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This sister, I have taken a serious look at your question, I think this is a normal phenomenon that all women have.
But I'm very willing to communicate with you, and it can be seen from your text that you really love your boyfriend.
This kind of love, are you a little afraid of losing, because your boyfriend has an ex-wife and son, from a certain point of view.
It's a bit of a selfish gesture, but I don't think so, because it's just a normal phenomenon that stems from a woman's love for the other person, plus a little sensitive thoughts.
As you said, he doesn't like to talk about the past, does he? In this way, the question comes, is every time you ask him.
When you tone your tone, are you asking the right time? Men, especially those who want to be like this, divorced men, must have had unspeakable pain in his heart.
At this time, you, as his new partner, should play the role of one who can make him come back and make him happy.
Role. This requires you to understand him enough.
Sitting here, it could also be his problem, maybe he really doesn't want to mention the past...
Is it, isn't it, you're curious, curious to know?
It doesn't matter, at the beginning, as long as you still follow his will and believe in him, because love requires mutual trust!
You have to show him that you trust him, so that as long as you are in a harmonious environment, his heart will be open.
has been opened invisibly, even if you don't ask him in the future, what is wrong with him, what is going on with him.
will take the initiative to tell you, which requires mutual trust between you.
Also, even if he's older, it doesn't matter. This is what you need is not allowed by Ku Yao, provided that he is.
I still love you.
As long as he loves you, then employment doesn't matter, does it?
Sister, don't doubt anything. If you are always suspicious, you will only hurt each other in the end.
This is, you have to be the one who takes the initiative, as long as you become more tolerant than before, and care more about him than before.
This is a sense of surprise that he will definitely have, and this surprise will also become a kind of touch, a kind of love.
Well, that's all I can say, I really hope you can get better soon, I hope you get better.
Old!!! Bless you, I should be younger than you, if you say something inappropriate, please look at Haihan.
Finally, I wish the world's lovers to become married!
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You care a lot about his performance, but after all, he has experienced a failed relationship, which is a wound that he can never say in his heart.
You're not wrong, it's just that you should be more considerate of his feelings. Because he has gone through a failed marriage, his heart is very fragile, and he must hope to find someone who understands him. If you blindly ask about his past, maybe you don't have any malicious intentions, you just want to know more, but he will be afraid that you will be angry and deliberately hide it, and when you know the truth, aren't you even more angry?
Moreover, he will also think that you are an eventful woman. So, when you talk to him, you should avoid topics about his past.
He's not wrong, it's just that he doesn't want you to have unnecessary misunderstandings because of his past, he's afraid of losing you, and he just wants to live a simple life with you. Those are his pains about the past, and he only cares about your future and does not want to talk about his past. When you ask him this, you are rubbing salt in his wounds.
A woman, that is, someone who understands, cares, and is considerate of him, it is enough to do this.
I hope you can be happy
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I just want to say that there must have been a reason for their divorce in the past, that is, he was injured, and I don't want to say anything else, I just want to tell you, he doesn't want you to ask, don't ask, and if you ask too much, your relationship will also have cracks, if my girlfriend asks my former girlfriend, I also have an inexplicable fire in my heart, so I advise you to keep your curiosity.
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I don't think that's necessarily the case, I can only say that every man deals with it differently, right, you ask like this, maybe he misunderstood, he thinks you are not at ease with him, I think it is very important for two people to communicate.
It's impossible to forget the past, but who doesn't have a past, what we pursue should be the present and the future.
If you can't communicate, then this kind of relationship is too tiring, and it is better not to
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I looked a little bit and I was underage.
But I think a man shouldn't be so impatient if he loves you.
A man, who doesn't live like a girl, wants this kind of person to do.
If you love someone deeply, you should care for and protect her, you are right, even if a man dislikes it, he should not show it.
I wish you a happy Mid-Autumn Festival.
Hey. Women should also live freely, and they can be whatever they are, so that they can be happy. Don't let a love ruin the original happiness.
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All deep feelings have memories, and trying to forget them is unrealistic. The only thing I can let go of is another way of living. So, what matters is how you live, not how you used to. He didn't ask about your past, so why bother with it.
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Of course yes, since she chose you, she has to forget the past, you are so difficult for him, of course you are angry, everyone is different, all the choices lie in your heart, can you accept this fact.
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Find a time to talk to him, and if he's just going to avoid it, you should really think about whether he's worthy of your love.
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Do you have an eraser? Can you erase his past? To love him is to accommodate him? Seeing that you are so tired, it's time to break up.
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