Falling in love with a good friend? What to do if you like a good friend

Updated on society 2024-06-18
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Since it's a good friend, it won't be ignored just because of a word, she's embarrassed because she has something in her heart, when you're alone, you can just say something to test it, if you really believe that you have a good relationship, it's okay to be direct, men should be brave, this step must be taken and not afraid!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hahahahahaha, you don't understand this, she likes you too, she is cold to you when she is in love.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think she may have noticed that you like her, isn't it, and you also said "it feels like she will be embarrassed when she is with you", which shows that she already knows that you have love for her, in fact, it is better for you to maintain a good friend relationship first, and then show her your heart when you graduate from college. Or one day when it's okay, you tell her in a joking tone, "What if I like you, will you be angry?" If you see that she is a little upset, you immediately laugh and say, "I'm scared of you, I don't think she will ignore you, if she doesn't look angry or blush, it means that she likes you too, then you have time to ask her out to talk to the two of you alone."

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Don't say anything, just let it be.

    Basically, there is no pure friendship between men and women.

    This kind of "good friend" must also be warm, it is nothing more than a matter of you speaking first and she speaking first.

    You know her, you know what to do.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    1.Confirm how you feel. The first thing to do is to determine if you really have romantic feelings for this good friend, or if you are just temporarily crush or dependent. If it's true feeling, it's worth taking the next step.

    2.Consider the risks of confession. Pursuing good friends is bound to be risky and can take a toll on friendships. Weigh your feelings and friendships and see which is more important. If you decide to confess, you must also be prepared to be rejected.

    3.Test your best friend's reactions. There are a few ways to test how your best friend feels about you. For example, expressing stronger concern and observing the other person's reaction; Or ask some ambiguous questions directly before Wu Xin to elicit the other party's true thoughts.

    4.Choose the right time to confess. If you feel that your best friend may also have feelings for you, then you should choose an appropriate time to confess. Be sure to be face-to-face, speak honestly, and express yourself clearly.

    5.Have a mature attitude. No matter what your best friend's reply is, you have to have a mature attitude to face it. If rejected, don't 292 affect friendship; If accepted, handle the change in the relationship between the two people properly.

    6.Accept the results and move on. After the confession, learn to accept your best friend's choice and move on. Whatever the outcome, life goes on, you need to maintain your emotions, rebuild your self-confidence, and start a new relationship or friendship.

    Therefore, if you like a good friend, you should think carefully, determine your feelings, test your reactions, choose your timing, express yourself clearly, and have a mature attitude to face various results, accept and continue to look forward. Time dilutes everything, and it's important to get out of it and move on with life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This problem should be solved in this way.

    First of all, confirm that he is the person you are waiting for? Secondly, think about if you like him, will he like you? Finally, how do you speak, or not? I think this is not just my thoughts, many girls have these confusions.

    He was my high school classmate, and I talked to someone in junior high school, but it happened to be the graduation season, which is what everyone calls the breakup season, because high school was not assigned to the same school, and it was quite ridiculous, and I broke up in a daze, and I still haven't figured out the real reason. Until now that I'm a sophomore, I've never been in love, and my classmates said that I was strong, a love brain, and I couldn't let go of my ex-boyfriend until now, but I want to say that I didn't like him very much after holding on for so long, I just wanted to figure out why I broke up at that time. I suddenly felt so stupid, because I couldn't ask the answer at all, and even if I did, it wouldn't be the answer I wanted.

    And what about the favorite high school classmates I'm going to talk about today? In my sophomore year of high school, there was a male classmate sitting behind me, he had a very good score in science, and if I didn't understand, I would turn around and ask him, and he would always tease me a few words, this, I'll tell you. Especially the tone, learn from me, hey, I'm a baby sound, and he ......I don't know why, but once a classmate joked that he might ......I didn't think about it because I still liked ...... at the timeAfter that, we talked about studying, chatted, and became good friends.

    I forgot to say that because the last word of his name is the same as my brother, I call him little brother, and naturally I became his sister, funny no, I am more than one meter five, he is one meter eight, I am his sister. After that, he also fell in love, although he didn't like him at the time, but he was still quite uncomfortable. After graduating from high school, I also got in touch, and occasionally I teased him a few words, and he teased me a few words.

    The relationship has been maintained until now. Until a few days ago, I had a dream and dreamed of him, so I chatted with him for a few words, and then there was the current problem.

    Ou Ouou, after thinking about it for so long, I finally knew, it turned out to be the reason for that dream, and I liked him because of this dream. Then forget it, remember that dream well, see how you like him, don't be impulsive. If I can't continue to continue that dream, I think I'll definitely get the answer this time.

    Good night (

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    1. What to do if you like a good friend 1. If you have love for each other in the process of getting along with friends, then you must figure out whether your feelings for each other are love or because you are together every day, if you are sure that you have some special feelings with each other, you can try to confess to each other, but you must pay attention to the ways and means, and also explore the other party's mind. 2. Normal communication between friends is okay, but if you need to keep your distance once you have other feelings, you must be careful in the middle, if the pinch is not good, it is easy to make the relationship between two people more stiff. You can try to talk to the other person, tell the other person what you feel inside, and then ask for the other person's opinion.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This kind of thing can't say a truth categorically, because you haven't figured out the other party's mind, to be honest, if you know that the other party also has a good impression of you, then you should get closer to the relationship instead of directly saying that I like you or something, so that for the other party, even if you like you, you will be scared and dare not answer, and you should think rationally, what is the best place to talk to you calmly, and don't be too impulsive, tactful, the most confessional, Don't say something like I like, can you date me, but it's better to say that please think about it, that will give them more space, your success rate will be higher, and they will have time to think quietly, instead of saying something that has not been thought through.

    If you know that the other person just sees you as a friend and doesn't mean that way, then you are still buried in your heart, and if you say it, then your friendship may break down and you may become strangers.

    Of course, if you don't know what the other person thinks, then you should be tempting, but it's best not to be too obvious.

    All in all, if you like Kenata, then you have to give the other person happiness, which is what a person should really do.

    I hope mine will help you again.

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