible, you can be friends but not too close

A suggestion for you, I'm just like you. But at that time, no one lowered his face to apologize, and when I met a new friend, he slowly withdrew from my heart, only occasionally wondering if he was doing now? This kind of thing should be cherished, but it is not necessary to force it.

When you're in danger, who can step up?

Who shares it for you when you're in trouble?

When you fall out of love, who will comfort you and drink this bitter wine with you?

When you're depressed, who can sit with you on the railing of the playground and listen to you?

Answer: Friends. Answer: Friends.

A: Still friends.

Answer: Friends, friends, and friends.

However, when you jump out of the encirclement of danger, when you are freed from difficulties, when your girlfriend reunites with you, when your mood suddenly brightens. Who would you like to thank the most?

A: Not friends!

Why? Because when you get a new happiness, you have long forgotten the existence of friends.

How do you behave when a friend wants to talk to you?

Answer: **Shutdown, no answer, forgot, no time, ignore it.

Promises to friends are like a piece of waste paper rendered by the dye of time, left behind without care.

Since it's all like this, do you think this friend is still valuable and meaningful?

Someone occupies the most important place in her heart, and that person is not you.

Because of values. I'm actually quite good at making friends with others.,I'm gentle with my friends.,I never make it difficult for my friends to do anything.,And I'm not the kind of person who is very pretentious.,Very clingy.,Maybe it's because I'm like this.,So most of my best friends are like this.。 There is only one person, and I gave up on him because his personality is too incompatible with mine, and our values are not at all different, or even contrary.

He's a more active person, maybe because he's a boy, and I'm a more passive person, so it's actually better to be friends. But every time we talked about something important, we couldn't talk to each other. As they spoke, the two of them were talking as if they were angry.

I remember the last time he called me, first of all, the chat was fine, and then he told me that he must treat me as a friend, and I also want to contact him, and I will take more care of him in the future. I understand what he said, maybe I'm still studying and don't understand this kind of human sophistication. As for him, he has entered the society and may have seen a lot of this kind of thing, but what I find it a little difficult to accept is that our friendship is utilitarian, so I am particularly repulsed in my heart.

I think the friendship is really looking at each other, don't have to hide yourself because of your temper, get used to these things, you can be true and sincere in front of your friends, because we know that the road ahead is long, and there is nothing to support each other, but because of how much you have achieved to see you, what kind of friend is it? Will he help you when you are in trouble? I don't know, I don't like it anyway.

So I gave up on my friend.

I decided to give up a friend because of my personality and character, and I think that if I don't have trust in each other, I will make me give up this friendship. Let's talk about the first friend I gave up, in fact, we gave up each other, because both of them have no feelings, and after a long time, they will only quarrel all the time, and finally they can't stand each other, so they give up, I have known her for a long time, and the relationship has been good, but the worst thing about her is that she has a bad personality, her temper is too bad, and I can tolerate her bad temper at the beginning, but after a long time, I will feel very annoyed, and I will not have the good temper I used to have, she wants to play with me and I will accompany her to the end, I will also be angry, I will also put my bad temper, so in the end we choose to give up this friendship because of the incompatibility of personality and three views, I believe that I have a lot of responsibility for the end of this friendship, but after a long time I don't want to suffer any more grievances, I don't want to settle in the future.

Another friendship I gave up was because my friend's character was not good, character is the most important embodiment of a person, but we all know her character, too bad, too bragging, too good face, she lives very tired every day, she is busy cheating, busy lying, and we will become like her when we are with her, so in the end, I can't stand her like this, so I decided to give up such a friend. In the past, I also had reluctance because I didn't have many friends, and I didn't like to make friends very much, so it was inevitable that there would be some loss, but when you really gave up, you would suddenly feel very relaxed, there were no worries, and you would become happy.

Because of a common hobby. If I don't have a common interest, I'm going to find this person boring. If I lose the desire to communicate, I will feel that it is easy to communicate with him.

There is no little bit of language that can bring each other closer, or we feel much better away from each other. If he has some hobbies that I feel uncomfortable with, I'll stop them, like gambling. If his life is affected by these bad hobbies, I will warn him and try to stay away from him at the same time.

Because of the attitude towards people and things. Many friends have seen too much of the hearty martial arts **, and think that the two friends stick knives in the ribs and take care of each other. But some friends seem to be passive, and they will only reach out and not hold hands.

These two kinds of friends can better understand what a real friend is. So, what we want to see is my attitude towards him, just as he treats me. I hope for a good present and a friend who can help you.

If he only shares with you when you're happy and turns around when you're sad, then I've decided to give up.

Because of the quality of itself. It is not only a conscious public performance, but also a manifestation of some treatment of family and relatives. In my opinion, if you tear your face with your family for no reason, it's not worth associating.

People who get along day and night, he can easily give up and abuse, and he doesn't want such a friend. If you treat your elders arrogantly and rudely, and treat others vulgarly, it is a sign of immaturity, and I hope that my friends have a normal outlook. To know how to be grateful to relatives and care for others, such a person is good to the inside and must be good to the outside.

I used to have a friend with me, but then we gradually stopped communicating! This friend of mine, is very good at dealing with the world, he likes to make friends like to find rich, powerful and personality is very obedient to him, when he communicates with me, he always says that his friend is in **, and tells him how to entertain him, and then he begins to say how I can't do it, saying let me learn more from others, I am thinking about who to love at this time, what hinders me.

What I can't stand the most is his worldly actions, there is a transfer classmate in our class, this classmate is a little lacking in fire, as soon as he arrives in the class, he begins to brag about his family, and he has just come to deal with his classmates are more generous, and the next day my friend chatted with this new classmate, and then he took this new classmate with him, and he was very good to this transferred classmate for a while, and then this transferred classmate often gave him things, and I felt that this was his real purpose.

For this friend in the past, I hate that he values interests more than anything else, which is really a good life in society, but I really can't see it.

You're still young, and that's growing pains.

Clause. 1. There's nothing wrong with your friends. Make friends, the range can be wider, and multiple friends are happier. It's not about falling in love, two people have to stick together.

You should reflect on yourself, whether you care too much about him, this is not good. In the future, I will go to university and work, and sooner or later I will have to separate. You can only be good to him, but you can't expect him to be the only one for you.

Clause. Second, you should try to change your personality and living habits in addition to studying, be more cheerful, make more friends, and slowly open the window of social interaction. You will find more confidants.

In short, don't worry about it, you can't do it. You shouldn't even consider breaking up with him, there's nothing wrong with him.

There is a saying that you can know each other, but you can't have deep friendships.

Do you know what that means?

It's okay to say hello when you meet in the future, and you don't have to make deep friends.

Some things still need you to muster up the courage to let go when you should let go, and it is true that the relationship between the three years of high school makes it difficult for you to let go. But this has been going on for so long, and there are some things that you understand but don't want to face yet. University is a vast world, I hope you are not limited to a small space, there are many friends, all waiting for you to discover.

May you have the courage to face it, and the future is perfect.

You're not his only one, and he's not your only one, so there's no need to dwell on it.

There are two ways, the first is to ask him frankly, get the topic out of the way, and see how he answers and thinks about continuing your friendship. The second is to try to be friends with those two people, take the initiative to ask them to play, eat, etc., and if you want to continue the friendship, don't be passive.

Find some friends yourself, but if you can't live, just revolve around him.