80 points for relationship problems, 80 points for relationship problems plus 20 points

I haven't read your question before, but I still have a rough idea of what you're writing now.

Friend, one thing I admit is that people may be right-headed when they comment on other people's things, but when they do get involved in it, it's a mess. Regarding whether your girlfriend is someone to cherish, not for those of us who are watching from the side, there is a very good saying: some people can't say that it's good, but it just can't be replaced.

Friend, no one can make decisions for your feelings, because no one is in love. Our advice is for reference only, and the decision is yours.

It's hard to come up with a clear definition of what you think about love, isn't it? The definition of love, the definition drawn in love is inevitably frivolous, and the definition drawn after not loving is inevitably mean. And once you have these states of mind, there will be different ways of acting, there will be different feelings, there will be different ways of loving. Best wishes!

Hehe, it seems that you have made your own decision, why bother asking people?? No matter who gives the opinion, it is just a suggestion, after all, everyone's way of thinking is different. Many people give similar methods, of course, it may be vulgar or objective, and the trade-off is still in your own attitude.

Some of your views are a bit extreme from your paragraph, maybe you were a little angry when you wrote it.

The road is ahead, how to go is up to you, as long as you don't regret it in the future, everything is a big road.

Go the way you want to go and don't care about others, hehe.

1.If you feel that your studies are more important, it is best not to talk about ,!!

Because there is always 1 day, you will fall into a deep depression and probably can't extricate yourself, and if you really like him and feel that your studies are also important, then you can only choose 1 of them

2.Ask or test if he really likes you, if he still has feelings for the one he just broke up, then it's not easy to pull, haven't you tried him!?Why did you say yes at that time?

You should find out if he still likes the one he just scored.??

If he only likes you 1, it's easy to solve, go straight to the woman's conversation...

Tell her not to pester your boyfriend, it's better to make it as clear as possible. Understood

3.It's not holding hands, it's nothing, don't think too much, because you have to try to be considerate of him...

He also has personal thoughts. Nothing surprising about it.!

If he often doesn't hold your hand, it's strange, you have to try to ask, ask the reason, and your heart will naturally be more comfortable, as for the Lord not to take the initiative, I think it's necessary Oh, hehe, maybe he's embarrassed at first, so you take the initiative, it's nothing.!

However, don't do it too often, so you don't have your own personality to pull, unlike girls to pull, because most of them are boys who take the initiative, so girls are too frequent and not like girls 4Can it be in 1, it can only rely on fate and feelings, if there is fate, it will naturally be in the same 1 school. ,Feelings,It's also ruthless.,Even if you're in 1 now.,Maybe after a while.,The relationship can't stand the test of time.,It's going to be ruthless.,Understand!?

Because everything changes over time, and so do feelings...

Well, anyway. You all have to be happy.

Bless you all. +y, Hexi,

It's okay to make friends! But don't have sex so early!

A1: There will definitely be an impact. Of course, there are very few positive effects.

A2: I have two questions that I don't understand, and I think that's what you need to figure out first:

1. How did he get with his current girlfriend? Because he only liked his ex-girlfriend and didn't like you at the time? Liked both, but didn't know how you felt about him at the time, and knew that his ex-girlfriend liked him too?

2. Why did he break up with his ex-girlfriend? Because he doesn't like his ex-girlfriend anymore and only likes you? Like both, just like you more?

A3: It depends on your personality.

Middle School - > High School 2 pairs are still together but break up in high school.

High School - > College 0 pairs are still together.

University - > Present (I graduated in July 2007) 1 couple is still together and married.

Children, you can't listen to what you say, so let's save it and let you continue to Plato It's a good memory when you grow up.

Try to make friends, whether there is fate or not, we will talk about it later. If they really like you, they will respect your decision.

Leave her alone, she is invincible if she is thick-skinned.

q1.Not now, and not anymore.

q2.Should.

q3.I think we should take the initiative, but I'm probably embarrassed.

q4.I don't know that, but I bless you.

You're still young and focused on your studies.

Now you and he are not capable of taking this responsibility. You can hide your love for him in your heart, and let it be decided later.

Children don't study well and engage in what objects.

Read well, get into a good university, make money, and then love will come.

Q1: Falling in love itself will affect learning. Maybe slight, but definitely impactful, if you go too deep, then the impact is great.

Q3: Because the boy is also shy and not very old, he may care about not letting the public gossip. It is a shy type. Girls should not be too proactive. Otherwise, boys will look down on you.

Q4: As long as the relationship is good, not to mention high school, college can be !!

Occasionally, take the initiative to hold hands.

His former girlfriend left her alone, after all, now he likes you, have confidence in yourself, since it is for you, it means that you have a big advantage

If you divide your time well and arrange time to study when it's time to study, it won't have much impact on your studies.

When junior high school is still young, it is still a hazy love, and when you grow up, you will feel that many of your ideas when you were a child are very naïve.

He didn't dare to hold your hand in front of everyone because he was afraid that people would talk about him, after all, he broke up because of you

Don't think about it, studying hard and aspiring to be admitted to a good high school together is the most practical and the best.

It's better to start a relationship again, you can do both, although this is a little bit not good, but, anyway, you rarely contact, you still talk to others at the same time, then there is a choice, and I won't regret it when the time comes, don't hang yourself on a tree, don't contact and say I love you, I see his girlfriend's request is "female, alive", don't be inferior, as long as you look for it, you can definitely find a good one, don't choose blindly, it's like buying clothes, you need a good clothes very much, But there is a family that says that he will do one, and if you believe it, you will lose money, but the consequences of marrying the wrong man are much more serious than this. So, you still choose at the same time, don't be deceived by others' words, come on!

Some of your ideas are good and sensible.

But it's not advisable for you to say that you hesitate because of some words.

When a person says they love another person, the attitude will be sincere, especially those who say sweet words.

It is especially moving.

Love can't be too defensive, and beauty can't be produced by mutual understanding, and the boy's words also have some truth.

These are just two points of view.

The most important thing is that you say that you are not in good spirits, and you obviously feel very tired about the relationship, and tiredness is the worst message. Because love is beautiful, love is pleasant, love is light, and love should not be stressful.

You are only 24 years old, there is no need to grieve your feelings and marriage because of your age.

If you agree that you don't need to get married and get married, you don't have the right to choose your origin, but you have the right to choose the direction you want to go. Decide for yourself, what you think and do what you don't have to look at others.

Marriage is not playing cards, and reshuffling the cards requires too much to pay. There is no need to marry for the sake of getting married. Be concise and to the point, I hope you understand.

It seems that he doesn't really love you either, don't think about it, there are more men, there will be people who are better than him.

Do you love him? Don't hesitate to love him.

If he's sincere with you, don't think too much about the rest.

People's hearts are the most important thing.

The post-80s and post-90s generations are tragedies in modern society.

It's tangled everywhere! Sad! It's not about worrying about things at home!

It's just worrying about work

Let me tell you from my own experience, if you want to talk, it's best to talk about it, and if you are depressed, it will affect your learning in the end! Emotional problems are solved early!

She is right, your current grade, even if you are together, you can't do anything, but it will delay your studies. Since they both like each other, it's better to agree to be together after the college entrance examination. If you think about it this way, you should at least strive for a university in the same place, and this can be regarded as a motivation to increase your learning.

Whether she really loves you or not, you won't find out until after the exam. Now you can believe that she also loves you and works together for a better future.

--You should study hard, because your IQ is really not complimentary, she said If it weren't for the special period (referring to the college entrance examination I am now in my second year of high school with her), she would definitely agree to you... You're still here to ask...

This"She accepted me for fear of delaying my studies"It's generally a pretext for the second half of the 3rd semester of high school.,It's not applicable to you in 2 years of high school.。。。 Thinking too much ...

Let's go up every day, and strive to be admitted to the same university as her, which is the king...

Ask a psychologist for a love quiz.

Waiting is your only reason.

But I want to tell you that give her a perfect memory before you wait.

You're choosing to wait

That year, I didn't do well in the college entrance examination.

Because my heart was already messed up before the exam.

At that time, my girlfriend also broke up with me some time before the college entrance examination for my studies, so I was a little sad.

It turned out to be smashed. It's okay to keep a good friendship.

If you go to take the college entrance examination and one is better and the other is not ideal, how likely do you think you are to be together?

For tomorrow, be sensible today.

Don't worry.

Trust her. If she says she loves you and will promise you later, then you wait.

Don't get upset.

Because she loves you.

Wishing you happiness! ～

She wants you to have a good future so that you can be together for a long time, if he is admitted but you don't because you miss him.

So how long can you stay together.

She is a very rational and sensible person, she is very realistic.

In fact, you can work together and set a common goal for yourself. Then there is a common goal, encouraging and supporting each other. In the future, you will be proud of the foreshadowing now!

You should respect her meaning and advance and retreat with her!

It's hard to say!! It's hard to see if you like it or not, the main thing is that we don't know you, only you know it in your own heart, it's best to ask your friends!

Not necessarily.

Probably afraid of delaying you and herself.

It could also be a tactful refusal.

She loves you sensibly, which is rare.

What you have to do: 1. Steal the fun.

3. If you have a good future (you can also be admitted to university), talk to her about it again.

I can only say, bear with me, everything will be free after the college entrance examination!

She's doing the right thing, and if you think about it, she's doing it for your good。。

Then you will understand, why are you in such a hurry, and you are confessing to her after the college entrance examination.

There's no reason for her to turn you down.

can only say that if this girl becomes your girlfriend, you are really happy to die, because she is different from the girls who are messing around in high school now, she knows what it means to love someone, she thinks far (because girls of the same age are precocious than boys), she knows that if you are not admitted to college, you will be nothing in the future, at least your life will not be very smooth, so she told you this.

I suggest that you listen to her, you both study hard, you can take care of each other in your studies, and make progress together.

After your college entrance examination, you chase her fiercely, I'm sure once she becomes your girlfriend, as long as you are always good to her, don't lie to her, don't betray her, she won't change her mind.

I can only describe this kind of girl in 5 words - very good, very motivated.

...... like meThis shows that she loves you very much. It's a pity that I failed her.

Silly kid ......Do you have a future? Can you go to the same university? Can you bear the loneliness of being separated? You can? Can she?! Silly children, studying, earning money, women ......

After reading what you wrote, as a psychology teacher, my intuition tells me that you still haven't forgotten her, you are too good to her, she won't take you seriously, girls are like this, they will think if love doesn't come, but once they get it, they will look down on all this, I feel that she still has you in her heart, but young man, forget her, there is no grass at the end of the world, since she doesn't know how to cherish, then why do you have to force it?

Listen to me, don't be friends, it's not good for you, let it all come to an abrupt end.

How do you say it, I feel a little bit after reading this, literally, on the surface, you can't possibly She also has a crush, and there is no hope.

But maybe that's what you hope for, and if you really don't want to give up, someday, I think she'll accept you, but maybe you'll pay a lot for it, be sad for her, be sentimental for her, and be sentimental a lot.

I wish you all the best when you come together and be happy!